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A '''funeral''' is a [[ceremony]] marking a person's [[death]]. Funerary customs comprise the complex of beliefs and practices used by a culture to remember the dead, from the funeral itself, to various monuments, [[prayer]]s, and rituals undertaken in their honor. These customs vary widely between cultures, and between religious affiliations within cultures. In some cultures the dead are venerated; this is commonly called [[ancestor worship]].
  
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Funeral rites can be traced back to the most primitive of societies. In the [[Shanidar]] [[cave]] in [[Iraq]], [[Neanderthal]] [[skeleton]]s have been discovered with a characteristic layer of [[pollen]], which suggests that Neanderthals buried the dead with gifts of [[flower]]s. This has been interpreted as suggesting that Neanderthals believed in an [[afterlife]], were capable of [[mourning]] and most likely held some form of funeral ceremony when doing so.
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As the final ceremony in which those still alive can share on the earth with their loved ones, the funeral is a deeply meaningful event to all involved. [[Religion|Religious]] traditions reflect a variety of beliefs in death and the afterlife, and the relationship between the body left behind and its spirit. In many cases, despite feelings of loss, the funeral is a celebration of the life of the deceased.
  
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==History==
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[[Image:Muslim Funeral1.jpg|thumb|250px|A [[lithographic]] painting depicting a Muslim funeral procession in India, circa 1888.]]
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The word ''funeral'' comes from the [[Latin]] ''funus,'' which had a variety of meanings, often referring to the corpse and the funerary rites themselves.
  
A '''funeral''' is a [[ceremony]] marking a person's [[death]]. Funerary customs comprise the complex of beliefs and practices used by a culture to remember the dead, from the funeral itself, to various monuments, [[prayer]]s, and rituals undertaken in their honor. These customs vary widely between cultures, and between religious affiliations within cultures. In some cultures the dead are venerated; this is commonly called [[ancestor worship]]. The word ''funeral'' comes from the [[Latin]] ''funus'', which had a variety of meanings, including the corpse and the funerary rites themselves.
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The most simple and natural kind of funeral monuments, and therefore the most ancient and universal, consist of a mound of earth, or a heap of stones, raised over the body or ashes of the departed. Mention of such monuments has been made in the [[Book of Joshua]], and in [[Homer]] and [[Virgil]].
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{{readout||right|250px|Funeral rites can be traced back to the early human societies}}
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A place of [[burial]] amongst the [[Jews]] was never particularly determined. Ancient Jews had burial-places upon the highways, in gardens, and upon mountains. In the [[Hebrew Bible]], or the Christian [[Old Testament]], [[Abraham]] was buried with [[Sarah]], his wife, in the [[Cave of the Patriarchs|cave]] in Machpelah, the field he bought from Ephron the [[Hittites|Hittite]]. [[David]], king of [[Israel]], and the other kings after him, including [[Uzziah of Judah]], "rested with [their] ancestors" in the unknown burial field that pertained to the kings.
  
Funeral rites are as old as the human race itself.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} In the [[Shanidar]] [[cave]] in [[Iraq]], [[Neanderthal]] [[skeleton]]s have been discovered with a characteristic layer of [[pollen]], which suggests that [[Neanderthals]] buried the dead with gifts of [[flower]]s. This has been interpreted as suggesting that Neanderthals believed in an [[afterlife]], and in any case were aware of their own mortality and were capable of [[mourning]].  
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Primitive Greeks were buried in places prepared for burial purposes within their own homes. Later they established burial grounds in desert islands, and outside the walls of towns in order to secure them from disturbance, and themselves from the liability of catching infection from those who had died of contagious disorders.
  
==Religious funerals==
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In [[Japan]]ese history, famous leaders were often buried in [[tomb]]s. The oldest known burial chamber was that built between 230 B.C.E. and 220 B.C.E. in [[Sakurai, Nara|Sakurai]], [[Nara prefecture]], and called the ''Hokenoyama tomb.'' The tomb is 80 meters long; the chamber is seven meters long and 2.7 meters wide and contained a [[coffin]] five meters long and one meter wide.
  
===Catholic funerals===
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Many societies, stemming from the ancient Greeks and Romans to seventeenth century British, hired professional “mutes” and “mourners” to attend various funeral ceremonies an act the part of an appropriate attendee. The role of funeral mute is quite frequently depicted in [[art]], but in [[literature]] may be best known from [[Charles Dickens]]' "[[Oliver Twist]]." The main purpose of a funeral mute was to attend funerals wearing a sad, melancholy expression. The professional mourner, generally a woman, would shriek and wail, to encourage others to weep. These positions—mentioned in ancient Greek plays—were employed throughout Europe until the practice largely died out in the nineteenth century. Some of these funerary roles continue to exist in parts of Africa and the Middle East.
A '''Catholic Funeral''' refers to the [[funeral]] [[rite]]s specifically in use in the [[Roman Catholic Church]]. Within the church, they may also be reffered to as ''Ecclesiastical Funerals''. In Catholic funerals, the church seeks to provide spiritual support for the deceased and honor their bodies, as well as provide a measure of hope for the family and friends of the deceased.
 
  
Canons 1176-1185 of the 1983 Code of Canon Law specify the norms for Catholic funerals.<ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P4A.HTM |title=Code of Canon Law |publisher=Libreria Editrice Vaticana |accessdate=2007-07-24}}</ref>
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==Traditional funerals==
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[[Image:funeral.name.tribute.arp.jpg|thumb|right|250px|A floral name tribute (spelling out the word "[[Mother|MUM]]") at a funeral in [[England]].]]
  
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In most cultural groups and regions, including the [[United States]], [[Canada]] and [[Great Britain]], the funeral [[ritual]]s can be divided into three parts including a visitation, funeral, and [[burial]] service.
  
In the years before the [[Second Vatican Council]] the rites used were different than those used today.
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===Visitation===
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At the ''visitation,'' "[[viewing]]" or "[[wake]]," the [[embalmed]] body of the deceased person is placed on display in a [[coffin]] or casket. The viewing often takes place on one or two evenings before the funeral. The body is traditionally dressed in the decedent's best clothes, which may be slit up the back to facilitate dressing the body. In recent times there has been more variation in what the decedent is dressed in. The body may also be adorned with the usual [[jewelry]], including a watch. The jewelry and watch will remain in the casket after burial, but removed before [[cremation]].
  
The Catholic Funeral Mass was called the [[Requiem]] [[Mass]] - coming from the first line of the [[Introit]] used in such Masses: ''Réquiem, ætérnam dona eis, Dómine; ex lux perpétua lúceat eis.'' ''(Eternal rest give to them, O Lord; and let perpetual light shine upon them)''. Such Masses had a number of differences from other Masses, mainly taking a solemn character.  There was much more of a focus on the sinful nature of humanity and the judgment that came at the end of a life.  The priest was [[vestment|vested]] in the [[Liturgical colours|liturgical color]] [[black]], the burning of [[incense]] at the Introit and Gospel were omitted, as was the psalm ''Judica me Deus'' and the kiss of peace.  If a deacon was present to chant the Gospel, the acolytes bearing candles were not used in the Funeral Mass.  Additionally no blessing was given.  The sequence [[Dies Irae|Dies Iræ]], or ''Day of Wrath'' was included in the Mass - which spoke of the upcoming ending of the world and the judgment that followed.
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Frequently, attendees of the wake may sign a book kept by the deceased's survivors to record who attended the wake. In addition, a family may choose to display [[photograph]]s taken of the deceased person during his or her lifetime, prized possessions belonging to the deceased or other items representing his or her hobbies or accomplishments.
  
The bier holding the body was positioned in the middle of the church.  If the decedent was a member of the [[laity]] their feet would face the [[altar]]. If the decedent was a member of the clergy the body the head would face the altar. <ref>{{cite book | last = Juergens | first = Sylvester P. | title = The New Marian Missal For Daily Mass | publisher = Regina Press, New York | date = 1960 | pages = 1376, 1387-1388|}}</ref>
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The viewing can be either "open casket," in which the embalmed body of the deceased has been clothed and treated with cosmetics for display, or "closed casket," in which the coffin is closed. The coffin may be closed if the body suffered damage in death, was deformed from illness, or if someone in the group is emotionally unable to cope with viewing the corpse.
  
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The decedent's closest friends and relatives who are unable to attend frequently send [[flower]]s to the viewing. The viewing typically takes place at a [[funeral home]], or [[church]]. In some circumstances the body is taken to the decedent’s home or that of a relative for viewing. The viewing often ends with a [[prayer]] service.
  
After the [[Second Vatican Council]], a number of the rites associated with a funeral were changed in keeping with the directives of the Concil to reform the liturgy. The ''Consilium for the Implementation of the Constitution on the Liturgy'' removed those texts which they felt overemphasized judgment, fear, and despair - feeling that the Funeral Mass should urge hope and faith in the resurrection. <ref>Bugnini, Annibale: ''The Reform of the Liturgy : 1948–1975'', (The Liturgical Press, 1990), Chap.46.II.1, p.773.</ref>
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===Funeral===
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The memorial service, often called a funeral, is generally officiated by [[clergy]] from the decedent's or bereaved's [[church]] or [[religion]]. A funeral may take place at either a [[funeral home]] or church. A funeral is usually held three to five days after the death of the deceased.
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[[Image:Ronald Reagan casket on caisson during funeral procession.jpg|thumb|250 px|Members of a joint honor guard escort the caisson bearing President Ronald Reagan's flag-draped casket during his funeral procession]]
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The deceased is usually transported from the funeral home to a church in a [[hearse]], a specialized vehicle designed to carry casketed remains. The deceased most often is transported in a procession, with the hearse, funeral service vehicles, and private automobiles traveling in a procession to the church or other location where the services will be held. In a number of jurisdictions, special laws cover funeral processions, such as requiring other vehicles to give right-of-way to a funeral procession. Funeral service vehicles may be equipped with light bars and special flashers to increase their visibility on the roads. After the funeral service, if the deceased is to be buried the funeral procession will proceed to a [[cemetery]] if not already there. If the deceased is to be [[cremation|cremated]] the funeral procession may then proceed to the crematory.
  
The modern funeral Mass, or ''Mass of Christian Burial'' focuses on the fact that rather than ending that life has changed. Instead of the black vestments of previous years, the priest may be vested in [[white]],however black vestements are still permitted as are violet. Texts such as ''Dies Iræ'' are no longer used in funeral Masses.  The Mass consists of the reception of the body at the church, liturgies of the word and Eucharist, and final committal.<ref>{{cite web | title = Spiritual Guidance Order of Christian Funerals—Part II | publisher = Archdiocese of Milwaukee Catholic Cemeteries | date = 2007 | url = http://www.cemeteries.org/services0028.asp | accessdate = 2007-07-26}}</ref>
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Funeral services include [[prayer]]s, readings from the [[Bible]] or other sacred texts, [[hymn]]s sung either by the attendees or a hired vocalist, or words of comfort by the [[clergy]]. Frequently, a relative or close friend will be asked to give a [[eulogy]], which details happy memories and accomplishments. Sometimes the delivering of the eulogy is done by the clergy.
  
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During funerals, [[bagpipes]] are sometimes played. During the funeral and at the burial service, the casket may be covered with a large arrangement of flowers, called a casket spray. If the decedent served in a branch of the Armed forces, the casket may be covered with a national flag.
  
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===Burial service===
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[[Image:Millais - Das Tal der Stille.jpg|left|250 px|thumb|[[John Everett Millais]], The Vale of Rest]]
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A [[burial]] service is conducted at the side of the [[grave]], [[tomb]], [[mausoleum]], or [[cremation|crematorium]], at which the body of the decedent is buried or cremated. Sometimes, the burial service will immediately follow the funeral, in which case a funeral procession travels from the site of the [[memorial service]] to the burial site. Other times, the burial service takes place at a later time, when the final resting place is ready. If the decedent served in a branch of the [[Armed forces]], [[military rites]] are often accorded at the burial service.
  
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In many religious traditions, [[pallbearer]]s, usually males who are close, but not immediate relatives, such as cousins, nephews, or grandchildren, or friends of the decedent, will carry the casket to the hearse, and from the hearse to the site of the [[burial]] service.
  
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According to most religions, [[coffin]]s are kept closed during the burial ceremony. In [[Eastern Orthodox Church|Eastern Orthodox]] funerals, the coffins are reopened just before burial to allow loved ones to look at the deceased one last time and give their final farewells. Morticians will typically ensure that all jewelry that was displayed at the wake is in the casket before it is buried or entombed. There is an exception, in the case of [[cremation]]. Such items tend to melt or suffer damage, so they are usually removed before the body goes into the furnace.
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'''Antyesti'''  or [[Hindu]] [[Funeral|funeral rites]], is an important sacrament of Hindu society. Extensive texts of such rites are available, particularly in the [[Garuda Purana]]. There is wide inconsistency in theory and practice, and the procedures differ from place to place. Further, these rites also differ depending on the [[caste]], [[jāti]], [[social group]], and the status of the deceased person.  
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In many traditions, a meal or other gathering often follows the burial service. This gathering may be held at the decedent's [[church]] or another off-site location. Some funeral homes have large spaces set aside to provide funeral dinners. On occasion, the family of the deceased may wish to hold a small service, with just the decedent's closest family members and friends attending. This type of ceremony is often closed to the public, and one may only go to the funeral if he or she was invited. Reasons vary but may include the burial of an infant, the burial of a criminal, general emotional shock, or celebrity status.  
  
[[Image:Funeral in Bali - March 2004.JPG|thumb|A funeral in [[Bali]]]]
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If a [[state funeral]] is offered and accepted by the decedent's immediate family, a public funeral would ensue. In some cases, the family may schedule a private funeral with a public memorial service at a later time.
  
About 4000 years before, in the [[Indian subcontinent]], human bodies were either exposed to the elements of nature, and to the birds, or buried in the earth, in a river, and sometimes a cave or an  urn{{Fact|date=February 2007}}. Centuries later, cremation became the usual mode of disposal of the dead bodies, with certain exceptions - the exceptions being bodies of infants{{Fact|date=February 2007}}, yogis, sadhus, and a few others. Cremation became popular due to the notion that the soul cannot enter a new body until its former one has totally disappeared, and cremation was considered the fastest way to expeditiously dispose of the dead bodies.  
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===Funeral etiquette===
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Traditional etiquette often holds that mourners and other attendees at a funeral wear semi-formal clothing, such as a [[suit]] and tie for men or a dress for women. The most traditional and respectful color is solid black. Wearing short skirts, low-cut tops, or, at Western funerals, a large amount of white other than a men's business shirt or woman's blouse, or a military uniform, is often seen as disrespectful. Women who are [[grief|grieving]] the death of their husband or a close partner sometimes wear a dark veil that conceals the face.
  
Hindu funeral rites may generally be divided into four stages:
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==Funeral variations==
*The rituals and rites to be performed when the person is believed to be on the death bed.
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===Ancient Roman funerals===
*Rites which accompany the disposal of the dead body.
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In [[ancient Rome]], the eldest surviving male of the household, or the ''[[pater familias]],'' was summoned to the death-bed, where he attempted to catch and inhale the last breath of the decedent. Roman funerals of the socially prominent were usually undertaken by professional undertakers called ''libitinarii.'' Though no direct description has been passed down of Roman funeral rites, these rites are believed to have included a public procession to the tomb or pyre where the body was to be cremated. The most noteworthy thing about this procession was that the survivors bore [[mask]]s bearing the images of the family's deceased ancestors. The right to carry the masks in public was eventually restricted to families prominent enough to have held [[curule]] magistracies. [[mime artist|Mime]]s, [[dance]]rs, and [[musician]]s hired by the undertakers, as well as professional female mourners, took part in these processions. Less well to do Romans could join benevolent funerary societies, or ''collegia funeraticia,'' who undertook these rites on their behalf.
*Rites which enable the soul of the dead to transit successfully from the stage of a ghost ([[Hungry ghost|preta]]) to the realm of the ancestors, the [[Pitrs]].
 
*Rites performed in honor of the [[Pitrs]].
 
  
Procedures for cremation vary from place to place. Immediately after the death has the body is placed on the floor with the head pointing towards the North which is the direction of the dead. An oil lamp is light and placed near dead body, this lamp is kept burning continuously for the first three days following the death. In Hinduism, the dead body is considered to be symbol of great impurity hence miminal physical contact with the dead body is maintained, perhaps to avoid the spread of infections or germs. Most often the dead body is bathed by purified water, and then dressed in new clothes, if the dead was a male or a widow then generally white clothes are used,whereas if the dead was a married women with her husband still alive or a young unmarried girl, then the body is dressed either in red or yellow. Sacred ash (bhasma) is applied on the forehead of the deceased, especially for the worshippers of Lord Shiva (Saivites), otherwise sandalwood paste is applied on the forehead, if the dead was a worshipper for Lord Vishnu (Vaishnava). Further, few drops of the holy Ganges water may be put into the mouth of the deceased so that the soul may attain liberation, also few leaves of the holy basil (tulsi) are placed on the right side of the dead body. The body then may be adorned with jewels, and placed lying on a stretcher, with the head pointing towards the south, which is the direction of the dead. Sometimes the body may be kept in a sitting position too. The stretcher is adorned with different flowers including roses, jasmine, and marigolds, and the body is almost covered with the flowers. Thereafter, the close relatives of the deceased person carry the stretcher on their shoulders to the cremation ground. If it is located at a distance, the stretcher is placed on a cart pulled by animals like bullocks. Nowadays vehicles are also used.
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Nine days after the disposal of the body, by burial or cremation, a feast was given, called a ''cena novendialis,'' and a libation poured over the grave or the ashes. Since most Romans were cremated, the ashes were typically collected in an [[urn]] and placed in a niche in a collective tomb called a ''columbarium.'' During this nine day period, the house was considered to be tainted, or ''funesta,'' and was hung with [[Taxus baccata|yew]] or [[cypress]] branches to warn by passers. At the end of the period, the house was swept in an attempt to purge it of the dead person's [[spirit]].
  
The cremation ground is called Shmashana (in [[Sanskrit]]), and traditionally it is located near a river, if not on the river bank itself. There, a pyre is prepared, on which the corpse is laid with its feet facing southwards, so that it can walk in this direction, as this is the direction of the dead. The jewels, if any, are removed. Thereafter, the chief mourner (generally the eldest son) walks around the pyre three times keeping the body to his left. While walking he sprinkles water and sometimes [[ghee]] onto the pyre from a vessel. He then sets the pyre alight with a torch of flame. The beginning of the cremation heralds the start of the traditional mourning period, which usually ends on the morning of the 13th day after death. When the fire consumes the body, which may take a few hours, the mourners return home.  During this mourning period the family of the dead are bounded by many rules and regulations of ritual impurity. Immediately after the cremation the entire family is expected to have a bath. One or two days after the funeral, the chief mourner returns to the cremation ground to collect the mortal remains and put them in an urn. These remains are then immersed in a river. Those who can afford it may go to select places like [[Varanasi]], [[Haridwar]], [[Allahabad]], [[Srirangam]] and [[Kanya Kumari]] to perform this rite of immersion of mortal remains.
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The Romans prohibited burning or burying in the city, both from a sacred and civil consideration, so that the priests might not be contaminated by touching a dead body, and so that houses would not be endangered by funeral fires.
  
The [[Hungry ghost|preta]]-[[karma]] is an important aspect of Hindu funeral rites, and its objective is to facilitate the migration of the soul of the dead person from the status of a preta (which is akin to a ghost or spirit) to the abode of the ancestors (that is, the abode of the [[Pitrs]]){{Fact|date=February 2007}}. It is believed that if this stage of funeral rites is not performed or performed incorrectly, the spirit of the dead person shall become a ghost ([[Bhūta|bhuta]]){{Fact|date=February 2007}}. The rites generally last for ten or eleven days, at the end of which the preta is believed to join the abode of the ancestors. Thereafter, they are worshipped during the 'shraddha' ceremonies.  
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The Romans commonly built tombs for themselves during their lifetime; tombs of the rich were usually constructed of [[marble]], the ground enclosed with walls, and planted with trees. Common sepulchers were usually built below ground, and called ''hypogea.'' Here niches were cut into the walls, in which the urns were placed; due to their resemblance to the niche of a pigeon-house, these were often called “columbaria.
  
