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==Causes==
 
==Causes==
 
There are many different theories as to the causes of domestic violence. As with many phenomena regarding human experience, no single approach appears to cover all cases.  
 
There are many different theories as to the causes of domestic violence. As with many phenomena regarding human experience, no single approach appears to cover all cases.  
 
Identified and proposed causes include a need for power and control, a form of bullying and social learning of abuse.  Abusers' efforts to dominate their partners have been attributed to low self-esteem or feelings of inadequacy, unresolved childhood conflicts, the stress of poverty, hostility and resentment toward women ([[misogyny]]), hostility and resentment toward men ([[misandry]]), personality disorders, genetic tendencies and sociocultural influences, among other possible causative factors. Most authorities seem to agree that abusive personalities result from a combination of several factors, to varying degrees.
 
 
Factors associated with domestic violence also include [[substance abuse]], [[mental illness]], [[classism]], various political and legal characteristics such as [[authoritarianism]] and [[dehumanisation]].
 
 
"Dukes argues that all [domestic] abuse relates to men’s capacity for, and their need to, devalue women. If we can stop a man devaluing his partner, he will stop abusing her. Devaluation is defined as seeing someone in negative ways - as not being attractive, as being vicious, dangerous, threatening, ugly, boring, useless, bad. This analysis brings male violence against women back within the general domain of male violence itself. The extent to which the process of dehumanisation - the reduction of the other person to a thing that is nothing, to a valueless nothing, a contemptible nothing, a disposable nothing - has been analysed and explored by a legion of respected students of violence." [http://www.niwaf.org/Domesticviolence/dispelling_the_myths.htm Women's Aid Federation Northern Ireland]
 
 
{{See also|Civil_liberties}}
 
  
 
===Classism===
 
===Classism===
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Many experts, including Lundy Bancroft and Dr. Susan Weitzman, contend that abuse in poor families is more likely to be reported to ER staff, police and social services by victims and bystanders.  Also, low-income perpetrators are more likely to be arrested and serve time in jail than are their wealthier counterparts, who have the social and financial wherewithal to evade public exposure.<ref>Weitzman, Susan. "Not to People Like Us:  Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages," Basic Books (2000). ISBN 0465090737</ref>
Many experts, including Lundy Bancroft and Dr. Susan Weitzman, psychotherapist and author of "Not to People Like Us:  Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages," contend that abuse in poor families is more likely to be reported to ER staff, police and social services by victims and bystanders.  Also, low-income perpetrators are more likely to be arrested and serve time in jail than are their wealthier counterparts, who have the social and financial wherewithal to evade public exposure.  
 
  
 
The degree to which abuse correlates with poverty and the extent to which poverty causes abuse or abuse causes poverty are ambiguous. To date, more data on abuse has been collected from low-income than middle and upper income families.  This does not necessarily confirm that domestic violence is more prevalent among poor families than wealthier ones, only that the population most readily available for study is predominantly low-income.   
 
The degree to which abuse correlates with poverty and the extent to which poverty causes abuse or abuse causes poverty are ambiguous. To date, more data on abuse has been collected from low-income than middle and upper income families.  This does not necessarily confirm that domestic violence is more prevalent among poor families than wealthier ones, only that the population most readily available for study is predominantly low-income.   
 
It seems premature to conclude that poverty is an important ''causative'' factor in domestic violence or that domestic violence ''causes'' poverty. Poverty increases the chances that low-income populations will be identified and studied, but this has resulted in a skewed, self-selected sample that does not reflect the incidence and demographics of abuse in the population as a whole.
 
  
 
===Power and control===
 
===Power and control===
 
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A [[causality|causalist]] view of domestic violence is that it is a strategy to gain or maintain power and control over the victim.  This view is in alignment with Bancroft's "cost-benefit" theory that abuse rewards the perpetrator in ways other than, or in addition to, simply exercising power over his or her target(s). He cites evidence in support of his argument that, in most cases, abusers are quite capable of exercising control over themselves, but choose not to do so for various reasons.<ref>Bancroft, Lundy, ''Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men,'' Putnam, 2002. ISBN 0425191656</ref>
:''… power in a relationship is often a matter of perception. A person may perceive themselves to be put-upon when a less involved observer would disagree.'' {{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
A [[causality|causalist]] view of domestic violence is that it is a strategy to gain or maintain power and control over the victim.  This view is in alignment with Bancroft's "cost-benefit" theory that abuse rewards the perpetrator in ways other than, or in addition to, simply exercising power over his or her target(s). He cites evidence in support of his argument that, in most cases, abusers are quite capable of exercising control over themselves, but choose not to do so for various reasons.  
 