If a person dies in a different country, in a war, or drowns, or in any other manner that his body cannot be retrieved for the antyesti, his funeral rites may be performed without the dead body, and similar procedures are followed had the dead body been available. If such a person appears (that is, he has in fact not died), then "resurrection" rituals are mandatory before his being admitted to the world of the living{{Fact|date=February 2007}}.
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===Christian funerals===
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Among Christians, a [[Catholic]] funeral refers to the funeral [[rite]]s specifically in use in the [[Roman Catholic Church]]. Within the church, they may also be referred to as ''ecclesiastical funerals.'' In Catholic funerals, the church seeks to provide spiritual support for the deceased and honor their bodies, as well as provide a measure of hope for the family and friends of the deceased.
  
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In the years before the [[Second Vatican Council]] the rites used were different than those used today. The Catholic Funeral Mass was originally termed the [[Requiem]] [[Mass]]. Such Masses had a number of differences from traditional Masses, mainly taking a more solemn character and more of a focus on the sinful nature of humanity and the judgment that came at the end of a life. The priest was [[vestment|vested]] in the [[Liturgical colors|liturgical color]] [[black]], and no blessing was given. The sequence [[Dies Irae|Dies Iræ]], or ''Day of Wrath,'' was included in the Mass, which spoke of the upcoming ending of the world and the judgment that followed.
  
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After the [[Second Vatican Council]], a number of the rites associated with a funeral were changed; many texts and scriptures were removed which overemphasized judgment, fear, and despair. The modern funeral Mass, or the ''Mass of Christian Burial'' focuses on the fact that rather than ending, that life has changed. Instead of the black vestments of previous years, the priest may be vested in [[white]], [[violet]], or, on occasion, [[black]]. The Mass consists of the reception of the body at the church, liturgies of the word and Eucharist, and the [[final committal]].<ref> Archdiocese of Milwaukee Catholic Cemeteries, The Mass of Christian Burial "Spiritual Guidance Order of Christian Funerals—Part II."</ref>
  
===Islamic funerals===
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===Hindu funerals===
[[Image:Muslim Funeral1.jpg|thumb|250px|A [[lithographic]] painting depicting a muslim funeral procession in India, circa 1888]]
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[[Image:Funeral in Bali - March 2004.JPG|thumb|250 px|A funeral in [[Bali]]]]
'''Islamic funeral''' or funeral [[rite|rites]] in Islam is about specific rites followed in Islam for burying the dead.  
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''Antyesti,'' or [[Hindu]] funeral rites, form an important sacrament of Hindu society. The funeral rites often differ in theory, practice, and procedure depending on the [[caste]], [[jāti]], or the [[social status]] of the deceased person.  
  
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Hindu traditions involve [[cremation]] to dispose of the dead. Cremation practices became popular due to the notion that the [[soul]] cannot enter a new body until its former one has completely disappeared; cremation was found to be the fastest way to expeditiously dispose of such bodies.
  
Burial [[ritual|rituals]] include:<ref name="cul">Ghamidi(2001), [http://www.renaissance.com.pk/janisla2y2.html Customs and Behavioral Laws]</ref>
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Hindu funeral rites are often divided into four stages. The first stage is comprised of all rituals and rights to be performed when the body is nearing [[death]]. The second state consists of various rites to accompany the disposal of the body after death has occurred. The third stage is comprised of the rites to enable the soul of the dead to transit successfully from the stage of a spirit to the realm of the ancestors. The last stage is comprised of the rites performed in honor of the [[Pitrs]].
* Bathing the dead body,<ref>[[Sahih Bukhari]] 1254</ref> except in extraordinary circumstances as in [[battle of Uhud]].<ref>[[Sahih Bukhari]] 1346</ref>
 
* Enshrouding dead body in coffin cloth.<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] 943</ref>
 
* Funeral prayer.<ref name="pray">Ghamidi, [http://www.renaissance.com.pk/DecIslaw2y5.htm Various types of the prayer]</ref>
 
* Burial of the dead body in a grave
 
* Positioning the deceased so that the head is faced towards Mecca
 
* Burial should normally take place as soon as possible
 
  
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Hindu procedures for cremation vary from place to place. Generally, after death, the body is placed on the floor with the head pointing north which marks the direction of the dead. An oil lamp is lit and placed near the body and is kept burning continuously for the first three days following the death. In Hinduism, the dead body is considered to be symbol of great impurity and there is minimal physical contact with the dead body by the living. Most often the dead body is bathed in purified water, and dressed in new clothes. Sacred ash ''“bhasma”'' is applied to the forehead of the deceased. Further, drops of the holy [[Ganges]] water may be put into the mouth of the deceased so that the soul may attain liberation, while leaves of the holy basil ''“tulsi”'' are placed to the right of the body. The body may then be adorned with jewels and placed on a stretcher. The stretcher is adorned with different flowers including [[rose]]s, [[jasmine]], and [[marigold]]s; the body itself is almost completely covered with flowers. Thereafter, the close relatives of the deceased person carry the stretcher on their shoulders to the cremation ground.
The corpse is washed (bathed): The main factor in this step is to physically cleanse the corpse. The method, the style and the accessories used for bathing the corpse may vary from time to time and from place to place. Bathing a corpse, in whatever method, is a part of the [[Sunnah]] of the [[Islamic prophet]] [[Muhammad]]<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.344 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 344-358]</ref>, and therefore a part of the Islamic Shari`ah.
 
  
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The cremation ground is traditionally located near a river, if not on the river bank itself. There, a pyre is prepared, on which the corpse is laid. The jewels, if any, are removed. Thereafter, the chief mourner, generally the eldest son, walks around the pyre three times keeping the body to his left. While walking he sprinkles water and sometimes [[ghee]] onto the pyre from a vessel. He then sets the pyre alight with a torch of flame. The beginning of the cremation heralds the start of the traditional [[mourning]] period, which usually ends on the morning of the thirteenth day after death. When the fire consumes the body, which may take a few hours, the mourners return home. One or two days after the funeral, the chief mourner returns to the cremation ground to collect the mortal remains and put them in an urn. These remains are then immersed into a body of water, usually a river.
The [[corpse]] is wrapped in a simple plain cloth. The cloth is called 'kafan' and the process 'takfeen'.<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.353 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 353-358]</ref> The main factor in this step is to respectfully wrap the corpse in a cloth so that its private parts are not visible to others. The style of this wrapping and the material and the color of the cloth used for this wrapping may vary from place to place and from time to time. However, the important aspect in the style of wrapping and the material used is that it should be a simple rather than a gaudy style and the cloth used for this purpose should also not be very flashy. It is for this reason that Muslims have generally preferred to use white cotton cloth to serve as 'kafan'. It is allowed to put some perfume on the cloth.
 
  
====Funeral prayer====
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===Islamic funerals===
The Muslims of the community gather to offer their collective prayers for the forgiveness of the dead. This prayer has been generally termed as the [[Salat al-Janazah|Janazah  prayer]].<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.359 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 359]</ref>
 
 
 
The prayer is offered in a particular way. Like [[Eid]] prayer, this prayer is also prayed with extra (four<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.404 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 404]</ref>) [[Takbir]]s, but there is no [[Ruku']] ''(bowing)'' and [[Sujud]] ''(prostrating)''. [[Supplication]] for the deceased and mankind is recited. In extraordinary circumstances, the prayer can be postponed and prayed at a later time as done in the [[Battle of Uhud]].<ref name="pray"/>
 
It becomes obligatory for every muslim adult male to perform the funeral prayer upon the death of any muslim, however when it is performed by the few it alleviates that obligation for all.
 
 
 
====Burial====
 
The deceased is then taken for burial (al-Dafin). The style of the [[Grave (burial)|grave]] and that of the burial may vary from time to time and place to place. The Islamic directive is restricted to a respectful burial in the ground.
 
 
 
[[Image:Muslim_grave.jpg|thumb|220 px|Burial grave of a muslim.]]
 
 
 
The grave itself should be aligned on a northeast to southwest axis, facing [[Mecca]]. The wrapped body is placed directly into the ground, without any kind of [[casket]]. This cannot be done in some places because either the soil is too loose or wet, or because of laws. In that case, the shrouded corpse is placed in a dirt-filled concrete vault, in order to keep within the symbolism of the religion and the requirements of the government. Graves are to be raised between four and twelve inches from the ground. This is to prevent anyone from sitting or walking on the grave, which is strictly forbidden. It is forbidden to level the grave, as is the practice of many [[cemeteries]] in order to make the sites easier to maintain. These problems have led to the creation of private, all-Muslim cemeteries, or separate sections of cemeteries that allow for the adherence of these many specifications. [[Headstone|Graves markers]] are simple, because outwardly lavish displays are discouraged in Islam. Muslims believe that money spent on such things would be better spent through charity or similar. Many times graves may even be unmarked, or marked only with a simple [[wreath]]. However, it is becoming more common for family members to erect grave monuments.
 
 
 
Only men are allowed to attend the actual graveside service<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.368 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 368]</ref>. The body is laid on its right side, with the head facing Mecca, and the shroud is removed from the face. Those present at the grave each take their turn in pouring three handfuls of soil into the grave while reciting "We created you from it, and return you into it, and from it we will raise you a second time," Surah 20:55. More prayers are then said, asking for forgiveness of the deceased, and reminding the dead of his or her profession of faith.
 
 
 
[[Image:Burial Grave.jpg|thumb|150 px|Muslim men finishing a grave after a recent burial]]
 
After the burial, the Muslims who have gathered to paying their respects to the dead collectively pray for the forgiveness of the dead. This collective prayer is the last formal collective prayer for the dead.
 
 
 
====Mourning====
 
Loved ones and relatives are to observe a 3-day [[mourning]] period<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.369 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 369-371]</ref>. Mourning is observed in Islam by increased devotion, receiving visitors and condolences, and avoiding decorative clothing and jewelry. Widows observe an extended mourning period ([[Iddah]]), 4 months and 10 days long,<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.370 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 370-371]</ref> in accordance with the Qur'an 2:234. During this time, she is not to remarry, move from her home, or wear decorative clothing or jewelry.
 
 
 
Grief at the death of a beloved person is normal, and weeping for the dead is allowed in Islam<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html Volume 2, Book 23, Number 391]</ref>. It is however prohibited to express grief by wailing (Bewailing refers to mourning in a loud voice), shrieking, beating the chest and cheeks, tearing hair or clothes, breaking objects, scratching faces or speaking phrases that make a Muslim lose faith<ref>[[Sahih Muslim]] [http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/023.sbt.html#002.023.375 Volume 2, Book 23, Number 375-393]</ref>.
 
 
 
==== Directives for widows ====
 
Qur'an prohibits [[widow]]s to engage themselves for four [[lunar month]]s and ten days, after the death of their husbands. According to Qur'an:
 
<blockquote>And those of you who die and leave widows behind, they should keep themselves in waiting for four months and ten days. Then when they have fulfilled their term, there is no blame on you about what they do with themselves in accordance with the norms [of society]. And Allah is well acquainted with what you do. And there is also no blame on you if you tacitly send a marriage proposal to these women or hold it in your hearts. Allah knows that you would definitely talk to them. [Do so] but do not make a secret contract. Of course you can say something in accordance with the norms [of the society]. And do not decide to marry until the law reaches its term. And know that Allah has knowledge of what is in your hearts; so be fearful of Him and know that Allah is Most forgiving and Most Forbearing.([[Qur'an]] 2:234-235)</blockquote>
 
  
Islamic scholars consider this directive a balance between mourning of husband's death and protection of widow from censure that she became interested in re-marrying soon after her husband’s death.<ref>Islahi(1986), pp. 546</ref> This is also to ascertain whether a lady is pregnant or not.<ref>Shehzad Saleem. ''[http://www.renaissance.com.pk/Marislaw2y4.html The Social Directives of Islam: Distinctive Aspects of Ghamidi’s Interpretation]'', [[Al-Mawrid|Renaissance]]. March, 2004.</ref>
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[[Islam]]ic funerals follow specific rites and rituals for burying the dead, and are performed as soon as possible following death. The first of such rituals is to bathe the dead body to physically cleanse the corpse. The second is to enshroud the body in a simple plain cloth, known as coffin cloth or ''kafan.'' The main factor in this step is to respectfully wrap the corpse in a cloth so that its private parts are not visible to others. This is followed by a traditional funeral prayer in which the Muslims of the community gather to offer collective prayers for the forgiveness of the dead. This prayer has been generally termed as the [[Salat al-Janazah|Janazah prayer]].  
  
Husbands should make a [[Will (law)|will]] in favor of their wives for the provision of one year’s residence and maintenance, except if the wives themselves leave the house or take any other similar step. As stated in Qur'an:
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The next stage consists of the burial of the body in a grave, positioning the deceased’s head toward [[Mecca]] in a grave aligned on a northeast to southwest axis. The wrapped body is placed directly into the ground, without any kind of [[casket]]. Muslim graves are to be raised between four and twelve inches from the ground. This is to prevent anyone from sitting or walking on the grave, which is strictly forbidden. [[Headstone|Graves markers]] are simple as outwardly lavish displays are discouraged; some graves are left unmarked, or marked only with a simple [[wreath]]. Only men are allowed to attend the actual graveside service.
<blockquote>And those of you who die and leave widows should bequeath for their widows a year’s provision and [bequeath] that [in this period] they shall not be turned out of their residences; but if they themselves leave the residence, there is no blame on you for what they do with themselves according to the norms of society. And Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise.([[Qur'an]] 2:240)</blockquote>
 
  
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Loved ones and relatives are to observe a three-day [[mourning]] period. Mourning is observed in Islam by increased devotion, receiving visitors and condolences, and avoiding decorative clothing and jewelry. Widows observe an extended mourning period, or [[Iddah]], lasting four months and ten days long. During this time, the widow is not to remarry, move from her home, or wear decorative clothing or jewelry.
  
 
===Jewish funerals===
 
===Jewish funerals===
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Bereavement in Judaism is a combination of [[minhag]], or "traditional custom," and [[mitzvot]], or "commandments" derived from [[Judaism]]'s classical [[Torah]] and [[Rabbinical literature|rabbinic]] texts. However, the details of observance and practice vary according to each [[Jew]]ish community.
  
'''Bereavement in Judaism''' ({{Hebrew Name|אבלות|aveilut|"mourning"}}) is a combination of [[minhag]] ("traditional custom") and [[mitzvot]] ("commandments") derived from [[Judaism]]'s classical [[Torah]] and [[Rabbinical literature|rabbinic]] texts.  The details of observance and practice vary according to each [[Jew]]ish community.
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After death, a ''chevra kadisha'' which acts as a [[burial]] society, is loosely structured to organize Jewish men and women to ensure the bodies of Jews are prepared for burial according to [[Jewish law]]. Members ensure that the bodies of the deceased are protected from desecration, willful or not, until burial. Two of the main requirements are the showing of proper respect for the body of the deceased, and the ritual cleansing of the body and dressing for burial.
 
 
====Upon receiving news of the passing====
 
Upon the time of the passing, or when receiving the news of the passing, the following blessing is recited:
 
 
 
{{Hebrew paragraph|ברוך אתה [[Tetragrammaton|ה']] [[Elohim|א‑לוהינו]] מלך העולם, דין האמת.
 
‏}}
 
 
 
:Transliteration: ''Barukh ata Adonai Eloheinu melekh ha‑olam, Dayan h'emet.''
 
 
 
:Translation: "Blessed are You, {{Lord}}, our God, King of the universe, the True Judge."
 
 
 
====Chevra kadisha====
 
 
 
A ''chevra kadisha'' (חברה קדישא "holy group") acting as a [[burial]] society is a loosely structured, but generally closed, organization of Jewish men and women who ensure the bodies of Jews are prepared for burial according to [[halakha|Jewish law]], and that the bodies of the deceased are protected from desecration, willful or not, until burial. Two of the main requirements are the showing of proper respect for the body of the deceased, and the ritual cleansing of the body and dressing for burial.
 
 
 
Many local ''chevra kadishas'' in urban areas are affiliated with local [[synagogue]]s, and they often own their own burial plots in various local cemeteries. Some Jews pay an annual token membership fee to the ''chevra kadisha'' of their choice, so that when the time comes, the society will not only attend to the body of the deceased as befits Jewish law, but will also ensure burial in a plot that it controls at an appropriate nearby [[Jewish cemetery]].
 
 
 
If no [[gravedigger]]s are available, then it is additionally the function of the male society members to ensure that graves are dug. In [[Israel]], members of ''chevra kadishas'' consider it an honor to not only to prepare the body for burial but also to dig the grave for a fellow Jew's body, particularly if the deceased was known to be a righteous person.
 
 
 
Many burial societies hold one or two annual fast days and organize regular study sessions to remain up to date with the relevant articles of Jewish law.  In addition, most burial societies also support families during the ''[[Shiva (Judaism)|shiva]]'' (traditional week of mourning) by arranging [[Jewish services|prayer services]], preparing meals, and providing other services for the mourners.
 
 
 
=====Preparing the body—Taharah=====
 
There are three major stages to preparing the body for burial: washing ''(rechitzah)'', ritual purification ''(taharah)'', and dressing ''(halbashah)''.  The term ''taharah'' is used to refer both to the overall process of burial preparation, and to the specific step of ritual purification.
 
 
 
The general sequence of steps for performing ''taharah'' is as follows.  Blessings, prayers, and readings from Torah, [[Psalms]] and other Jewish scripture may be recited at several points:
 
 
 
# The body ''(guf)'' is uncovered. (It has been covered with a sheet awaiting ''taharah''.)
 
# The body is washed carefully. As all blood must be buried along with the deceased, any open bleeding is stopped. The body is thoroughly cleaned of dirt, body fluids and solids, and anything else that may be on the skin.  All jewelry is removed.
 
# The body is purified with water, either by immersion in a ''[[mikvah]]'' or by pouring a continuous stream in a prescribed manner.
 
# The body is dried (according to most customs).
 
# The body is dressed in traditional burial clothing ''([[tachrichim]])''.  A sash ''(avnet)'' is wrapped around the clothing and tied in the form of the Hebrew letter "shin," representing one of the names of God.
 
# The coffin ''(aron)'' (if there is a coffin) is prepared by removing any linings or other embellishments.  A sheet ''(sovev)'' is laid into the coffin. Outside the Land of Israel, if the person wore a prayer shawl ''([[tallit]])'' during their life, one is laid in the coffin for wrapping the body once it is placed there. One of the corner fringes ''([[tzitzit]])'' is removed from the shawl to signify that it will no longer be used for prayer in life.
 
# The body is then lifted into the coffin and wrapped in the prayer shawl and sheet.  Soil from [[Israel]] ''(afar)'', if available, is placed over various parts of the body and sprinkled in the coffin.
 
# The coffin is closed.
 
 
 
Once the body is dressed, the [[coffin]] is sealed. Unlike other religions, in Judaism there is traditionally no viewing of the body and no "open casket" at the funeral, though the immediate family is allowed a visitation right prior to the coffin being sealed to pay their final respects to the deceased. One slight exception is that some [[History of the Jews in Germany|Jews of German extraction]] ("[[Yekke]]s") will slide open the coffin on the side where the feet are located, and the closest relative places a sort of a sock on one of the feet.
 
 
 
In [[Israel]] many do not use caskets at all, following the Eastern European custom, but rather wrap the body in thicker white shrouds. The body is carried to the grave covered on the outside by a ''tallit''.
 
 
 
Once the coffin is closed, the ''chevra'' then asks for forgiveness from the deceased for anything that they may have done to offend them or not show proper respect during the ''taharah''.  If the body is not taken immediately for burial, guards or watchers ''(shomrim)'' sit with the coffin until it is taken for burial.  It is traditional to recite [[Psalms]] during this time.
 
 
 
====Funeral service====
 
In the [[United States]] and [[Canada]], a Jewish funeral service usually commences officially at a [[funeral home]] (and occasionally a [[synagogue]] or [[temple]]) for an ordinary Jew, and from there the mourners and their entourage proceed to a Jewish cemetery for the burial. In the case of a more prominent person, such as a well-known communal leader, [[rabbi]], [[rebbe]], or ''[[rosh yeshiva]]'', the entire service with eulogies can be held at the synagogue or ''[[yeshiva]]'' that the deceased was affiliated with.
 
 
 
=====Eulogies=====
 
A ''hesped'' is a [[eulogy]], and it is common that several people speak at the start of the ceremony at the funeral home, as well as prior to burial at the gravesite, though some people specify in their wills that nothing should be said about them. On certain days, such as on ''[[Chol HaMo'ed]]'' ("intermediate days" of [[Jewish holiday]]s), eulogies are forbidden.
 
 
 
====Burial====
 
''Kevura'', or burial, should take place as soon as possible after death. The ''[[Torah]]'' requires burial as soon as possible, even for executed criminals <ref>[[Deuteronomy]] 21:23</ref>. This means that burial will usually take place on the same day as death, or, if not possible, the next day.
 
 
 
This custom probably originated from the fact that [[Israel]] was, and is, a country with a hot climate. In Biblical times, there were few ways of keeping the dead body from [[decomposing]]. Not only would this be generally undesirable, but allowing the dead body of any person to decompose would be showing that person great disrespect. Decomposition would have occurred especially quickly in Israel due to the constant heat.  Thus, the custom of burying the body as soon as possible. (Although the practice of [[embalming]] and [[Mummy|mummification]] had advanced to a high level in [[Egypt]], this, too, is considered disrespectful, since it involves a great deal of manipulation and the removal of bodily organs.)
 
 
 
Respect for the dead can be seen from many examples in the ''[[Torah]]'' and ''[[Tanakh]]''. For example, one of the last events in the ''Torah'' is the death of [[Moses]] when [[Names of God in Judaism|God himself]] buries him: "[God] buried him in the depression in the land of Moab, opposite Beth Peor. No man knows the place that he was buried, even to this day." ([[Deuteronomy]] 34:6) <ref>http://bible.ort.org/books/pentd2.asp?ACTION=displaypage&BOOK=5&CHAPTER=34</ref>
 
 
 
Additionally, the [[Cave of the Patriarchs]], the spiritual center of [[Hebron]], which was the first capital city of the [[Kingdom of Israel]] in the time of King [[David]], is called ''Me'arat HaMakhpela'' (מערת המכפלה) in [[Hebrew language|Hebrew]], which means "The [[Cave]] of the double caves or [[tomb]]s." This is because the cave's hidden ''twin caves'' are considered in Jewish tradition to be the burial place of four "pairs" of important Biblical couples: [[Adam and Eve]], [[Abraham]] and [[Sarah]], [[Isaac]] and [[Rebekah]], and [[Jacob]] and [[Leah]].   
 
 
 
Unclaimed dead ''(met mitzvah)'' require respectful burial.
 
 
 
Typically, when the funeral service has ended, the mourners (excluding the immediate family{{Fact|date=March 2007}}) come forward to fill the grave. Symbolically, this gives the mourners closure as they observe the grave being filled in. One custom is for people present at the funeral to take a spade or shovel, held pointing down instead of up, to show the antithesis of [[death]] to [[life]] and that this use of the shovel is different from all other uses, to throw three shovelfuls of dirt into the grave. When someone is finished, they put the shovel back in the ground, rather than handing it to the next person, so that they shouldn't pass along their [[grief]].
 
 
 
While the grave is being filled in, some Jews may throw in a handful of earth from [[Israel]] on the dead body.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
====Mourning====
 
=====Keriah and shiva=====
 
The mourners traditionally make a tear (''keriah'' קריעה) in an outer garment either before the funeral or immediately after it. The tear should be on the left side for a parent (over the heart and clearly visible) and on the right side for brothers, sisters, children and spouses (and does not need to be visible).
 
 
 
If a son or daughter of the deceased needs to change clothes during the ''[[Shiva (Judaism)|shiva]]'' period, he or she must tear the changed clothes.  No other family member is required to rend changed clothes during ''shiva''.  Neither son nor daughter may ever sew the rent clothes, but any other mourner may mend the clothing 30 days after the burial. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article.asp?AID=281558]
 
 
 
When they get home, the mourners do not shower or bathe for a week, do not wear leather shoes and/or jewelry, men do not shave, and in many communities large wall mirrors in the mourners' home are covered. It is customary for the mourners to sit on low stools or even the floor, symbolic of the emotional reality of being "brought low" by the grief.  The meal of consolation ([[Seudah#Seudat Havraah|''seudat havra'ah'']]), the first meal eaten on returning from the funeral, traditionally consists of hard boiled [[egg (food)|eggs]] and other round or oblong foods.  This is often credited to the Biblical story of [[Jacob]] purchasing the birthright from [[Esau]] with stewed [[lentils]]; it is traditionally stated that Jacob was cooking the lentils soon after the death of his grandfather, [[Abraham]].
 
 
 
During this time distant family and friends come to visit or call the mourners to comfort them via "''shiva'' calls."
 
 
 
=====Commencing and calculating the seven days of mourning=====
 
If the mourner returns from the cemetery after the burial before sundown then the day of the funeral is counted as the first of the seven days of mourning. Mourning generally concludes in the morning of the seventh day. No mourning may occur on [[Shabbat]] (the Jewish Sabbath), nor may the burial take place on Shabbat, but the day of Shabbat does count as one of the seven days. If a [[Jewish holiday]] occurs after the first day, that curtails the mourning period. If the funeral occurs during a festival, the start of the mourning period awaits the end of the festival. Some holidays, such as [[Rosh Hashanah]], cancel the mourning period completely.
 
 
 
====Stages of mourning====
 
===== ''Aninut'' =====
 
The first stage of mourning is ''aninut'', or "[intense] mourning." An ''onen'' (a person in ''aninut'') is considered to be in a state of total shock and disorientation. Thus the ''onen'' is exempt from performing [[Mitzvah|mitzvot]] that require action (and attention), such as [[List of Jewish prayers and blessings|praying and reciting blessings]], wearing ''[[tefillin]]'' (phylacteries), in order to be able to tend unhindered to the funeral arrangements.
 
 
 
''Aninut'' lasts until the burial is over, or, if a mourner unable to attend the funeral, from the moment he is no longer involved with the funeral itself.
 
 
 
===== ''Avelut'' =====
 
''Aninut'' is immediately followed by ''avelut'' ("mourning"). An ''avel'' ("mourner") does not listen to [[music]] or go to [[concert]]s, and does not attend any joyous events or parties such as [[Jewish view of marriage|marriages]] or [[B'nai Mitzvah|Bar or Bat Mitzvahs]], unless absolutely necessary. (If the date for such an event has already been set prior to the death, it is strictly forbidden for it to be postponed or canceled.)
 
 
 
''Avelut'' consists of three distinct periods.
 
 
 
====== ''Shiva'' – Seven days ======
 
 
 
The first stage of ''avelut'' is ''shiva'' ({{Hebrew Name 1|שבעה||"seven"|nobold}}), a week-long  period of grief and [[mourning]]. Observance of ''shiva'' is referred to by [[Jewish English languages|English-speaking Jews]] as "sitting ''shiva''." During this period, mourners traditionally gather in one home and receive visitors.
 
 
 
It is considered a great ''[[mitzvah]]'' (commandment) of kindness and compassion to pay a home visit to the mourners. Traditionally, no greetings are exchanged and visitors wait for the mourners to initiate conversation.  The mourner is under no obligation to engage in conversation and may, in fact, completely ignore his visitors.
 
 
 
There are various customs as to what to say when taking leave of the mourner(s). One of the most common is to say to them:
 
 
 
:''המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שער אבילי ציון וירושלים''
 
 
 
:''Hamakom y'nachem etkhem b'tokh sha'ar avelei tziyon viyrushalayim'':
 
 
 
:"May [[Names of God in Judaism|The Omnipresent]] comfort you among [all the] other mourners for [[Zion]] and [[Jerusalem]]."
 
 
 
Depending on their community's customs, others may also add such wishes as: "You should have no more ''tza'ar'' ('pain')" or "You should have only ''simchas'' ('celebrations')" or "we should hear only good news ''(besorot tovot)'' from each other" or "I wish you long life."
 
 
 
Traditionally, [[Jewish services|prayer services]] are organised in the house of mourning. It is customary for the family to lead the services themselves.
 
 
 
===== ''Shloshim'' – Thirty days =====
 
The thirty-day period following the death (including ''shiva'') is known as ''shloshim'' ({{Hebrew Name 1|שלושים||"thirty"|nobold}}). During ''shloshim'', a mourner is forbidden to marry or to attend a ''[[seudat mitzvah]]'' ("religious festive meal"). Men do not shave or get haircuts during this time.
 
 
 
Since Judaism teaches that a deceased person can still benefit from the merit of ''[[Mitzvah|mitzvot]]'' (deeds commanded by God) done in their memory, it is considered a special privilege to bring merit to the departed by [[Torah study|learning Torah]] in their name. A popular custom is to coordinate a group of people who will jointly study the complete [[Mishnah]] during the ''shloshim'' period.
 
 
 
===== ''Shneim asar chodesh'' – Twelve months =====
 
Those mourning a parent additionally observe a twelve-month period ({{Hebrew Name 1|שנים  עשר חודש|shneim asar chodesh|"twelve months"|nobold}}), counted from the day of death. During this period, most activity returns to normal, although the mourners continue to recite the mourner's [[kaddish]] as part of synagogue services for eleven months, and there remain restrictions on attending festive occasions and large gatherings, especially where live music is played.
 
 
 
====''Matzevah'' (Unveiling of the tombstone)====
 
A [[headstone]] (tombstone) is known as a ''matzevah'' ("monument"). Although there is no Halakhic obligation to hold an unveiling ceremony, the ritual became popular in many communities toward the end of the 19th century.  There are varying customs about when it should be placed on the grave. Most communities have an unveiling ceremony a year after the death. Some communities have it earlier, even  a week after the burial. In Israel it is done after the "sheloshim," the first thirty days of mourning. There is no restriction about the timing, other than the unveiling cannot be held during certain periods such as [[Passover]] or [[Chol HaMoed|Chol Ha'Moed]].
 
 
 
At the end of the ceremony, a cloth or shroud covering that has been placed on the headstone is removed, customarily by close family members. Services include reading of several psalms (1, 24, 23, 103), Mourners Kaddish (if a [[minyan]] is available), and the prayer "El Malei Rachameem." The service may include a brief eulogy for the deceased.
 
 
 
====Annual remembrances====
 
=====Yahrtzeit=====
 
[[Image:Yahrtzeit candle.JPG|thumb|A yahrtzeit candle lit in memory of a loved one on the anniverary of the death]]
 
''Yahrtzeit'', יאָרצײַט, means ''"Time (of) Year"'' in [[Yiddish]] [http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?artid=139&letter=J].  (Alternative spellings include ''yortsayt'' (using the [[YIVO]] standard [[Yiddish orthography]]), ''Yohr Tzeit'', ''yahrzeit,'' and ''yartzeit.'')  The word is also used by non-Yiddish-speaking [[Ashkenazi Jews]], and refers to the annual anniversary of the day of death of a relative. Yahrtzeit literally means "time of [one] year."
 
 
 
The commemoration is known in [[Ladino language|Ladino]] as ''nahala''. It is widely observed, and based on the Jewish tradition that mourners are required to commemorate the death of a relative.
 
 
 
Mourners required to fulfill this observance are the children, siblings, spouses and parents of the deceased. The [[minhag|custom]] is first discussed in detail in ''Sefer HaMinhagim'' (pub. 1566) by [[Rabbi]] [[Isaac Tyrnau]].
 
 
 
The date of the ''Yahrtzeit'' is determined by the [[Hebrew calendar]], and falls annually on the Hebrew date of the deceased relatives death.
 
 
 
The main ''halakhic'' obligation is to recite the mourner's version of the ''[[Kaddish]]'' prayer three times (evening, morning, and afternoon), and many attend synagogue for the evening, morning, and afternoon services on this day. (During the morning prayer service the mourner's Kaddish is recited at least four times.) As a widely practiced [[Minhag|custom]], mourners also light a special candle that burns for 24 hours, called a "''Yahrzeit'' candle." 
 
 
 
Lighting a yahrtzeit candle in memory of a loved one is a ''minhag'' ("custom") that is deeply ingrained in Jewish life honoring the memory and souls of the deceased.
 
 
 
Strict Jewish law requires that one should fast on the day of a parent's Yahrzeit, although this is not required, some people do observe the custom of fasting on the day of the ''Yahrtzeit''. Among many [[Orthodox Judaism|Orthodox]] Jews  it has become customary to make a [[siyum]] by completing a tractate of [[Talmud]] or a volume of the [[Mishnah]] on the day prior to the ''Yahrtzeit'', in the honor of the deceased. A ''halakha'' requiring a ''siyum'' ("celebratory meal"), upon the completion of such a study, overrides the requirement to fast.
 
 
 
Jewish mourners are required to commemorate the death of a first-relative: mother, father, brother, or sister. The main ''[[Halakha|halakhic]]'' obligation is to recite the mourner's version of the ''[[Kaddish]]'' prayer at least three times ''Maariv'' at the evening services, ''Shacharit'' at [[Jewish services|morning services]], and ''Mincha'' at the afternoon services.
 
 
 
Many synagogues will have lights on a special memorial plaque on one of the synagogue's walls, with names of synagogue members who have died. Each of these lights will be lit for individuals on their ''Yahrzeit'', and all the lights will be lit for a ''[[Bereavement in Judaism#Yizkor|Yizkor]]'' service. Some synagogues will also turn on all the lights for memorial days, such as ''[[Yom Ha'Shoah]]''.
 
 
 
=====Visiting the gravesite=====
 
[[Image:OaklandCemetery-RoobinHeadstone.jpg|right|thumb|250px|Tombstone in the "new Jewish section" of [[Oakland Cemetery]] in Atlanta, GA.]]
 
Some have a custom to visit the cemetery on fast days ([[Shulchan Aruch]] Orach Chayim 559:10) and before [[Rosh Hashanah]] and [[Yom Kippur]] (581:4, 605), when possible, and for a ''Yahrzeit.''
 
 
 
Typically, even when visiting Jewish graves of someone that the visitor never knew, he or she would leave a small stone at the graveside. This shows that someone had visited, and represents permanence. Leaving flowers is not a traditional Jewish practice. Another reason for leaving stones is tending the grave. In Biblical times, gravestones were not used; graves were marked with mounds of stones, so by placing (or replacing) them, one perpetuated the existence of the site. This was also helpful for [[Cohen|Cohanim]], who needed to avoid spiritual impurity that could be passed on by corpses/graves.
 
 
 
====Memorial through prayer====
 
=====Mourner's Kaddish=====
 
 
 
Kaddish Yatom (''[[Hebrew Language|heb.]]'' [[w:he:קדיש יתום|קדיש יתום]] ''lit. "Orphan's Kaddish"'') or the "Mourner's" Kaddish, said at all [[Jewish services|prayer services]], as well as at funerals and memorials.  Customs for reciting the Mourner's Kaddish vary markedly among various communities.  In most [[Ashkenazi]] synagogues, particularly [[Orthodox Judaism|Orthodox]] ones, it is customary that everyone in the synagogue stands.  In [[Sephardi]] synagogues, the custom is that only the mourners themselves stand and chant, while the rest of the congregation sits, chanting only responsively.
 
 
 
=====Yizkor=====
 
''Yizkor'' ("remembrance") prayers are recited by those that have lost either one or both of their parents. There is a custom that those who do not recite the ''Yizkor'' prayers leave the synagogue until the completion of Yizkor; the symbolic reason for this is to respect the life of one's living parents.  Some rabbinic authorities regard this custom as a superstition.
 
 
 
The ''Yizkor'' prayers are recited four times a year, and are intended to be recited in a synagogue with a [[minyan]]; if one is unable be with a minyan, one can recite it without one. These four ''Yizkor'' services are held on [[Yom Kippur]], [[Shmini Atzeret]], on the eighth day of [[Passover]] in most of the world (in [[Israel]] on the seventh), and on the second day of [[Shavuot]] (in Israel on the only day of Shavuot). In the ''Yizkor'' prayers God is asked to remember and grant [[wiktionary:repose|repose]] to the souls of the departed.
 
 
 
In [[Sephardic Judaism|Sephardic]] custom there is no Yizkor prayer, but ''Hashkabóth'' are recited on [[Yom Kippur]] for all members of the community who have died during the last year.  A person called up to the Torah may also request the reader to recite ''Hashkabah'' for his deceased parents.
 
 
 
=====Av HaRachamim=====
 
 
 
[[Av Harachamim]] is a Jewish memorial prayer that was written in the late 11th or early 12th Century, after the destruction of the Ashkenazi communities around the Rhine River by Christian crusaders during the [[First Crusade]].
 
 
 
====Communal responses to death====
 
=====''Zihuy Korbanot Asson'' (ZAKA)=====
 
 
 
ZAKA ([[Hebrew language|heb.]] [[w:he:זק"א|זק"א]] ''abbr. for Zihuy Korbanot Asson lit. "Identifying Victims of Disaster"'' – [[w:he:חסד של אמת|חסד של אמת]] ''Hessed shel Emet lit. "True Kindness"''  –  [[w:he:איתור חילוץ והצלה|איתור חילוץ והצלה]]), is a [[community emergency response team]] in the State of [[Israel]], officially recognized by the government. The organization was founded in 1989. Members of ZAKA, most of whom are [[Orthodox Judaism|Orthodox]], assist [[ambulance]] crews, identify the victims of [[Palestinian political violence|terrorism]], road accidents and other disasters and, where necessary, gather body parts and spilled [[blood]] for proper burial. They also provide [[first aid]] and [[rescue]] services, and help with the search for missing persons. In the past they have responded in the aftermath of disasters around the world.
 
 
 
=====''Hebrew Free Burial Association'' (HFBA)=====
 
 
 
The Hebrew Free Burial Association is a non-profit agency whose mission is to ensure that all Jews receive a proper Jewish burial, regardless of their financial ability.  Since 1888, more than 55,000 Jews have been buried by HFBA in their cemeteries located on [[Staten Island, New York]], Silver Lake Cemetery and Mount Richmond Cemetery.
 
 
 
====Controversy following death====
 
=====Donating organs=====
 
Being an [[organ donor]] is permitted according to all [[Jewish denominations]] once death has been clearly established, provided that instructions have been left in a written [[living will]]. [[Orthodox Judaism|Orthodox]] and [[Haredi Judaism|Haredi]] Jews would consult their rabbis before making the final choice and decision.
 
 
 
=====Jewish view of cremation=====
 
[[Halakha]] (Jewish law) forbids [[cremation]].  Burial is considered the only proper form of disposal for a Jewish person who has died (and is the only method used in the [[Tanakh]]), and is seen in Judaism as providing a final measure of atonement for the deceased. 
 
 
 
From a [[philosophy|philosophical]] and [[ritual]] standpoint, as with a ''[[geneza]]'', Jews bury things as an honorable "[[burial|interment]]," and would only burn things as a means of destruction.
 
 
 
=====Suicide=====
 
 
 
 
 
Judaism considers [[suicide]] to be a form of "self-[[murder]]" and thus a Jew who commits suicide is denied some important after-death privileges: no eulogies should be held for that person, and burial in the main section of the Jewish cemetery is normally not allowed.
 
 
 
However, in recent times, most people who commit suicide have been deemed to be the unfortunate victims of [[Clinical depression|depression]] or of a serious [[mental illness]]. Under this interpretation, their act of "self-murder" is not deemed to be a voluntary act of self-destruction, but rather the result of an involuntary condition. They have therefore been looked upon as having died of causes beyond their control.
 
 
 
Additionally, the [[Talmud]] (in Semakhot, one of the [[minor tractates]]) recognizes that many elements of the mourning ritual exist as much for the living survivors as for the dead, and that these elements ought to be carried out even in the case of the suicide. Furthermore, if reasonable doubt exists that the death may not have been suicide (e.g. if it is unknown whether the victim fell or jumped off a building), the benefit of the doubt is given and regular burial and mourning rituals take place. Lastly, the suicide of a [[minor]] is considered a result of a lack of understanding ("da'at"), and in such a case, regular mourning is observed.
 
 
 
=====Tattoos=====
 
While [[Halakha]] (Jewish law) forbids [[tattoo]]s, there is a common myth that Jews with tattoos are not permitted to be buried in Jewish cemeteries.  This is not true, and a Jew with a tattoo would receive a normal funeral service. <ref>http://ohr.edu/ask_db/ask_main.php/275/Q4/ Ohr Somayach—Ask The Rabbi / Tattoo and Jewish Burial</ref>
 
 
 
=====Death of an apostate Jew=====
 
There is no mourning for an [[Jews in apostasy|Apostate Jew]] according to Jewish law.  (See that article for a discussion of precisely what actions and motivations render a Jew an "apostate.") 
 
  
In the past several centuries, the custom developed among [[Ashkenazic]] [[Orthodox Judaism|Orthodox Jews]] (including [[Hassidic]] and [[Haredi]] Jews), that the family would "[[Shiva (Judaism)|sit shiva]]" if and when one of their relatives would leave the fold of traditional Judaism.  The definition of "leaving the fold" varies within communities; some would sit shiva if a family member married a non-Jew; others would only sit shiva if the individual actually converted to another faith, and even then, some would make a distinction between those who chose to do so of their own will, and those who were pressured into conversion.  (In [[Sholom Aleichem]]'s [[Tevye]], when the title character's daughter converts to [[Christianity]] to marry a [[Christian]], Tevye sits shiva for her and generally refers to her as "dead.")  At the height of the [[Mitnagdim]] (i.e. anti-Hassidic) movement, in the early-to-mid [[nineteenth century]], some Mitnagdim even sat shiva if a family member joined [[Hassidism]].  (It is said that when [[Leibel Eiger]] joined Hassidism, his father, Rabbi [[Shlomo Eiger]] sat shiva, but his grandfather, the famed Rabbi [[Akiva Eiger]], did not.)  By the mid-[[twentieth century]], however, Hassidism was clearly recognized by everyone as a valid form of Orthodox Judaism, and thus the (controversial) practice of sitting shiva for those who realign to Hassidism ceased to exist.
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[[Image:OaklandCemetery-RoobinHeadstone.jpg|left|thumb|200px|Tombstone in the "new Jewish section" of [[Oakland Cemetery]] in Atlanta, GA.]]  
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Many burial societies hold one or two annual fast days and organize regular study sessions to remain up to date with the relevant articles of Jewish law. In addition, most burial societies also support families during the ''[[Shiva (Judaism)|shiva]],'' or traditional week of mourning, by arranging [[Jewish services|prayer services]], preparing meals, and providing other services for the mourners.
  
Today, some [[Orthodox Jews]], particularly the more traditionalist ones (such as many [[Haredi]] and [[Hassidic]] communities), continue the practice of sitting shiva for a family member who has left the religious community. Many centrist and left-wing Orthodox Jews, however, question and may not observe the practice for three reasons. First, as a matter of practicality, declaring the family member "dead" is a very harsh act that could make it much more difficult for the family member to return to traditional practice if/when s/he would consider doing so. Second, the definition of actively "leaving the fold" is rather vague today, especially with the majority of [[Jews]] today being not religiously observant of [[Orthodox Judaism]]. Third, recent scholarship has shown that the source of the original custom, a story published in the twelfth century by Rabbi [[Isaac ben Moses of Vienna]] in ''Or Zarua'' regarding Rabbi [[Gershom ben Judah]], contained a [[typo]] and was thus misunderstood.  Rabbi Gershom had a son who had converted to [[Christianity]]. A text that had been read as, "Rabbi Gershom sat shiva for his son ''when he converted'' [Heb. ''k'she-nishtamed'']," turned out to have been "Rabbi Gershom sat shiva for his son ''who had converted'' [Heb. ''she-nishtamed'']," i.e. when the son actually died years later of natural causes.<ref>Alfred J. Kolatch, ''The Second Jewish Book of Why'', Jonathan David Publishers, 1995, pp. 137–138.</ref>
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The three major stages to preparing the body for burial include washing, ritual purification, and dressing. First, the body is uncovered and carefully washed. As all blood must be buried along with the deceased, any open bleeding is stopped. The body is thoroughly cleaned of dirt, body fluids and solids, and anything else that may be on the skin. All jewelry is removed. The body is then purified with water, either by immersion in a ''[[mikvah]]'' or by pouring a continuous stream in a prescribed manner. The body is then dried and dressed in traditional burial clothing, or ''[[tachrichim]].'' A sash is wrapped around the clothing and tied in the form of the Hebrew letter "shin," representing one of the names of God.
  
=====Death of an infant=====
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If a [[coffin]] is used, it is prepared by removing any linings or other embellishments. The body is then lifted into the coffin and wrapped in a prayer shawl or sheet. Soil from [[Israel]], if available, is placed over various parts of the body and sprinkled in the coffin. The coffin is closed and sealed; in Judaism there is traditionally no viewing of the body and no "open casket" at the funeral. If the body is not taken immediately for burial, guards or watchers known as ''shomrim'' will sit with the coffin until it is taken for burial. It is traditional to recite [[Psalms]] during this time.
For a child under the age of 30 days, no shiva is sat. This is because in times past with [[infant mortality]] being what it was, a child under the age of 30 days was not yet considered viable.{{Fact|date=July 2007}}
 
  
Stricter communities hold that the child cannot{{Fact|date=July 2007}} be mourned in a traditional manner of sitting shiva.  Understandably, this is very difficult for the family (although at the time it was meant to ease the burden on the family), and is not followed by less traditional Jewish sects.
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Before the burial, it is common that several people speak at the start of the ceremony at the funeral home, as well as prior to burial at the gravesite. The ''[[Torah]]'' requires burial as soon as possible. This means that burial will usually take place on the same day as death, or, if not possible, the day following.
  
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Typically, when the funeral service has ended, the mourners come forward to fill the grave. Symbolically, this gives the mourners closure as they observe the grave being filled in. One custom is for people present at the funeral to take a spade or shovel, held pointing down instead of up, to show the antithesis of [[death]] to [[life]] and that this use of the shovel is different from all other uses, to throw three shovelfuls of dirt into the grave.
  
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Mourners traditionally make a tear in an outer garment either before the funeral or immediately after it. The tear should be on the left side for a parent, over the heart and clearly visible, and on the right side for brothers, sisters, children, and spouses. Mourners do not shower or bathe for a week, do not wear leather shoes or jewelry, men do not shave, and in many communities large wall mirrors in the mourners' home are covered. During this time distant family and friends come to visit or call the mourners to comfort them via ''shiva'' calls. Most Jewish communities have an unveiling ceremony a year after the death in which the headstone or tombstone is unveiled.
  
====The Holocaust====
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===Japanese funerals===
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[[Image:JapaneseGraveyardTokyo.jpg|thumb|left|250 px|A graveyard in Tokyo]]
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A [[Japan]]ese funeral includes a wake, the [[cremation]] of the deceased, a burial in a family [[grave]], and a periodic memorial service. Nearly all deceased Japanese are cremated. Most of these are then buried in a family grave, but the scattering of ashes has become more popular in recent years, including a [[burial at sea]] and even on rare occasions a [[burial in space]].
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[[Image:JapaneseGraveTokyo.jpg|thumb|right|A typical Japanese grave]]
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While Japan has a mixture of [[Shinto]] and [[Buddhist]] beliefs, funerals are almost always Buddhist ceremonies. After death, the deceased's lips are moistened with water, in a ceremony called ''Matsugo-no-mizu,'' meaning "Water of the last moment." The household shrine is closed and covered with a white paper, to keep out the impure [[spirit]]s of the dead. This is called ''Kamidana-fuji.'' A small table decorated with flowers, [[incense]], and a candle is placed next to the deceased's bed. A knife may be put on the chest of the deceased to drive away evil spirits.
  
During [[the Holocaust]], massive crematoria were constructed and operated round-the-clock by the [[Nazis]] within their [[concentration camp|concentration]] and [[extermination camp]]s to dispose of the bodies of thousands of Jews and others. The bodies of thousands of Jews were thus disposed of in a manner deeply offensive to Judaism. Since then, cremation has carried an extremely negative connotation for many Jews, even more so than it had previously.
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The relatives and the authorities are informed of the death and a death certificate is issued. Organization of the funeral is usually the responsibility of the eldest son. The body is washed and the orifices are blocked with cotton or gauze. The last clothes are usually a suit for males and a [[kimono]] for females. Make-up may also be applied to improve the appearance of the body. The body is put on [[dry ice]] in a [[casket]], and a white kimono, sandals, six coins for the crossing of the [[River of three hells]], and burnable items the deceased was fond of, such as cigarettes and candy, are placed in the casket. The casket is then put on an altar for the wake.
  
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[[Image:JapaneseFuneralEnvelope.jpg|thumb|left|125 px|Traditional design of the envelope for condolence money]]
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While in former times white clothes were worn for funerals, a more recent tradition is for all guests to wear black. A guest will often bring condolence money in a special black and silver decorated envelope. The guests are seated, with the next of kin closest to the front. The Buddhist priest will read a [[sutra]]. The family members will each in turn offer [[incense]] three times to the incense urn in front of the deceased. The wake ends once the priest has completed the sutra. Each departing guest is given a gift. The closest relatives may stay and keep [[vigil]] with the deceased overnight in the same room.
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[[Image:Cremation in Japan-J. M. W. Silver.jpg|thumb|250 px|Cremation in Japan, illustration from 1867]]
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The funeral is usually held on the day after the wake. The procedure is similar to the wake, and incense is offered while a priest chants a sutra. The ceremony differs slightly as the deceased receives a new Buddhist name, or ''kaimyō.'' This name supposedly prevents the return of the deceased if his name is called. At the end of the funeral ceremony, flowers may be placed in the casket before it is sealed and carried to the elaborately decorated [[hearse]] and transported to the crematorium. In some regions of Japan, the coffin is nailed shut by the mourners using a stone.
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[[Image:Collecting the ashes after the funeral -J. M. W. Silver.jpg|thumb|250 px|Picking the bones from the ashes, illustration from 1867]]
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If cremated, the coffin is placed on a tray in the crematorium. The family witnesses the sliding of the body into the cremation chamber. A [[cremation]] usually takes about two hours, and the family returns at a scheduled time when the cremation has been completed. The relatives pick the [[bone]]s out of the ashes and transfer them to the urn using [[chopsticks]]. The bones of the feet are picked up first, and the bones of the head last. This is to ensure that the deceased is not upside down in the urn.
  
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Following burial, a grave monument is erected over the burial plot. The date of the erection of the grave and the name of the person who purchased it may be engraved on the side of the monument. The names of the deceased are often but not always engraved on the front of the monument. The names of the deceased may also be engraved on the left side, or on a separate stone in front of the grave. Often, the name is also written on a ''[[sotoba]],'' a separate wooden board on a stand behind or next to the grave. These ''sotoba'' may be erected shortly after death, and new ones may be added at certain memorial services. Some graves may also have a box for business cards, where friends and relatives visiting the grave can drop their business card, informing the caretakers of the grave of the respects the visitors have paid to the deceased.
In [[Sikhism]] death is considered a natural process. An event that has absolute certainty and only happens as a direct result of God's Will or [[Hukam]]. To a [[Sikh]], birth and death are closely associated, because they are both part of the cycle of human life of "coming and going" ( ਆਵਣੁ ਜਾਣਾ , Aana Jaana) which is seen as transient stage towards Liberation ( ਮੋਖੁ ਦੁਆਰੁ , Mokh Du-aar), complete unity with God. Sikhs thus believe in [[reincarnation]].
 
  
However, by contrast, the soul itself is not subject to the cycle of birth and death.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} Death is only the progression of the soul on its journey from God, through the created universe and back to God again. In life, a Sikh always tries to constantly remember death so that he or she may be sufficiently prayerful, detached and righteous to break the cycle of birth and death and return to God.  
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===Unification funerals===
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According to [[Unification Church|Unification]] tradition, death marks the period in which one’s [[spirit]] ascends to the [[afterlife|spiritual realm]], and one’s body returns to the earth. Due to this belief, followers of the Unification tradition do not practice [[cremation]] as it prevents the body from returning to its original source. A Unification funeral, known as the [[Seung Hwa Ceremony]], marks a celebration of the deceased’s life beginning in the [[spiritual world]]. As such, the ceremony is one of beauty, enlightenment, and joy.  
  
The public display of grief at the funeral or [[Antam Sanskar]] as it is called  in the Sikh culture, such as wailing or crying out loud is discouraged and should be kept to a minimum. [[Cremation]] is the preferred method of disposal, although if this is not possible any other methods such as [[burial]] or submergence at sea are acceptable. Worship of the dead with gravestones, etc. is discouraged, because the body is considered to be only the shell and the person's soul is their real essence.
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The Seung Hwa Ceremony has three phases; the first, known as the [[Gwi Hwan Ceremony]] or “returning to joy,” is marked by the exchange of farewell greetings between the immediate family of the deceased and the departed spirit. The second phase marks the actual service, or the period of “ascension and harmony.” The final phase, which marks the burial of the physical body, is known as the [[Won Jeun Ceremony]], or the “return home.
  
On the day of the cremation, the body is taken to the [[Gurdwara]] or home where hymns ([[Shabad]]s) from the [[SGGS]], the Sikh Scriptures are recited by the congregation, which induce feeling of consolation and courage. [[Kirtan]] may also be performed by [[Ragi]]s while the relatives of the deceased recite "[[Waheguru]]" sitting near the coffin. This service normally takes from 30 to 60 minutes. At the conclusion of the service, an [[Ardas]] is said before the coffin is taken to the cremation site.
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According to custom, the casket and all garments worn by the deceased body are sanctified with [[Holy Salt]] before the body is placed inside. The body is then dressed in a white Holy Robe, and the hands adorned with white gloves. In addition to personal items, other articles to be placed in the casket include a ''[[Divine Principle]]'' book, a book of Reverend [[Sun Myung Moon]]’s speeches, and the departed’s [[Holy Handkerchief]]. Though the casket is generally left open during the ceremonies, a [[Unification Church]] flag is placed over the casket when closed. Attendees of the ceremony follow a general dress code in which women wear white and are adorned with a red flower corsage, and men wear dark blue suits with a white shirt, and carry a white flower.  
  
At the point of cremation, a few more [[Shabad]]s may be sung and final speeches are made about the deceased person. Then the [[Kirtan Sohila]], night time prayer is recited and finally [[Ardas]] called the "Antim Ardas" ("Final Prayer") is offered. The eldest son or a close relative generally starts the cremation process – light the fire or press the button for the burning to begin. This service usually lasts about 30 to 60 minutes.
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An elder Unificationist often leads the services, opening with a farewell song followed by various prayers and testimonies. At the conclusion of the service, attendees offer one final bow toward the casket, in addition to lighting a stick of [[incense]]. A picture of the deceased is often present at the ceremony; this picture is to be carried to the place of burial and put in front of the casket. While at the gravesite, a shorter ceremony of prayers, songs, and sermon is conducted. The casket is lowered into the grave, with flowers placed on top by the attendees, followed by the shoveling of topsoil onto the casket by various family members. On the third day following the burial, family members return to the grave to hold the final ceremony, known as the ceremony of [[ascension]].<ref>[http://www.tparents.org/library/unification/books/tt1/TT1-23.htm Unification Tradition] "Deaths, Seung Hwa Ceremony, Funerals." ''The Tradition, Book One'' Retrieved September 22, 2007.</ref>
  
The ashes are later collected and disposed by immersing them in the nearest river. Sikhs do not erect monuments over the remains of the dead.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
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==Other variations==
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===East Asian funerals===
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In most [[East Asian]], [[South Asian]] and many [[Southeast Asian]] cultures, the wearing of [[white]] is symbolic of [[death]]. In these societies, white or off-white robes are traditionally worn to symbolize that someone has died and can be seen worn among relatives of the deceased during a funeral ceremony. When the [[coffin]] is lowered into the ground the mourners will bow their heads and must not watch the coffin being lowered into the ground. Sometimes, some members of the procession are required to turn their backs and not look at the coffin as it is sealed, entering the carriage, removed from the carriage and entering the ground. They may also be required to wipe their faces with a white cloth. [[Paper]] [[money]] and commodities constructed out of paper and [[bamboo]] are often burnt for the deceased for use in the [[afterlife]].  
  
After the cremation ceremony, there may be another service at the [[Gurdwara]], the Sikh place of worship, call the [[Sahaj Paath]] [[Bhog]] Ceremony but this is optional.
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A traditional [[China|Chinese]] gift to the attendees upon entering is a white envelope, usually enclosing a small sum of money, a sweet, and a handkerchief, each with symbolic meaning. Chinese custom also dictates that the said sum of money should not be brought home. The sweet should be consumed that day and anything given during the funeral must not be brought home. The repetition of 'three' is common where people at the funeral may brush their hair three times or spit three times before leaving the funeral to ward off bad luck. This custom is also found in other East Asian and Southeast Asian cultures.  
  
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===New Orleans Jazz funerals===
  
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[[Image:DrummersBarkerFuneral.jpg|thumb|300px|right|Drummers at the funeral of jazz legend [[Danny Barker]] ]]
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A unique funeral tradition in the United States occurs in [[New Orleans]], [[Louisiana]]. The unique tradition arises from African spiritual practices, French martial musical traditions, and uniquely African-American cultural influences. A typical [[jazz funeral]] begins with a march by the family, friends, and a [[jazz]] band from the home, funeral home or church to the cemetery. Throughout the march, the band plays very somber [[dirge]]s. Once the final ceremony has taken place, the march proceeds from the [[cemetery]] to a gathering place, and the solemn music is replaced by loud, upbeat music and dancing where onlookers join in to celebrate the life of the deceased. This is the origin of the New Orleans dance known as the "[[second line]]." Celebrants do a dance-march, frequently raising the hats and umbrellas brought along as protection from intensely hot New Orleans weather and waving handkerchiefs (that are no longer being used to wipe away tears) above their heads.
  
==Funerals in Japan==
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===Green funerals===
[[Image:JapaneseGraveyardTokyo.jpg|thumb|A graveyard in Tokyo]]
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Those with concerns about the effects on the environment of traditional burial or cremation may choose to be buried in a fashion more suited to their beliefs. They may choose to be buried in a coffin made of cardboard or other easily-biodegradable materials. Further, they may choose their final resting place to be in a park or woodland, known as an [[eco-cemetery]], and may have a tree planted over their grave as a contribution to the environment and as a remembrance.
  
A '''Japanese funeral''' includes a wake, the [[cremation]] of the deceased, a burial in a family [[Grave (burial)|grave]], and a periodic memorial service. 99% of all deceased Japanese are cremated.{{Fact|date=April 2007}} Most of these are then buried in a family grave, but scattering of the ashes has become more popular in recent years, including a [[burial at sea]] and even on rare occasions a [[burial in space]]. The average cost for a Japanese [[funeral]] is 4 million yen, the most expensive in the world. One main reason for the high cost is the scarcity of funeral plots (it is almost impossible to buy a grave in [[Tokyo]]). Another reason is the [[price gouging]] common at Japanese funeral homes, combined with the hesitation of the relatives of the deceased to negotiate and to compare prices.
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===Internet funerals===
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A Funeral Home in North Syracuse, New York was the first funeral home to offer and broadcast a visitation and funeral "live" on the [[Internet]]. The use of a web-[[camera]] allowed relatives who could not otherwise attend services to do so from any [[computer]]. Family members and friends separated by distance, weather or circumstance can now become part of the support network by being connected electronically to such ceremonies.
  
===Modern funerals===
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==Alternatives==
====After death====
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===Excarnation===
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[[Image:BombayTempleOfSilenceEngraving.jpg|right|thumb|200px|A late nineteenth century engraving of a Zoroastrian Tower of Silence in [[Mumbai]].]]
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Rarer forms of disposal of the dead include [[excarnation]], where the corpse is exposed to the elements. This was practiced by some groups of [[Native Americans]] and is still practiced by [[Zoroastrian]]s in [[Bombay]], where the [[Towers of Silence]] allow [[vulture]]s and other carrion eating [[bird]]s to dispose of the corpses. Zoroastrianism believes that [[fire]] is [[sacred]] and should not be defiled by cremating a human body. Excarnation is also practiced by some [[Tibet]]an [[Buddhist]]s and is sometimes called [[Sky burial]].
  
While Japan has a mixture of [[Shintoism|Shinto]] and [[Buddhism|Buddhist]] beliefs, funerals are almost always Buddhist ceremonies, and 90% of the funerals are Buddhist style. After death, the deceased's lips are moistened with water, in a ceremony called ''Matsugo-no-mizu'' ("Water of the last moment"). The household shrine is closed and covered with a white paper, to keep out the impure spirits of the dead. This is called ''Kamidana-fuji''. A small table decorated with flowers, [[incense]], and a candle is placed next to the deceased's bed. A knife may be put on the chest of the deceased to drive away evil spirits.
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===Anatomical gifts===  
 
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Another way of avoiding some of the rituals and costs of a traditional funeral is for the decedent to donate some or all of her or his body to a [[medical school]] or similar institution for the purpose of instruction in [[anatomy]], or for similar purposes. Students of [[medicine]] and [[osteopathy]] frequently study anatomy from donated [[cadavers]]; they are also useful in [[forensic]] research. Typically the remains are cremated once the students have completed their anatomy classes, and many medical schools now hold a memorial service at that time as well.
The relatives and the authorities are informed and a death certificate is issued. Organization of the funeral is usually the responsibility of the eldest son. A temple is contacted to schedule a funeral. It is believed by some that certain days are better for a funeral than others. For example, some days are known as ''tomobiki'', literally "friend pulling," which is great for weddings, but to be avoided for funerals, as nobody wants to follow a dead person into the grave. The body is washed and the orifices are blocked with cotton or gauze. The last clothes are usually a suit for males and a [[kimono]] for females. A kimono for men is also sometimes used, but is less common. Make-up may also be applied to improve the appearance of the body. The body is put on [[dry ice]] in a [[coffin|casket]], and a white kimono, sandals, six coins for the crossing of the [[River of three hells]], and burnable items the deceased was fond of (for example, cigarettes and candy) are placed in the casket. The casket is then put on an altar for the wake. The body is placed with the head towards the north or, as a second choice, towards the west.
 
 
 
====Wake====
 
[[Image:JapaneseFuneralEnvelope.jpg|thumb|left|Traditional design of the envelope for condolence money]]
 
 
 
[[Image:JapaneseFuneralArrangementTokyo.jpg|thumb|Funeral arrangement in a Temple in Tokyo]]
 
 
 
While in former times white clothes were worn for funerals, nowadays all guests for the funeral wear black. Men wear a black suit with a white shirt and a black tie, and women wear either a black dress or a black kimono. The black is of a special pitch-black shade. A [[Buddhist prayer beads|Buddhist prayer bead]] called {{nihongo|''juzu''|数珠}} may be carried by the guests. A guest will bring condolence money in a special black and silver decorated envelope. Depending on the relation to the deceased and the wealth of the guest, this may be of a value equivalent to between 5,000 and 30,000 yen. The guests are seated, with the next of kin closest to the front. The Buddhist priest will read a [[sutra]]. The family members will each in turn offer incense three times to the incense urn in front of the deceased. The wake ends once the priest has completed the sutra. Each departing guest is given a gift, which has a value of about half or one quarter of the condolence money received from this guest. The closest relatives may stay and keep [[vigil]] with the deceased overnight in the same room.
 
 
 
====Funeral====
 
 
 
The funeral is usually on the day after the wake. The procedure is similar to the wake, and incense is offered while a priest chants a sutra. The ceremony differs slightly as the deceased receives a new Buddhist name ''(kaimyō)''. This name supposedly prevents the return of the deceased if his name is called. The length and prestige of the name depend also on the size of the donation of the relatives to the temple, which may range from a cheap and free name to the most elaborate names for 1 million yen or more. The high prices charged by the temples are a controversial issue in Japan, especially since some temples put pressure on families to buy a more expensive name. The [[kanji]] for these ''kaimyō'' are usually very old and rarely used ones, and few people nowadays can read them.  At the end of the funeral ceremony, flowers may be placed in the casket before it is sealed and carried to the elaborately decorated [[hearse]] and transported to the crematorium. In some regions of Japan, the coffin is nailed shut by the mourners using a stone.
 
 
 
====Cremation====
 
[[Image:Cremation in Japan-J. M. W. Silver.jpg|thumb|Cremation in Japan, illustration from 1867]]
 
[[Image:Collecting the ashes after the funeral -J. M. W. Silver.jpg|thumb|Picking the bones from the ashes, illustration from 1867]]
 
The coffin is placed on a tray in the crematorium. The family witnesses the sliding of the body into the cremation chamber. A [[cremation]] usually takes about two hours, and the family returns at a scheduled time when the cremation has been completed. The relatives pick the [[bone]]s out of the ashes and transfer them to the urn using [[chopsticks]], two relatives sometimes holding the same bone at the same time with their chopsticks (or, according to some sources, passing the bones from chopsticks to chopsticks). This is the only time in Japan when it is proper for two people to hold the same item at the same time with chopsticks. At all other times, holding anything with chopsticks by two people at the same time, or passing an item from chopsticks to chopsticks will remind all bystanders of the funeral of a close relative and is considered to be a major social [[faux pas]]. The bones of the feet are picked up first, and the bones of the head last. This is to ensure that the deceased is not upside down in the urn. The [[hyoid bone]] (a bone located in the neck) is the most significant bone to be put in the urn.
 
 
 
In some cases, the ashes may be divided between more than one urn, for example if part of the ashes are to go to a family grave, and another part to the temple, or even to a company grave or a [[burial in space]].  Many companies, for example, have company graves for their employees in the largest Japanese graveyard on [[Mount Koya|Mount Kōya]].
 
 
 
Depending on the local custom the urn may stay at the family home for a number of days, or be taken directly to the graveyard.
 
 
 
====Grave====
 
 
 
[[Image:JapaneseGraveTokyo.jpg|thumb|left|A typical Japanese grave]]
 
 
 
A typical Japanese grave is usually a family grave (Japanese: ''haka'') consisting of a stone monument, with a place for flowers, incense, and water in front of the monument and a chamber or crypt underneath for the ashes.
 
 
 
[[Image:JapaneseGravestoneWithRedInkName.jpg|thumb|The name of a living spouse written in red]]
 
 
 
The date of the erection of the grave and the name of the person who purchased it may be engraved on the side of the monument. The names of the deceased are often but not always engraved on the front of the monument. When a married person dies before his or her spouse, the name of the spouse may also be engraved on the stone, with the letters painted red. After the death and the burial of the spouse the red ink is removed from the stone. This is usually done for financial reasons, as it is cheaper to engrave two names at the same time than to engrave the second name when the second spouse dies. It can also be seen as a sign that they are waiting to follow their spouse into the grave. However, this practice is less frequent nowadays. The names of the deceased may also be engraved on the left side, or on a separate stone in front of the grave. Often, the name is also written on a [[sotoba]], a separate wooden board on a stand behind or next to the grave. These sotoba may be erected shortly after death, and new ones may be added at certain memorial services.
 
 
 
Some graves may also have a box for business cards, where friends and relatives visiting the grave can drop their business card, informing the caretakers of the grave of the respects the visitors have paid to the deceased.
 
 
 
====Memorial services====
 
 
 
Memorial services depend on local customs. Usually, there are a number of memorial services following the death - for example, daily for the first seven days, or a number of services within the first 49 days, or on the 7th, 49th and 100th day, depending on the local custom. After that, there is a memorial service on the [[Obon]] festival in honor of the dead. The festival may be held in the 1st year, sometimes in the 3rd and 5th, 7th and 13th years, and a number of times afterwards up to either the 39th or the 50th year.  One popular sequence follows the days of the [[Thirteen Buddhas]].
 
 
 
A picture of the deceased is also placed at or near the family altar in the household. Also, in the first year after death, no traditional [[Japanese New Year|New Year's Day Postcard]] is sent or received. The friends and relatives have to be informed of this beforehand so as not to send a card.
 
 
 
===Japanese funeral industry===
 
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Funerals in Japan are among the most expensive funerals in the world. The average cost of a Japanese funeral is about 1.5 million yen (USD 14,000) according to a 2003 study by the Japan Consumer's Association, though other sources state 3.8 million yen. This cost does not include mandatory additional services such as about 380,000 yen for the wake, or 480,000 yen for the services of the priest. Overall, the industry has a revenue of about 1.5 trillion yen with about 45,000 funeral homes. In 2004, 1.1 million Japanese died (2003: 1.0 million), a number that is expected to rise in the future due to the increase of the average age in Japan; see [[demographics of Japan]]. Funeral Business Monthly estimates that there will be 1.7 million deaths by 2035, and revenue of 2 trillion yen in 2040.
 
 
 
There are a number of reasons for the high cost of funerals. First, prices in Japan are generally among the highest in the world. A bigger reason, however, is that the relatives of the deceased are very hesitant to negotiate prices of a funeral service, and also do not compare prices, as they do not want to give the opinion that they are cheap about their relative. This situation is abused by funeral companies, which sell rather expensive and often-unspecific packages, matched more to the funds of the deceased family than to the actual services provided. Often, aggressive sales tactics push the relatives towards expensive contracts. In many cases, there is not even the mentioning of a price until the funeral is over. A 2005 [[Fair Trade Commission (Japan)|Fair Trade Commission]] study found that 36% of the customers did not receive a quote before being charged and 96% felt that the free selection of services was inadequate, and many decisions were made for them. 54.4% of the funeral services offered price lists and catalogs to choose between different options.
 
 
 
This [[cartel]]-like system often involves lots of [[bribe]]s and [[price fixing]] between the funeral home and the florists, priests, etc., who forward part of their fees to the funeral home for being recommended by the funeral home. A kick back also often goes to the hospital where the deceased died for forwarding the business to the funeral home. Additional costs (for example for additional mourners) and no refunds (for cancellations of prepaid accounts) are also frequent. Overall, the situation is comparable to the situation in the USA in the 1970 (see ''The American Way of Death'' by [[Jessica Mitford]]).
 
 
 
Recently there have been some changes in the funeral industry, and some funeral homes offer more competitive and transparent pricing than a standard funeral provider. These offer funerals starting at about 200,000 yen, a fraction of the regular overpriced services, and lists the different options and prices to choose from ''a la carte''. Many of these new funeral homes are started by non-Japanese nationals. Also, recently hotels with a decreasing income due to a decrease in [[wedding]]s have started to offer funeral services.  Overall, the level of competition is increasing. To stay competitive, the prices of regular funeral homes are also decreasing over time. Another recent introduction are services, where a person can choose his or her funeral service before death, and pays a monthly fee (e.g. 10,000 yen) to cover all costs of the funeral.
 
 
 
===History===
 
[[Image:Asuka Ishibutai Kofun side.jpg|thumb|The Ishibutai Kofun in [[Asuka, Nara]], a partially uncovered Kofun]]
 
In Japanese history, famous leaders were often buried in tombs. The oldest known burial chamber was that built between 230 B.C.E. and 220 B.C.E. in [[Sakurai, Nara|Sakurai]], [[Nara prefecture]], and called the ''Hokenoyama tomb''. The tomb is 80 m long, and the chamber is 7 m long and 2.7 m wide, and contained a coffin 5 m long and 1 m wide. It is not known exactly who is buried there, but it is presumed to be a powerful local leader.
 
 
 
Around 300, the usage of burial mounds for important leaders became more frequent. Japan developed its unique keyhole shaped burial mounds. These burial mounds are called ''Kofun'' (古墳 - the word is used for burial mounds of all shapes), and the period from 250 to 538 is called the [[Kofun]] period. Although it was believed around 50 years ago that these mounds had initially been influenced by burial mounds in From China] via the Korean peninsula, [[Yayoi]] period mounds are generally regarded as their predecessors. There is a large number of these burial mounds all over Japan, most of which have a keyhole shaped outline with a length of up to 400 m. The largest is the tomb of [[Emperor Nintoku]] in [[Sakai, Osaka|Sakai]] near [[Osaka]], with a length of 486 m, covering an area of 300,000 square metres. They are usually surrounded by a [[moat]], unless they are constructed on a hill. The round half of the burial mound contains a burial chamber. In the 6th century, round and square burial mounds came into use. The usage of burial mounds is believed to have gradually stopped either with the introduction of [[Buddhism]] in Japan in 552 or 538, or with the establishment of the capital in [[Nara, Nara|Nara]] by [[Empress Gemmei]] in 710. Instead, family tombs were constructed with an access passage to add relatives to the tomb after their death. Traditionally, the handling of deceased was considered unclean business and were usually done by [[Burakumin]].
 
 
 
====Medieval Sōtō Zen Funerals====
 
[[Buddhism in Japan|Japanese Buddhist]] funerals, which make up the vast majority of Japanese funerals today, are generally performed in what was historically the [[Sōtō]] [[Zen]] style, although today the Sōtō funerary rites have come to define the standard funeral format by most of the other Japanese Buddhist schools. Japanese Zen funeral rites came directly from Chinese Ch’an funeral rites, which were detailed in the ''Ch’an-yuan ch’ing-kuei'' (“the pure regulations of the Zen monastery”). The major difference between the earlier Chinese Ch’an funerals and Japanese Sōtō Zen funerals was that early Japanese monks made no distinction between a monastic funeral for an abbot and the funeral service for a layperson. The first Japanese laypeople to receive Zen funerals were among the ruling elite who sponsored the activities of Zen institutions.<ref>William M. Bodiford, "Zen in the Art of Funerals: Ritual Salvation in Japanese Buddhism," ''History of Religions'' 32, no. 2 (1992): 152.</ref> One early example of this is the Regent [[Hōjō Tokimune]], who received monastic funeral rites in 1284 at the hands of Chinese monk Wuxue Zuyan.<ref>Bodiford, "Zen in the Art of Funerals," 152.</ref> Zen historian Martin Collcutt asserts that “one means by which Zen monks extended their influence in society was by the conduct of funeral services for important patrons.”<ref>Martin Collcutt, ''Five Mountains: The Rinzai Zen Monastic Institution in Medieval Japan'' (Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1981), 73.</ref> By the medieval Sōtō period, only a small percentage of the funeral sermons recorded were delivered for members of the monastic order.<ref>William M Bodiford, ''Sōtō Zen in Medieval Japan'' (Honolulu: University of Hawaii Press, 1993), 199.</ref>
 
 
 
The progressive changes in Sōtō Zen funeral rites were not enacted by its founder, [[Dogen]], but came about years later when Zen master [[Keizan]] encouraged Zen monks to go out into the countryside and perform funeral services for the laity. Although Dogen was the first to implement many aspects of Chinese Ch’an monastic codes in Japan, his ''gogoku'' doesn’t contain any funeral sermons.<ref>Bodiford, ''Soto Zen in Medieval Japan'', 191.</ref> At this point in [[History of Japan|Japanese history]], different schools of Zen were in competition for followers, and they were “more conscious than ever before of the necessity of making available to the laity such rites as funeral services and ancestor worship.”<ref>Yasuaki Nara, "May the Deceased Get Enlightenment! An Aspect of the Enculturation of Buddhism in Japan," ''Buddhist-Christian Studies'' 15 (1995): 25.</ref> Keizan’s inclusive attitudes toward funerals resulted in the building of many temples in rural areas and the gradual expansion of the Sōtō order throughout Japan.<ref>Nara, "May the Deceased Get Enlightenment!," 25.</ref>
 
 
 
The funeral service that became popular for the Japanese laity in the medieval period was essentially the Chinese Ch’an service specified for the ordinary monk. The most important phases of this type of Zen funeral were: posthumous [[ordination]], the sermon at the side of the corpse, the circumambulation of the coffin around the [[cremation]] ground, and the lighting of the funeral pyre.<ref>Bernard Faure, ''The Rhetoric of Immediacy: A Cultural Critique of Chan/Zen Buddhism'' (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1991), 193.</ref> For a lay person, the posthumous ordination part of the ritual was the most vital, because without ordaining the deceased as a Zen monk, the other funeral rites could not be performed, since Zen funeral rites did not previously exist for laypeople, but only for monks. Once posthumous ordination of the laity was accepted by the Sōtō school, lay funeral practices became possible; today, death rituals mark the central practice at Sōtō Zen parish temples.<ref>Duncan Ryuken Williams, ''The Other Side of Zen: A Social History of Soto Zen Buddhism in Tokugawa Japan'' (Princeton and Oxford: Princeton University Press, 2005), 38.</ref> This practice was one of the first few elements of Sōtō Zen that was standardized by the early [[Edo period|Tokugawa period]]. <ref>Williams, ''The Other Side of Zen'', 41.</ref> Since the popularization of Sōtō Zen in medieval Japan, Sōtō Zen funeral practices have been a significant point of contact between the monks and laity, and continue to play an important role in lay religious life today.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
==Funerals in contemporary North America==
 
 
 
===Traditional funerals===
 
[[Image:funeral.name.tribute.arp.jpg|thumb|right|250px|A floral name tribute (spelling out the word "[[Mother|MUM]]") at a funeral in [[England]].]]
 
Within the [[United States]] and [[Canada]], in most cultural groups and regions, the funeral [[ritual]]s can be divided into three parts:
 
visitation, funeral, and the burial service.
 
 
 
====Visitation====
 
At the ''visitation'' (also called a "[[viewing]]" or "[[wake (ceremony)|wake]]") the [[embalming|embalmed]] body of the deceased person (or decedent) is placed on display in the [[coffin]] (also called a casket). The viewing often takes place on one or two evenings before the funeral. The body is traditionally dressed in the decedent's best clothes, which may be slit up the back to facilitate dressing the body.  In recent times there has been more variation in what the decedent is dressed in.  The body will also be adorned with the usual jewelry, including a watch. The jewelry and watch will remain in the casket after burial, but it might be removed before cremation.
 
 
 
The only prescribed aspects{{Fact|date=February 2007}} of this gathering are that frequently the attendees sign a book kept by the deceased's survivors to record who attended and that the attendees are expected to view the deceased's body in the coffin. In addition, a family may choose to display photographs taken of the deceased person during his/her life (often, formal portraits with other family members and candid pictures to show "happy times"), prized possessions and other items representing his/her hobbies and/or accomplishments.  A more recent trend is to create a DVD with pictures and video of the deceased, accompanied by music, and play this DVD continuously during the visitation.  After the services, the DVD is given to the family.
 
 
 
The viewing is either "open casket," in which the embalmed body of the deceased has been clothed and treated with cosmetics for display; or "closed casket," in which the coffin is closed. The coffin may be closed if the body was too badly damaged because of an accident or fire, deformed from illness or if someone in the group is emotionally unable to cope with viewing the corpse. During an open casket, if the deceased was of [[Roman Catholic]] faith,  a large rosary made out of fresh flowers may be hung inside of the coffin.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
However, this step is foreign to Judaism; Jewish funerals are held soon after death, and the corpse is never displayed. As well, Jewish law{{Fact|date=February 2007}} forbids anyone to embalm the body of the deceased. Traditionally flowers (and music) are not sent to a grieving Jewish family as it is a reminder of the life that is now lost.''(See also [[Jewish bereavement]].)''
 
 
 
The decedent's closest friends and relatives who are unable to attend frequently send [[flower]]s to the viewing, with the exception of a Jewish Funeral [http://www.jdcc.org/sepoct97/doc1.htm], where flowers would not be appropriate (and donations are given to a charity instead). The viewing typically takes place at a [[funeral home]], which is equipped with gathering rooms where the viewing can be conducted, although the viewing may also take place at a [[church]]. It is also common practice in some of the states in the southeastern United States that the body is taken to the decedent’s home or that of a relative for viewing. The viewing may end with a prayer service; in the [[Roman Catholic Church|Catholic]] funeral, this may include a [[rosary]].{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
[[Image:stairway2heavensm.jpg|right]]
 
 
 
A visitation is often held the evening before the day of the funeral.  However, when the deceased person is elderly the visitation may be held immediately preceding the funeral.  This allows elderly friends of the deceased a chance to view the body and attend the funeral in one trip, since it may be difficult for them to arrange travel.
 
 
 
A Traditional Fire Department funeral consists of two raised aerial ladders.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}  The firefighter(s) travel under the aerials on their ride on the fire apparatus to the cemetery.
 
 
 
====Funeral====
 
A memorial service, often called a funeral and often officiated by [[clergy]] from the decedent's or bereaved's [[church]] or [[religion]]. A funeral may take place at either a [[funeral home]] or church.  A funeral is usually held three to five days after the death of the deceased.  Some people consider it important {{Fact|date=February 2007}} to conduct the funeral exactly three days after the death.
 
 
 
The deceased is usually transported from the funeral home to a church in a [[hearse]], a specialized vehicle designed to carry casketed remains.  The deceased most often transported in a procession, with the hearse, funeral service vehicles, and private automobiles traveling in a procession to the church or other location where the services will be held.  In a number of jurisdictions, special laws cover funeral processions - such as requiring other vehicles to give right-of-way to a funeral procession.  Funeral service vehicles may be equipped with light bars and special flashers to increase their visibility on the roads.  After the funeral service, if the deceased is to be buried the funeral procession will proceed to a cemetery if not already there.  If the deceased is to be cremated the funeral procession may then proceed to the crematory.
 
 
 
Funeral services include [[prayer]]s; readings from the [[Bible]] or other sacred texts; [[hymn]]s (sung either by the attendees or a hired vocalist); and words of comfort by the [[clergy]]. Frequently, a relative or close friend will be asked to give a [[eulogy]], which details happy memories and accomplishments; often commenting on the deceased's flaws, especially at length, is considered impolite. Sometimes the delivering of the eulogy is done by the clergy. Clergy are often asked to deliver eulogies for people they have never met.
 
 
 
Tradition {{Fact|date=February 2007}} also allows the attendees of the [[memorial service]] to have one last opportunity to view the decedent's body and say good-bye; the immediate family (siblings (and their spouses); followed by the decedent's spouse, parents and children) are always the very last to view their loved one before the coffin is closed. This opportunity can take place immediately before the service begins, or at the very end of the service.
 
 
 
During funerals, [[bagpipes]] are sometimes played. Curiously, at a police officer's or firefighter's funeral, the pipes are usually [[Great Highland Bagpipe]]s, not the [[Uillean pipes]] usually played by [[Music of Ireland|Irish]] musicians. In the [[United States]], police officers and firefighters are often of Irish, but seldom of Scottish descent {{Fact|date=April 2007}}. This custom, which was quite obvious in the funerals of emergency workers killed in the [[September 11, 2001]], [[World Trade Center attacks]], is mysterious but seldom questioned {{Fact|date=April 2007}}.
 
 
 
During the funeral and at the burial service, the casket may be covered with a large arrangement of flowers, called a casket spray.  If the decedent served in a branch of the Armed forces, the casket may be covered with a national flag; however nothing should cover the national flag according to Title 4, [[United States Code]], Chapter 1, Paragraph 8i.
 
 
 
Funeral customs vary from country to country. In the United States, any type of noise other than quiet whispering or mourning is considered disrespectful.
 
 
 
''Note: In some [[religious denomination]]s, for example, [[Roman Catholic]] and [[Anglicanism|Anglican]], eulogies are prohibited or discouraged during this service, in order to preserve respect for traditions. Also, for these religions, the coffin is traditionally closed at the end of the wake and is not re-opened for the funeral service.''
 
 
 
====Burial service====
 
[[Image:Millais - Das Tal der Stille.jpg|right|thumb|[[John Everett Millais]] - The Vale of Rest]]
 
A [[burial]] service, conducted at the side of the [[Grave (burial)|grave]], [[tomb]], [[mausoleum]] or [[cremation|crematorium]], at which the body of the decedent is buried or cremated at the conclusion.
 
 
 
Sometimes, the burial service will immediately follow the funeral, in which case a funeral procession travels from the site of the [[memorial service]] to the burial site. Other times, the burial service takes place at a later time, when the final resting place is ready.
 
 
 
If the decedent served in a branch of the [[Armed forces]], [[military rites]] are often accorded at the burial service.
 
 
 
In many religious traditions, [[pallbearer]]s, usually males who are close, but not immediate relatives (such as cousins, nephews or grandchildren) or friends of the decedent, will carry the casket from the chapel (of a [[funeral home]] or [[church]]) to the hearse, and from the hearse to the site of the [[burial]] service. The pallbearers often sit in a special reserved section during the [[memorial service]].
 
 
 
According to most religions, coffins are kept closed during the burial ceremony. In [[Eastern Orthodox Church|Eastern Orthodox]] funerals, the coffins are reopened just before burial to allow loved ones to look at the deceased one last time and give their final farewells.
 
 
 
The morticians will typically ensure that all jewelry, including wristwatch, that were displayed at the wake are in the casket before it is buried or entombed. It would be unseemly to have the decedent's heirs squabbling over a Rolex or an engagement ring. Custom requires that everything goes into the ground.
 
 
 
There is an exception, in the case of [[cremation]]. Such items tend to melt or suffer damage, so they are usually removed before the body goes into the furnace.  Pacemakers are removed prior to creamation - if they were left in they could possibly explode and damage the crematorium.
 
 
 
====Luncheon====
 
In many traditions, a meal or other gathering often follows the burial service.  This gathering may be held at the decedent's [[church]] or another off-site location.  Some funeral homes have large spaces set aside to provide funeral dinners. {{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
For [[Ireland|Irish]] descendants, An Irish Wake usually lasts 3 full days. On the day after the wake the funeral takes place. Family members and friends will ensure that there is always someone awake with the body, traditionally saying prayers.
 
 
 
====Etiquette====
 
Generally speaking, the number of people who are considered obliged to attend each of these three rituals by [[etiquette]] decreases at each step:
 
* Distant relatives and acquaintances may be called upon to attend the visitation.
 
* The decedent's closer relatives and local friends attend the funeral or memorial service, and subsequent burial (if it is held immediately after the memorial service).
 
* If the [[burial]] is on the day of the funeral, only the decedent's closest relatives and friends attend the burial service (although if the burial service immediately follows the funeral, all attendees of the memorial service are asked to attend).
 
 
 
Traditionally etiquette dictated{{Fact|date=February 2007}} that the bereaved and other attendees at a funeral wear semi-formal clothing—such as a [[suit]] and tie for men or a dress for women.  The most traditional and respectful color is solid black (with a matching solid black tie for men) preferably without any underlying pinstripes or patterns in the weave. But failing that charcoal gray or dark navy blue may be worn. Wearing short skirts, low-cut tops, or, at Western funerals, a large amount of white (other than a button-down shirt or blouse, or a military uniform) is often seen as disrespectful.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} Women who are grieving the death of their husband or a close partner sometimes wear a veil to conceal the face, although the veil is not common now.
 
 
 
===Private services===
 
On occasion, the family of the deceased may wish to have only a very small service, with just the decedent's closest family members and friends attending. This type of ceremony means it is closed to the public. One may only go to the funeral if he or she was invited. In this case, a private funeral service is conducted. Reasons vary but often include the following:
 
* The decedent was an infant (possibly, they may have been [[stillborn]]) or very aged, and therefore has few surviving family members or friends.
 
* The decedent may be a crime victim or a convicted criminal who was serving a prison sentence. In this case, the service is made private either to avoid unwanted media coverage (especially with a crime victim); or to avoid unwanted intrusion (especially if the decedent was convicted of murder or sexual assault).
 
* The family does not feel able to endure a traditional service (due to emotional shock) or simply wants a quiet, simple funeral with only the most important people of the decedent's life in attendance.
 
* The decedent is of a distinct [[celebrity]] status, and holding public ceremony would result in too many guests who are not acquainted with the decedent to participate. On the other hand, if a [[state funeral]] is offered and accepted by the decedent's immediate family, a public funeral would ensue. A recent example of this is the death of celebrity [[Steve Irwin]], in which his family was offered a state funeral but refused. They held a private ceremony for Irwin on 9 September 2006.
 
 
 
In some cases (particularly the latter), the family may schedule a public memorial service at a later time.
 
 
 
===Memorial services===
 
The memorial service is a service given for the deceased without the body present. This may take place after an earth burial, donation of the body to an institution such as a school, cremation (sometimes the cremations are present), entombment, or burial at sea. Typically these services take place at the funeral home and may include prayers, poems, or songs to remember the deceased. Pictures of the deceased are usually placed at the altar where the body would normally be to pay respects by.
 
 
 
===Other types of funerals===
 
[[Image:20000 graveyard.jpg|thumb|Underwater funeral in ''[[Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea]]'']]
 
====New Orleans Jazz Funeral====
 
A unique funeral tradition in the United States occurs in [[New Orleans]], [[Louisiana]]. The unique tradition arises from African spiritual practices, French [[Wiktionary:martial|martial]] musical traditions and uniquely African-American cultural influences. A typical [[jazz funeral]] begins with a march by the family, friends, and a [[jazz]] band from the home, funeral home or church to the cemetery. Throughout the march, the band plays very somber [[dirge]]s. Once the final ceremony has taken place, the march proceeds from the cemetery to a gathering place, and the solemn music is replaced by loud, upbeat, raucous music and dancing where onlookers join in to celebrate the life of the deceased. This is the origin of the New Orleans dance known as the "[[second line]]" where celebrants do a dance-march, frequently while raising the hats and umbrellas brought along as protection from intense New Orleans weather and waving handkerchiefs above the head that are no longer being used to wipe away tears.
 
 
 
====“Green” funeral====
 
Those with concerns about the effects on the environment of traditional burial or cremation may choose to be buried in a fashion more suited to their beliefs. They may choose to be buried in a coffin made of cardboard or other easily-biodegradable materials. Further, they may choose their final resting place to be in a park or woodland, known as an [[eco-cemetery]], and may have a tree planted over their grave as a contribution to the environment and a remembrance.
 
 
 
====Internet visitation/funeral====
 
A Funeral Home in North Syracuse, New York was the first funeral home to offer and broadcast a visitation and funeral "live" on the Internet. A Funeral Director at the Home said "It's not new technology, just a new application."  The use of a web-camera allows relatives who could not otherwise attend services to do so from any computer.  Family members and friends separated by distance, weather or circumstance can now become part of the support network by being connected electronically to the ceremonies. {{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
==Funerals in East Asia==
 
In most [[East Asian]], [[South Asian]] and many [[Southeast Asian]] cultures, the wearing of [[white]] is symbolic of death. In these societies, white or off-white robes are traditionally worn to symbolize that someone has died and can be seen worn among relatives of the deceased during a funeral ceremony. In Chinese culture, [[Red#Symbolism|red]] is strictly forbidden as it is a traditionally symbolic color of happiness. Contemporary Western influence however has meant that dark-colored or [[black]] attire is now often also acceptable for mourners to wear (particularly for those outside the family). In such cases, mourners wearing dark colors at times may also wear a white or off-white armband or white robe. When a coffin is lowered into the ground the mourners will bow their heads and must not watch the coffin being lowered into the ground. Sometimes, some members of the procession are required to turn their backs and not look at the coffin as it is sealed, entering the carriage, removed from the carriage and entering the ground. They may also be required to wipe their faces with a white cloth. Paper money and commodities constructed out of paper and bamboo are often burnt for the deceased for use in the afterlife.
 
 
 
A traditional Chinese gift to the attendees upon entering is a white envelope, usually enclosing a small sum of money (in odd numbers, usually one dollar), a sweet and a handkerchief, each with symbolic meaning. Chinese custom also dictates that the said sum of money should not be brought home. The sweet should be consumed the day of and anything given during the funeral must not be brought home. The repetition of 3 is common where people at the funeral may brush their hair three times or spit three times before leaving the funeral to ward off bad luck. This custom is also found in other East Asian and Southeast Asian cultures.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
Most [[Japanese funeral]]s are conducted with [[Buddhism|Buddhist]] rites. Many feature a ritual that bestows a new [[name]] on the deceased; funerary names typically use obsolete or [[archaism|archaic]] [[kanji]] and words, to avoid the likelihood of the name being used in ordinary speech or writing. The new names are typically chosen by a Buddhist priest, after consulting the family of the deceased. Most Japanese are cremated.
 
 
 
==African funerals==
 
The custom of burying the dead in the floor of dwelling-houses has been to some degree prevalent on the Gold Coast of Africa. The ceremony is purely animist, and apparently without any set ritual. The main exception is that the females of the family of the deceased and their friends may undergo mournful lamentations. In some instances they work their feelings up to an ostentatious, frenzy-like degree of sorrow. The revelry may be heightened by the use of alcohol, of which drummers, flute-players, bards, and singing men may partake. The funeral may last for as much as a week. Another custom, a kind of memorial, frequently takes place seven years after the person's death. These funerals and especially the memorials may be extremely expensive for the family in question. Cattle, sheep, goats, and poultry, may be offered in remembrance and then consumed in festivities.
 
 
 
Some funerals in Ghana are held with the deceased put in elaborate "fantasy coffins" colored and shaped after a certain object, such as a fish, crab, boat, and even an airplane.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
==Ancient funeral rites==
 
The most simple and natural kind of funeral monuments, and therefore the most ancient and universal, consist in a mound of earth, or a heap of stones, raised over the body or ashes of the departed: of such monuments mention is made in the [[Book of Joshua]], and in [[Homer]] and [[Virgil]].
 
 
 
The place of burial amongst the Jews was never particularly determined. Ancient Jews had burial-places upon the highways, in gardens, and upon mountains. In the [[Hebrew Bible]] (known as the Christian [[Old Testament]]), [[Abraham]] was buried with [[Sarah]], his wife, in the [[Cave of the Patriarchs|cave]] in Machpelah, the field he bought from Ephron the [[Hittites|Hittite]]; [[David]], king of [[Israel]], and the other kings after him (including [[Uzziah of Judah]]) "rested with [their] ancestors" in the burial field that pertained to the kings.
 
 
 
The primitive Greeks were buried in places prepared for that purpose in their own houses; but later they established burial grounds in desert islands, and outside the walls of towns, by that means securing them from disturbance, and themselves from the liability of catching infection from those who had died of contagious disorders.
 
 
 
===Funerals in ancient Rome===
 
In ancient [[Rome]], the eldest surviving male of the household, the ''[[pater familias]]'', was summoned to the death-bed, where he attempted to catch and inhale the last breath of the decedent.
 
 
 
Funerals of the socially prominent were usually undertaken by professional undertakers called ''libitinarii''. No direct description has been passed down of Roman funeral rites. These rites usually included a public procession to the tomb or pyre where the body was to be cremated. The most noteworthy thing about this procession was that the survivors bore [[mask]]s bearing the images of the family's deceased ancestors. The right to carry the masks in public was eventually restricted to families prominent enough to have held [[curule]] magistracies. [[mime artist|Mime]]s, [[dance]]rs, and [[musician]]s hired by the undertakers, as well as professional female mourners, took part in these processions. Less well to do Romans could join benevolent [[funerary]] societies ''(collegia funeraticia)'' who undertook these rites on their behalf.
 
 
 
Nine days after the disposal of the body, by burial or cremation, a feast was given ''(cena novendialis)'' and a libation poured over the grave or the ashes. Since most Romans were cremated, the ashes were typically collected in an [[urn]] and placed in a niche in a collective tomb called a ''columbarium'' (literally, "[[dovecote]]"). During this nine day period, the house was considered to be tainted, ''funesta'', and was hung with [[Taxus baccata|yew]] or [[Mediterranean Cypress|cypress]] branches to warn by passers. At the end of the period, the house was swept in an attempt to purge it of the dead person's [[ghost]].
 
 
 
Several Roman holidays commemorated a family's dead ancestors, including the ''[[Parentalia]]'', held February 13 through 21, to honor the family's ancestors; and the ''[[Feast of the Lemures|Lemuria]]'', held on May 9, 11, and 13, in which ghosts ''([[larvae|larvæ]])'' were feared to be active, and the ''pater familias'' sought to appease them with offerings of [[bean]]s.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
The Romans prohibited burning or burying in the city, both from a sacred and civil consideration, so that the priests might not be contaminated by touching a dead body, and so that houses would not be endangered by funeral fires.
 
 
 
The Romans commonly built tombs for themselves during their lifetime. Hence these words frequently occur in ancient inscriptions, V.F. Vivus Facit, V.S.P. Vivus Sibi Posuit. The tombs of the rich were usually constructed of marble, the ground enclosed with walls, and planted round with trees. But common sepulchres were usually built below ground, and called hypogea. There were niches cut out of the walls, in which the urns were placed; these, from their resemblance to the niche of a pigeon-house, were called columbaria.
 
 
 
===Funerals in Scotland===
 
An old funeral rite from the [[Scotland|Scottish Highlands]] is to bury the deceased with a wooden plate resting on his chest. In the plate were placed a small amount of earth and [[salt]], to represent the future of the deceased. The earth hinted that the body would decay and become one with the earth, while the salt represented the [[soul]], which does not decay. This rite was known as "earth laid upon a corpse".{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
==Mutes and professional mourners  ==
 
From about 1600 to 1914, there were two professions in Europe now almost totally forgotten. The mute is depicted in art quite frequently but in literature is probably best known from Dickens' "[[Oliver Twist]]." Oliver is working for Sowerberry's when this conversation takes place: "There's an expression of melancholy in his face, my dear ... which is very interesting. He would make a delightful mute, my love." The main purpose of a funeral mute was to stand around at funerals with a sad, pathetic face. The professional mourner, generally a woman, would shriek and wail, to encourage others to weep. These people are mentioned{{Fact|date=February 2007}} in ancient Greek plays, and were employed throughout Europe, but the practice largely died out in the nineteenth century. They continue to exist in Africa and the Middle East.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
The 2003 award-winning [[Philippines|Philippine]] comedy ''[[Crying Ladies]]'' revolves around the lives of three women who are part-time professional mourners for the [[Chinese-Filipino]] community in [[Manila]]'s [[Chinatown]]. According to the film, the Chinese use professional mourners to help expedite the entry of a deceased loved one's soul into heaven by giving the impression that he or she was a good and loving person, well-loved by many.
 
 
 
== Funerals for heroes ==
 
Viking chieftains were placed in ships after their death, together with tools and weapons.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} The ships were then set on a course out to sea and set ablaze. This is still re-enacted as part of festivals in the north of Europe, particularly at [[Up Helly-Aa]] and the Delamont Viking Festival. Military heroes such as Nelson, Wellington and Sir Winston Churchill had their coffins paraded through the city of London, placed on gun carriages. The guns were originally pulled by horses, but are now pulled by sailors. This is called a [[State Funeral]].
 
 
 
==Final disposition of the dead==
 
Some cultures place the dead in [[tomb]]s of various sorts, either individually, or in specially designated tracts of land that house tombs. [[Burial]] in a [[graveyard]] is one common form of tomb. In some places, burials are impractical because the ground water is too high; therefore tombs are placed above ground, as was the case in [[New Orleans, Louisiana]]. Elsewhere, a separate building for a tomb is usually reserved for the socially prominent and wealthy. Especially grand above-ground tombs are called [[mausoleum]]s. Other buildings used as tombs include the [[crypt]]s in churches; burial in these places is again usually a privilege given to the socially prominent dead. In more recent times, however, this has often been forbidden by hygiene laws.
 
 
 
Burial was not always permanent. In some areas, burial grounds needed to be re-used because of limited space. In these areas, once the dead have [[decomposition|decomposed]] to [[skeleton]]s, the bones are removed; after their removal they can be placed in an [[ossuary]].
 
 
 
"[[Burial at sea]]" means the deliberate disposal of a corpse into the [[ocean]], wrapped and tied with weights to make sure it sinks. It is a common practice in [[navy|navies]] and sea-faring nations; in the [[Church of England]], special forms of funeral service were added to the [[Book of Common Prayer]] to cover it. Science fiction writers have frequently analogized with "[[Space burial|Burial in space]]."
 
 
 
[[Image:StJosephsChapelMausoleum.jpg|thumbnail|left|220px|St. Joseph's Chapel [[Mausoleum]] at [[Mount Olivet Cemetery (Dubuque)|Mount Olivet Cemetery]] in [[Key West, Iowa|Key West]] (rural [[Dubuque, Iowa|Dubuque]]), [[Iowa]]. This mausoleum has traditional mausoleum crypts as well as [[columbarium]] niches for [[cremation|cremated]] remains.]]
 
[[Cremation]], also, is an old custom; it was the usual mode of disposing of a corpse in ancient [[Rome]]. [[Viking]]s were occasionally cremated in their [[longship]]s, and afterwards the location of the site was marked with [[standing stone]]s. In recent years, despite the objections of some religious groups, cremation has become more and more widely used. [[Orthodox Judaism]] and the [[Eastern Orthodox Church]] forbid cremation, as do most [[Islam|Muslims]]. Orthodox Judaism forbids cremation according to Jewish law ''([[Halakha]])'' believing that the soul of a cremated person cannot find its final repose. The [[Roman Catholic Church]] forbade it for many years, but since 1963 the church has allowed it so long as it is not done to express disbelief in bodily resurrection. The church specifies that cremated remains are either buried or entombed. They do not allow cremated remains to be scattered or kept at home. Many Catholic cemeteries now have columbarium niches for cremated remains, or specific sections for those remains. Some denominations of [[Protestantism]] allow cremation, the more conservative denominations generally do not.
 
 
 
Hindus consider the funeral as the final "[[samskar]]" or ritual of life.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
Cremation is generally mandatory for all Hindus, except for saints and children under the age of 5 years.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} Cremation is seen as the only way in which all the five elements of fire, water, earth, air and space would be satisfied by returning the body to these elements as after cremation the ashes are poured into the sacred river [[Ganges]] or into the sea.
 
After death the body of the deceased is placed on the ground with the head of the deceased pointing towards [[south]] which is considered the direction of the dead. The body is anointed with sacred items such as sandalwood paste and holy ashes, tulsi (basil) leaves and water from the river Ganges. The eldest son would whisper "Om namah shivay" or "Om namo bhagavate vasudevaya" near the ear of the deceased.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} An oil lamp is lit besides the deceased and chapters from the holy [[Bhagavad Gita]] or [[Garud Purana]] are recited. Traditionally the body has to be cremated within 24 hours after death, as keeping the body longer is considered to lead to impurity and hinder the passage of the dead to afterlife.  Hence before cremation as the body lies in state, minimal physical contact with the body is observed. 
 
 
 
A [[Hindu priest|priest]] is called in to lead the formal religious rituals, after which the body is taken to the cremation ground, where the eldest son normally lights the funeral pyre, this act is considered to be the most important duty of a son as it is believed that he leads his parents from this world into [[moksha]].
 
Immediately after the cremation, the family members of the deceased all have to take a purifying bath and observe a 12-day mourning period. This mourning period ends on the morning of the thirteenth day on which a [[Shraddh]] ceremony is conducted in which offerings are given to ancestors and other gods in order to grant liberation or moksha to the deceased.
 
 
 
Recently a new method of disposing of the body, called [[promession]] or an [[Ecological funeral]], has been patented by a Swedish company.{{Fact|date=February 2007}} Its main purpose is to return the body to soil quickly while minimizing pollution and resource consumption.
 
 
 
Rarer forms of disposal of the dead include [[excarnation]], where the corpse is exposed to the elements. This was done by some groups of [[Native Americans in the United States|Native Americans]]; it is still practiced by [[Zoroastrianism|Zoroastrian]]s in [[Bombay]], where the [[Towers of Silence|Towers of Silence/Daxma]]s allow [[vulture]]s and other carrion eating [[bird]]s to dispose of the corpses. Zoroastrianism believes that fire is [[sacred]] and should not be defiled by cremating a human body. It is also practiced by some Tibetan Buddhists and is sometimes called [[Sky burial]].{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
[[Cannibalism]] is also practiced post-mortem in some countries. The practice has been linked to the spread of a [[prion]] disease called [[kuru (disease)|kuru]].{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
[[Mummy|Mummification]] is the drying of bodies to preserve them. The most famous practitioners of mummification were ancient Egyptians: many nobles and high-ranked bureaucrats of the old Egyptian kingdom had their corpses [[Embalming|embalmed]] and stored in luxurious [[sarcophagus|sarcophagi]] inside their funeral mausoleum or, in the cases of some [[Pharaoh]]s, a [[pyramid]].{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
==Control by the decedent of the details of the funeral==
 
[[Image:Freudenberg-Max 1921a.jpg|225px|right|thumbnail|Bill of a 1920's funeral director.]]
 
In [[law]] in the United States, the deceased have little say in the manner in which their funerals can be conducted. The law generally holds{{Fact|date=February 2007}} that the funeral rituals are for the benefit of the survivors, rather than to express the personal whims and tastes of the deceased.
 
 
 
The decedent may, in most U.S. jurisdictions, provide instructions as to his funeral by means of a [[Will (law)|Last Will and Testament]]. These instructions can be given some legal effect if [[bequest]]s are made contingent on the [[heir]]s carrying them out, with alternative gifts if they are not followed. This assumes, of course, that the decedent has enough of an estate to make the heirs pause before doing something that will invoke the alternate bequest. To be effective, the will must be easily available, and some notion of what it provides must be known to the decedent's survivors.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
Some people{{Fact|date=February 2007}} dislike the clutter and display of [[flower]]s at funerals, and feel that there is an unseemly competition in the number and size of the floral arrangements sent. Many [[newspaper]]s{{Fact|date=February 2007}} refuse to print an [[obituary]] that requests that flowers not be sent; to do so would be to offend the florists' industry. Many obituaries do, however, contain notices regarding "memorial gifts" to a [[charitable organization]]. It is usually understood in these situations that a gift to the charity made in memory of the decedent relieves the donor of the social duty of sending flowers.
 
 
 
==Anatomical gifts==<!-- This section is linked from [[Uniform Anatomical Gift Act]] —>
 
Another way of avoiding some of the rituals and costs of a traditional funeral is for the decedent to donate some or all of her or his body to a [[medical school]] or similar institution for the purpose of instruction in [[anatomy]], or for similar purposes. Students of [[medicine]] and [[osteopathy]] frequently study anatomy from donated [[cadavers]]; they are also useful in [[forensic]] research.
 
 
 
Making an anatomical gift is a separate transaction from being an [[organ donor]], in which any useful organs are removed from the unembalmed cadaver for [[medicine|medical]] [[transplant]]. Under a [[Uniform Act]] in force in most jurisdictions of the United States, being an organ donor is a simple process that can often be accomplished when a [[driver's license]] is renewed.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
There are some medical conditions, such as [[amputation]]s, or various [[surgery|surgeries]], that can make the cadaver unsuitable for these purposes. Conversely, the bodies of people who had certain medical conditions are useful for research into those conditions. All US medical schools rely on the generosity of "anatomical donors" for the teaching of anatomy. Typically the remains are cremated once the students have completed their anatomy classes, and many medical schools now hold a memorial service at that time as well.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
==See also==
 
*[[Bereavement in Judaism]]
 
*[[Burial]]
 
*[[Celebrant (United States)]]
 
*[[Cremation]]
 
*[[Funeral Consumers Alliance]]
 
*[[Icelandic funeral]]
 
*[[Living funeral]]
 
*[[Mourning]]
 
*[[Military rites]]
 
*[[Military funeral]]
 
*[[Museum of Funeral Customs]]
 
*[[Requiem]]
 
*[[State funeral]]
 
  
 
== Notes ==
 
== Notes ==
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==References==
 
==References==
* {{cite book | last = Ghamidi | first = Javed  | authorlink = Javed Ahmed Ghamidi  | title = [[Mizan]]  | publisher = [[Al-Mawrid|Dar al-Ishraq]]  | year = 2001 | doi =  | id = {{OCLC|52901690}} }}
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*''The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition''. Houghton Mifflin Company, 2006. ISBN 978-0618701728
* [[Amin Ahsan Islahi]], [[Tadabbur-i-Qur'an]], 2nd ed., vol. 1, (Lahore: Faran Foundation, 1986)
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*Fowler, Gene. ''Caring Through the Funeral: A Pastor’s Guide.'' St Louis: Chalice Press. ISBN 0827204930
 
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* Ghamidi, Javed Ahmed. ''Mizan'' Dar al-Ishraq, 2001.
 
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* Harris, Mark. ''Grave Matters: A Journey Through the Modern Funeral Industry to a Natural Way of Burial.'' Scribner, 2007. ISBN 978-0743277686
==External links==
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* Islahi, Amin A. ''Tadabbur-i-Qur'an,'' 2nd ed., vol. 1, Lahore, Pakistan: Faran Foundation, 1986.
 
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*Wilson, Jane Wynne. ''Funeral Without God: A Practical Guide to Non-Religious Funerals.'' New York: Prometheus Books, 1991. ISBN 0879756411
*[http://www.nfda.org National Funeral Directors Association]
 
*[http://www.funeralmuseum.org/index.html Museum of Funeral Customs homepage]
 
*[http://www.funerals.org/ Funeral Consumers Alliance]
 
*[http://www.funeral-poems.org Huge collection of funeral readings]
 
*[http://www.vietnam-culture.com/articles-22-3/Funeral-ceremonies.aspx Vietnamese Funeral ceremonies]
 
*[http://www.rosicrucian.com/zineen/death7.htm The Rosicrucian Method of Caring for the Dead]
 
 
 
* [http://islam.about.com/cs/elderly/a/funerals.htm Islamic Funeral Rites]
 
* [http://architectural.wordpress.com/2006/12/07/islamic-burial-grounds-architectural-investigations Faradis] Architecture of muslim burial grounds
 
* [http://www.muhammad.net/islamiat/afterLife/funeral.html A Step by step illustrated Janazah guide]
 
 
 
*[http://www.chabad.org/generic.asp?AID=266275 Web portal on Death, Mourning and Hope in Jewish Tradition & Practice]
 
*[http://judaism.about.com/od/deathandmournin1/ About.com]
 
*[http://torah.org/qanda/kbdmp.php?rootid=32 Torah.org]
 
*[http://www.yarzheit.com yarzheit.com]
 
*[http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?artid=972&letter=M Jewish Encyclopedia article on Mourning]
 
*[http://www.chabad.org/article.asp?AID=281541 The Jewish Way in Death and Mourning] By Maurice Lamm
 
*[http://www.mazornet.com/deathandmourning/ Orthodox, Conservative and Reform perspectives] from Mazornet.com
 
*[http://www.chabad.org/calendar/yahrtzeit.asp?AID=6229 Yahrtzeit Calculator]
 
 
 
*[http://tanutech.com/japan/jfunerals.html Japanese Buddhist Funeral Customs]
 
*[http://www.osoushiki-plaza.com/eng/eng1.html Japanese funeral checklist]
 
*[http://www3.tky.3web.ne.jp/~edjacob/deathintro.htm The Japanese way of death]
 
*[http://www.debito.org/japanesefuneral.html debito.org eyewitness account on Japanese funerals]
 
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Funeral arrangement in a Temple in Tokyo

A funeral is a ceremony marking a person's death. Funerary customs comprise the complex of beliefs and practices used by a culture to remember the dead, from the funeral itself, to various monuments, prayers, and rituals undertaken in their honor. These customs vary widely between cultures, and between religious affiliations within cultures. In some cultures the dead are venerated; this is commonly called ancestor worship.

Funeral rites can be traced back to the most primitive of societies. In the Shanidar cave in Iraq, Neanderthal skeletons have been discovered with a characteristic layer of pollen, which suggests that Neanderthals buried the dead with gifts of flowers. This has been interpreted as suggesting that Neanderthals believed in an afterlife, were capable of mourning and most likely held some form of funeral ceremony when doing so.

As the final ceremony in which those still alive can share on the earth with their loved ones, the funeral is a deeply meaningful event to all involved. Religious traditions reflect a variety of beliefs in death and the afterlife, and the relationship between the body left behind and its spirit. In many cases, despite feelings of loss, the funeral is a celebration of the life of the deceased.

History

A lithographic painting depicting a Muslim funeral procession in India, circa 1888.

The word funeral comes from the Latin funus, which had a variety of meanings, often referring to the corpse and the funerary rites themselves.

The most simple and natural kind of funeral monuments, and therefore the most ancient and universal, consist of a mound of earth, or a heap of stones, raised over the body or ashes of the departed. Mention of such monuments has been made in the Book of Joshua, and in Homer and Virgil.

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Funeral rites can be traced back to the early human societies

A place of burial amongst the Jews was never particularly determined. Ancient Jews had burial-places upon the highways, in gardens, and upon mountains. In the Hebrew Bible, or the Christian Old Testament, Abraham was buried with Sarah, his wife, in the cave in Machpelah, the field he bought from Ephron the Hittite. David, king of Israel, and the other kings after him, including Uzziah of Judah, "rested with [their] ancestors" in the unknown burial field that pertained to the kings.

Primitive Greeks were buried in places prepared for burial purposes within their own homes. Later they established burial grounds in desert islands, and outside the walls of towns in order to secure them from disturbance, and themselves from the liability of catching infection from those who had died of contagious disorders.

In Japanese history, famous leaders were often buried in tombs. The oldest known burial chamber was that built between 230 B.C.E. and 220 B.C.E. in Sakurai, Nara prefecture, and called the Hokenoyama tomb. The tomb is 80 meters long; the chamber is seven meters long and 2.7 meters wide and contained a coffin five meters long and one meter wide.

Many societies, stemming from the ancient Greeks and Romans to seventeenth century British, hired professional “mutes” and “mourners” to attend various funeral ceremonies an act the part of an appropriate attendee. The role of funeral mute is quite frequently depicted in art, but in literature may be best known from Charles Dickens' "Oliver Twist." The main purpose of a funeral mute was to attend funerals wearing a sad, melancholy expression. The professional mourner, generally a woman, would shriek and wail, to encourage others to weep. These positions—mentioned in ancient Greek plays—were employed throughout Europe until the practice largely died out in the nineteenth century. Some of these funerary roles continue to exist in parts of Africa and the Middle East.

Traditional funerals

A floral name tribute (spelling out the word "MUM") at a funeral in England.

In most cultural groups and regions, including the United States, Canada and Great Britain, the funeral rituals can be divided into three parts including a visitation, funeral, and burial service.

Visitation

At the visitation, "viewing" or "wake," the embalmed body of the deceased person is placed on display in a coffin or casket. The viewing often takes place on one or two evenings before the funeral. The body is traditionally dressed in the decedent's best clothes, which may be slit up the back to facilitate dressing the body. In recent times there has been more variation in what the decedent is dressed in. The body may also be adorned with the usual jewelry, including a watch. The jewelry and watch will remain in the casket after burial, but removed before cremation.

Frequently, attendees of the wake may sign a book kept by the deceased's survivors to record who attended the wake. In addition, a family may choose to display photographs taken of the deceased person during his or her lifetime, prized possessions belonging to the deceased or other items representing his or her hobbies or accomplishments.

The viewing can be either "open casket," in which the embalmed body of the deceased has been clothed and treated with cosmetics for display, or "closed casket," in which the coffin is closed. The coffin may be closed if the body suffered damage in death, was deformed from illness, or if someone in the group is emotionally unable to cope with viewing the corpse.

The decedent's closest friends and relatives who are unable to attend frequently send flowers to the viewing. The viewing typically takes place at a funeral home, or church. In some circumstances the body is taken to the decedent’s home or that of a relative for viewing. The viewing often ends with a prayer service.

Funeral

The memorial service, often called a funeral, is generally officiated by clergy from the decedent's or bereaved's church or religion. A funeral may take place at either a funeral home or church. A funeral is usually held three to five days after the death of the deceased.

Members of a joint honor guard escort the caisson bearing President Ronald Reagan's flag-draped casket during his funeral procession

The deceased is usually transported from the funeral home to a church in a hearse, a specialized vehicle designed to carry casketed remains. The deceased most often is transported in a procession, with the hearse, funeral service vehicles, and private automobiles traveling in a procession to the church or other location where the services will be held. In a number of jurisdictions, special laws cover funeral processions, such as requiring other vehicles to give right-of-way to a funeral procession. Funeral service vehicles may be equipped with light bars and special flashers to increase their visibility on the roads. After the funeral service, if the deceased is to be buried the funeral procession will proceed to a cemetery if not already there. If the deceased is to be cremated the funeral procession may then proceed to the crematory.

Funeral services include prayers, readings from the Bible or other sacred texts, hymns sung either by the attendees or a hired vocalist, or words of comfort by the clergy. Frequently, a relative or close friend will be asked to give a eulogy, which details happy memories and accomplishments. Sometimes the delivering of the eulogy is done by the clergy.

During funerals, bagpipes are sometimes played. During the funeral and at the burial service, the casket may be covered with a large arrangement of flowers, called a casket spray. If the decedent served in a branch of the Armed forces, the casket may be covered with a national flag.

Burial service

John Everett Millais, The Vale of Rest

A burial service is conducted at the side of the grave, tomb, mausoleum, or crematorium, at which the body of the decedent is buried or cremated. Sometimes, the burial service will immediately follow the funeral, in which case a funeral procession travels from the site of the memorial service to the burial site. Other times, the burial service takes place at a later time, when the final resting place is ready. If the decedent served in a branch of the Armed forces, military rites are often accorded at the burial service.

In many religious traditions, pallbearers, usually males who are close, but not immediate relatives, such as cousins, nephews, or grandchildren, or friends of the decedent, will carry the casket to the hearse, and from the hearse to the site of the burial service.

According to most religions, coffins are kept closed during the burial ceremony. In Eastern Orthodox funerals, the coffins are reopened just before burial to allow loved ones to look at the deceased one last time and give their final farewells. Morticians will typically ensure that all jewelry that was displayed at the wake is in the casket before it is buried or entombed. There is an exception, in the case of cremation. Such items tend to melt or suffer damage, so they are usually removed before the body goes into the furnace.

In many traditions, a meal or other gathering often follows the burial service. This gathering may be held at the decedent's church or another off-site location. Some funeral homes have large spaces set aside to provide funeral dinners. On occasion, the family of the deceased may wish to hold a small service, with just the decedent's closest family members and friends attending. This type of ceremony is often closed to the public, and one may only go to the funeral if he or she was invited. Reasons vary but may include the burial of an infant, the burial of a criminal, general emotional shock, or celebrity status.

If a state funeral is offered and accepted by the decedent's immediate family, a public funeral would ensue. In some cases, the family may schedule a private funeral with a public memorial service at a later time.

Funeral etiquette

Traditional etiquette often holds that mourners and other attendees at a funeral wear semi-formal clothing, such as a suit and tie for men or a dress for women. The most traditional and respectful color is solid black. Wearing short skirts, low-cut tops, or, at Western funerals, a large amount of white other than a men's business shirt or woman's blouse, or a military uniform, is often seen as disrespectful. Women who are grieving the death of their husband or a close partner sometimes wear a dark veil that conceals the face.

Funeral variations

Ancient Roman funerals

In ancient Rome, the eldest surviving male of the household, or the pater familias, was summoned to the death-bed, where he attempted to catch and inhale the last breath of the decedent. Roman funerals of the socially prominent were usually undertaken by professional undertakers called libitinarii. Though no direct description has been passed down of Roman funeral rites, these rites are believed to have included a public procession to the tomb or pyre where the body was to be cremated. The most noteworthy thing about this procession was that the survivors bore masks bearing the images of the family's deceased ancestors. The right to carry the masks in public was eventually restricted to families prominent enough to have held curule magistracies. Mimes, dancers, and musicians hired by the undertakers, as well as professional female mourners, took part in these processions. Less well to do Romans could join benevolent funerary societies, or collegia funeraticia, who undertook these rites on their behalf.

Nine days after the disposal of the body, by burial or cremation, a feast was given, called a cena novendialis, and a libation poured over the grave or the ashes. Since most Romans were cremated, the ashes were typically collected in an urn and placed in a niche in a collective tomb called a columbarium. During this nine day period, the house was considered to be tainted, or funesta, and was hung with yew or cypress branches to warn by passers. At the end of the period, the house was swept in an attempt to purge it of the dead person's spirit.

The Romans prohibited burning or burying in the city, both from a sacred and civil consideration, so that the priests might not be contaminated by touching a dead body, and so that houses would not be endangered by funeral fires.

The Romans commonly built tombs for themselves during their lifetime; tombs of the rich were usually constructed of marble, the ground enclosed with walls, and planted with trees. Common sepulchers were usually built below ground, and called hypogea. Here niches were cut into the walls, in which the urns were placed; due to their resemblance to the niche of a pigeon-house, these were often called “columbaria.”

Christian funerals

Among Christians, a Catholic funeral refers to the funeral rites specifically in use in the Roman Catholic Church. Within the church, they may also be referred to as ecclesiastical funerals. In Catholic funerals, the church seeks to provide spiritual support for the deceased and honor their bodies, as well as provide a measure of hope for the family and friends of the deceased.

In the years before the Second Vatican Council the rites used were different than those used today. The Catholic Funeral Mass was originally termed the Requiem Mass. Such Masses had a number of differences from traditional Masses, mainly taking a more solemn character and more of a focus on the sinful nature of humanity and the judgment that came at the end of a life. The priest was vested in the liturgical color black, and no blessing was given. The sequence Dies Iræ, or Day of Wrath, was included in the Mass, which spoke of the upcoming ending of the world and the judgment that followed.

After the Second Vatican Council, a number of the rites associated with a funeral were changed; many texts and scriptures were removed which overemphasized judgment, fear, and despair. The modern funeral Mass, or the Mass of Christian Burial focuses on the fact that rather than ending, that life has changed. Instead of the black vestments of previous years, the priest may be vested in white, violet, or, on occasion, black. The Mass consists of the reception of the body at the church, liturgies of the word and Eucharist, and the final committal.[1]

Hindu funerals

A funeral in Bali

Antyesti, or Hindu funeral rites, form an important sacrament of Hindu society. The funeral rites often differ in theory, practice, and procedure depending on the caste, jāti, or the social status of the deceased person.

Hindu traditions involve cremation to dispose of the dead. Cremation practices became popular due to the notion that the soul cannot enter a new body until its former one has completely disappeared; cremation was found to be the fastest way to expeditiously dispose of such bodies.

Hindu funeral rites are often divided into four stages. The first stage is comprised of all rituals and rights to be performed when the body is nearing death. The second state consists of various rites to accompany the disposal of the body after death has occurred. The third stage is comprised of the rites to enable the soul of the dead to transit successfully from the stage of a spirit to the realm of the ancestors. The last stage is comprised of the rites performed in honor of the Pitrs.

Hindu procedures for cremation vary from place to place. Generally, after death, the body is placed on the floor with the head pointing north which marks the direction of the dead. An oil lamp is lit and placed near the body and is kept burning continuously for the first three days following the death. In Hinduism, the dead body is considered to be symbol of great impurity and there is minimal physical contact with the dead body by the living. Most often the dead body is bathed in purified water, and dressed in new clothes. Sacred ash “bhasma” is applied to the forehead of the deceased. Further, drops of the holy Ganges water may be put into the mouth of the deceased so that the soul may attain liberation, while leaves of the holy basil “tulsi” are placed to the right of the body. The body may then be adorned with jewels and placed on a stretcher. The stretcher is adorned with different flowers including roses, jasmine, and marigolds; the body itself is almost completely covered with flowers. Thereafter, the close relatives of the deceased person carry the stretcher on their shoulders to the cremation ground.

The cremation ground is traditionally located near a river, if not on the river bank itself. There, a pyre is prepared, on which the corpse is laid. The jewels, if any, are removed. Thereafter, the chief mourner, generally the eldest son, walks around the pyre three times keeping the body to his left. While walking he sprinkles water and sometimes ghee onto the pyre from a vessel. He then sets the pyre alight with a torch of flame. The beginning of the cremation heralds the start of the traditional mourning period, which usually ends on the morning of the thirteenth day after death. When the fire consumes the body, which may take a few hours, the mourners return home. One or two days after the funeral, the chief mourner returns to the cremation ground to collect the mortal remains and put them in an urn. These remains are then immersed into a body of water, usually a river.

Islamic funerals

Islamic funerals follow specific rites and rituals for burying the dead, and are performed as soon as possible following death. The first of such rituals is to bathe the dead body to physically cleanse the corpse. The second is to enshroud the body in a simple plain cloth, known as coffin cloth or kafan. The main factor in this step is to respectfully wrap the corpse in a cloth so that its private parts are not visible to others. This is followed by a traditional funeral prayer in which the Muslims of the community gather to offer collective prayers for the forgiveness of the dead. This prayer has been generally termed as the Janazah prayer.

The next stage consists of the burial of the body in a grave, positioning the deceased’s head toward Mecca in a grave aligned on a northeast to southwest axis. The wrapped body is placed directly into the ground, without any kind of casket. Muslim graves are to be raised between four and twelve inches from the ground. This is to prevent anyone from sitting or walking on the grave, which is strictly forbidden. Graves markers are simple as outwardly lavish displays are discouraged; some graves are left unmarked, or marked only with a simple wreath. Only men are allowed to attend the actual graveside service.

Loved ones and relatives are to observe a three-day mourning period. Mourning is observed in Islam by increased devotion, receiving visitors and condolences, and avoiding decorative clothing and jewelry. Widows observe an extended mourning period, or Iddah, lasting four months and ten days long. During this time, the widow is not to remarry, move from her home, or wear decorative clothing or jewelry.

Jewish funerals

Bereavement in Judaism is a combination of minhag, or "traditional custom," and mitzvot, or "commandments" derived from Judaism's classical Torah and rabbinic texts. However, the details of observance and practice vary according to each Jewish community.

After death, a chevra kadisha which acts as a burial society, is loosely structured to organize Jewish men and women to ensure the bodies of Jews are prepared for burial according to Jewish law. Members ensure that the bodies of the deceased are protected from desecration, willful or not, until burial. Two of the main requirements are the showing of proper respect for the body of the deceased, and the ritual cleansing of the body and dressing for burial.

Tombstone in the "new Jewish section" of Oakland Cemetery in Atlanta, GA.

Many burial societies hold one or two annual fast days and organize regular study sessions to remain up to date with the relevant articles of Jewish law. In addition, most burial societies also support families during the shiva, or traditional week of mourning, by arranging prayer services, preparing meals, and providing other services for the mourners.

The three major stages to preparing the body for burial include washing, ritual purification, and dressing. First, the body is uncovered and carefully washed. As all blood must be buried along with the deceased, any open bleeding is stopped. The body is thoroughly cleaned of dirt, body fluids and solids, and anything else that may be on the skin. All jewelry is removed. The body is then purified with water, either by immersion in a mikvah or by pouring a continuous stream in a prescribed manner. The body is then dried and dressed in traditional burial clothing, or tachrichim. A sash is wrapped around the clothing and tied in the form of the Hebrew letter "shin," representing one of the names of God.

If a coffin is used, it is prepared by removing any linings or other embellishments. The body is then lifted into the coffin and wrapped in a prayer shawl or sheet. Soil from Israel, if available, is placed over various parts of the body and sprinkled in the coffin. The coffin is closed and sealed; in Judaism there is traditionally no viewing of the body and no "open casket" at the funeral. If the body is not taken immediately for burial, guards or watchers known as shomrim will sit with the coffin until it is taken for burial. It is traditional to recite Psalms during this time.

Before the burial, it is common that several people speak at the start of the ceremony at the funeral home, as well as prior to burial at the gravesite. The Torah requires burial as soon as possible. This means that burial will usually take place on the same day as death, or, if not possible, the day following.

Typically, when the funeral service has ended, the mourners come forward to fill the grave. Symbolically, this gives the mourners closure as they observe the grave being filled in. One custom is for people present at the funeral to take a spade or shovel, held pointing down instead of up, to show the antithesis of death to life and that this use of the shovel is different from all other uses, to throw three shovelfuls of dirt into the grave.

Mourners traditionally make a tear in an outer garment either before the funeral or immediately after it. The tear should be on the left side for a parent, over the heart and clearly visible, and on the right side for brothers, sisters, children, and spouses. Mourners do not shower or bathe for a week, do not wear leather shoes or jewelry, men do not shave, and in many communities large wall mirrors in the mourners' home are covered. During this time distant family and friends come to visit or call the mourners to comfort them via shiva calls. Most Jewish communities have an unveiling ceremony a year after the death in which the headstone or tombstone is unveiled.

Japanese funerals

A graveyard in Tokyo

A Japanese funeral includes a wake, the cremation of the deceased, a burial in a family grave, and a periodic memorial service. Nearly all deceased Japanese are cremated. Most of these are then buried in a family grave, but the scattering of ashes has become more popular in recent years, including a burial at sea and even on rare occasions a burial in space.

A typical Japanese grave

While Japan has a mixture of Shinto and Buddhist beliefs, funerals are almost always Buddhist ceremonies. After death, the deceased's lips are moistened with water, in a ceremony called Matsugo-no-mizu, meaning "Water of the last moment." The household shrine is closed and covered with a white paper, to keep out the impure spirits of the dead. This is called Kamidana-fuji. A small table decorated with flowers, incense, and a candle is placed next to the deceased's bed. A knife may be put on the chest of the deceased to drive away evil spirits.

The relatives and the authorities are informed of the death and a death certificate is issued. Organization of the funeral is usually the responsibility of the eldest son. The body is washed and the orifices are blocked with cotton or gauze. The last clothes are usually a suit for males and a kimono for females. Make-up may also be applied to improve the appearance of the body. The body is put on dry ice in a casket, and a white kimono, sandals, six coins for the crossing of the River of three hells, and burnable items the deceased was fond of, such as cigarettes and candy, are placed in the casket. The casket is then put on an altar for the wake.

Traditional design of the envelope for condolence money

While in former times white clothes were worn for funerals, a more recent tradition is for all guests to wear black. A guest will often bring condolence money in a special black and silver decorated envelope. The guests are seated, with the next of kin closest to the front. The Buddhist priest will read a sutra. The family members will each in turn offer incense three times to the incense urn in front of the deceased. The wake ends once the priest has completed the sutra. Each departing guest is given a gift. The closest relatives may stay and keep vigil with the deceased overnight in the same room.

Cremation in Japan, illustration from 1867

The funeral is usually held on the day after the wake. The procedure is similar to the wake, and incense is offered while a priest chants a sutra. The ceremony differs slightly as the deceased receives a new Buddhist name, or kaimyō. This name supposedly prevents the return of the deceased if his name is called. At the end of the funeral ceremony, flowers may be placed in the casket before it is sealed and carried to the elaborately decorated hearse and transported to the crematorium. In some regions of Japan, the coffin is nailed shut by the mourners using a stone.

Picking the bones from the ashes, illustration from 1867

If cremated, the coffin is placed on a tray in the crematorium. The family witnesses the sliding of the body into the cremation chamber. A cremation usually takes about two hours, and the family returns at a scheduled time when the cremation has been completed. The relatives pick the bones out of the ashes and transfer them to the urn using chopsticks. The bones of the feet are picked up first, and the bones of the head last. This is to ensure that the deceased is not upside down in the urn.

Following burial, a grave monument is erected over the burial plot. The date of the erection of the grave and the name of the person who purchased it may be engraved on the side of the monument. The names of the deceased are often but not always engraved on the front of the monument. The names of the deceased may also be engraved on the left side, or on a separate stone in front of the grave. Often, the name is also written on a sotoba, a separate wooden board on a stand behind or next to the grave. These sotoba may be erected shortly after death, and new ones may be added at certain memorial services. Some graves may also have a box for business cards, where friends and relatives visiting the grave can drop their business card, informing the caretakers of the grave of the respects the visitors have paid to the deceased.

Unification funerals

According to Unification tradition, death marks the period in which one’s spirit ascends to the spiritual realm, and one’s body returns to the earth. Due to this belief, followers of the Unification tradition do not practice cremation as it prevents the body from returning to its original source. A Unification funeral, known as the Seung Hwa Ceremony, marks a celebration of the deceased’s life beginning in the spiritual world. As such, the ceremony is one of beauty, enlightenment, and joy.

The Seung Hwa Ceremony has three phases; the first, known as the Gwi Hwan Ceremony or “returning to joy,” is marked by the exchange of farewell greetings between the immediate family of the deceased and the departed spirit. The second phase marks the actual service, or the period of “ascension and harmony.” The final phase, which marks the burial of the physical body, is known as the Won Jeun Ceremony, or the “return home.”

According to custom, the casket and all garments worn by the deceased body are sanctified with Holy Salt before the body is placed inside. The body is then dressed in a white Holy Robe, and the hands adorned with white gloves. In addition to personal items, other articles to be placed in the casket include a Divine Principle book, a book of Reverend Sun Myung Moon’s speeches, and the departed’s Holy Handkerchief. Though the casket is generally left open during the ceremonies, a Unification Church flag is placed over the casket when closed. Attendees of the ceremony follow a general dress code in which women wear white and are adorned with a red flower corsage, and men wear dark blue suits with a white shirt, and carry a white flower.

An elder Unificationist often leads the services, opening with a farewell song followed by various prayers and testimonies. At the conclusion of the service, attendees offer one final bow toward the casket, in addition to lighting a stick of incense. A picture of the deceased is often present at the ceremony; this picture is to be carried to the place of burial and put in front of the casket. While at the gravesite, a shorter ceremony of prayers, songs, and sermon is conducted. The casket is lowered into the grave, with flowers placed on top by the attendees, followed by the shoveling of topsoil onto the casket by various family members. On the third day following the burial, family members return to the grave to hold the final ceremony, known as the ceremony of ascension.[2]

Other variations

East Asian funerals

In most East Asian, South Asian and many Southeast Asian cultures, the wearing of white is symbolic of death. In these societies, white or off-white robes are traditionally worn to symbolize that someone has died and can be seen worn among relatives of the deceased during a funeral ceremony. When the coffin is lowered into the ground the mourners will bow their heads and must not watch the coffin being lowered into the ground. Sometimes, some members of the procession are required to turn their backs and not look at the coffin as it is sealed, entering the carriage, removed from the carriage and entering the ground. They may also be required to wipe their faces with a white cloth. Paper money and commodities constructed out of paper and bamboo are often burnt for the deceased for use in the afterlife.

A traditional Chinese gift to the attendees upon entering is a white envelope, usually enclosing a small sum of money, a sweet, and a handkerchief, each with symbolic meaning. Chinese custom also dictates that the said sum of money should not be brought home. The sweet should be consumed that day and anything given during the funeral must not be brought home. The repetition of 'three' is common where people at the funeral may brush their hair three times or spit three times before leaving the funeral to ward off bad luck. This custom is also found in other East Asian and Southeast Asian cultures.

New Orleans Jazz funerals

Drummers at the funeral of jazz legend Danny Barker

A unique funeral tradition in the United States occurs in New Orleans, Louisiana. The unique tradition arises from African spiritual practices, French martial musical traditions, and uniquely African-American cultural influences. A typical jazz funeral begins with a march by the family, friends, and a jazz band from the home, funeral home or church to the cemetery. Throughout the march, the band plays very somber dirges. Once the final ceremony has taken place, the march proceeds from the cemetery to a gathering place, and the solemn music is replaced by loud, upbeat music and dancing where onlookers join in to celebrate the life of the deceased. This is the origin of the New Orleans dance known as the "second line." Celebrants do a dance-march, frequently raising the hats and umbrellas brought along as protection from intensely hot New Orleans weather and waving handkerchiefs (that are no longer being used to wipe away tears) above their heads.

Green funerals

Those with concerns about the effects on the environment of traditional burial or cremation may choose to be buried in a fashion more suited to their beliefs. They may choose to be buried in a coffin made of cardboard or other easily-biodegradable materials. Further, they may choose their final resting place to be in a park or woodland, known as an eco-cemetery, and may have a tree planted over their grave as a contribution to the environment and as a remembrance.

Internet funerals

A Funeral Home in North Syracuse, New York was the first funeral home to offer and broadcast a visitation and funeral "live" on the Internet. The use of a web-camera allowed relatives who could not otherwise attend services to do so from any computer. Family members and friends separated by distance, weather or circumstance can now become part of the support network by being connected electronically to such ceremonies.

Alternatives

Excarnation

A late nineteenth century engraving of a Zoroastrian Tower of Silence in Mumbai.

Rarer forms of disposal of the dead include excarnation, where the corpse is exposed to the elements. This was practiced by some groups of Native Americans and is still practiced by Zoroastrians in Bombay, where the Towers of Silence allow vultures and other carrion eating birds to dispose of the corpses. Zoroastrianism believes that fire is sacred and should not be defiled by cremating a human body. Excarnation is also practiced by some Tibetan Buddhists and is sometimes called Sky burial.

Anatomical gifts

Another way of avoiding some of the rituals and costs of a traditional funeral is for the decedent to donate some or all of her or his body to a medical school or similar institution for the purpose of instruction in anatomy, or for similar purposes. Students of medicine and osteopathy frequently study anatomy from donated cadavers; they are also useful in forensic research. Typically the remains are cremated once the students have completed their anatomy classes, and many medical schools now hold a memorial service at that time as well.

Notes

  1. Archdiocese of Milwaukee Catholic Cemeteries, The Mass of Christian Burial "Spiritual Guidance Order of Christian Funerals—Part II."
  2. Unification Tradition "Deaths, Seung Hwa Ceremony, Funerals." The Tradition, Book One Retrieved September 22, 2007.

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