  
 
An alternative view is that abuse arises from powerlessness and [[Externalization|externalizing]]/[[psychological projection|projecting]] this and attempting to exercise control of the victim. It is an attempt to 'gain or maintain power and control over the victim' but even in achieving this it cannot resolve the powerlessness driving it. Such behaviours have addictive aspects leading to a [[cycle of abuse]] or [[cycle of violence|violence]]. Mutual cycles develop when each party attempts to resolve their own powerlessness in attempting to assert control.
 
An alternative view is that abuse arises from powerlessness and [[Externalization|externalizing]]/[[psychological projection|projecting]] this and attempting to exercise control of the victim. It is an attempt to 'gain or maintain power and control over the victim' but even in achieving this it cannot resolve the powerlessness driving it. Such behaviours have addictive aspects leading to a [[cycle of abuse]] or [[cycle of violence|violence]]. Mutual cycles develop when each party attempts to resolve their own powerlessness in attempting to assert control.
  
Questions of power and control are integral to the widely accepted [[Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project]]. They developed [http://www.ncdsv.org/images/Power_and_Control_wheel_NCDSV.pdf "Power and Control Wheel"] to illustrate this: it has power and control at the center, surrounded by spokes (techniques used), the titles of which include:
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=== Sex and gender ===
*Coercion and threats
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Modes of abuse are thought by some to be gendered, females tending to use more psychological and men more physical forms. The visibility of these differs markedly. However, experts who work with victims of domestic violence have noted that physical abuse is almost invariably preceded by psychological abuse. Police and hospital admission records indicate that a higher percentage of females than males seek treatment and report such crimes.
*Intimidation
 
*Emotional abuse
 
*Isolation
 
*Minimizing, denying and blaming
 
*Using children
 
*Economic abuse
 
*Male privilege
 
  
The model attempts to address abuse by one-sidedly challenging the misuse of power by the 'perpetrator'.  
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Unless or until more men identify themselves and go on record as having been abused by female partners, and in a manner whereby the nature and extent of their injuries can be clinically assessed, men will continue to be identified as the most frequent perpetrators of physical and emotional violence.
  
Critics of this model suggest that the one-sided focus is problematic as resolution can only be achieved when all participants acknowledge their responsibilities, and identify and respect mutual purpose [http://www.nuancejournal.com.au/documents/one/graves-duluth.pdf].
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==Gender differences==
  
The power wheel model is not intended to assign personal responsibility, enhance respect for mutual purpose or assist victims and perpetrators in resolving their differences. It is an informational tool designed to help individuals understand the dynamics of power operating in abusive situations and identify various methods of abuse.
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As mentioned above, there are differences in the way domestic violence is committed by and against men and women.  
  
===Bullying===
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[[Erin Pizzey]], the founder of an early women's shelter in [[Chiswick]], London, has expressed her dismay at how she believes the issue has become a gender-[[political football]], and expressed an unpopular view in her book [http://www.bennett.com/ptv/ ''Prone to Violence''] that some women in the refuge system had a predisposition to seek abusive relationships. She also expressed the view that domestic violence can occur against any vulnerable intimates, regardless of their sex. In the same book, Erin Pizzey stated that, of the first 100 women to enter the refuge, 62 were as violent, or more violent, than the men they were, allegedly, running away from.
  
Domestic violence comes as a form of [[bullying]], as a means to an end that is easier than other means. The heading on the UK National Website for Bullying in the Family states that 'Those Who Can, Do. Those Who Can't Bully.' It seems reasonable to add that those who ''won't'' prefer violence, too.{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
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There are women and men who seek to put forward the idea that abusive men are sexy. This can be shown in the media with the genre of bad boy [[romance novels]]. This promotes a culture of supporting abusive men, and of even seeing non abusive men as somehow missing something for not being abusive.
  
=== Sex and gender ===
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===Men or women as violent===
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There continues to be discussion about whether men are more abusive than women, whether men's abuse of women is worse than women's abuse of men, and whether abused men should be provided the same resources and shelters years of advocacy, money-rasing, and funding has gained for women victims.
  
Modes of abuse are thought by some to be gendered, females tending to use more psychological and men more physical forms. {{Fact|date=February 2007}} The visibility of these differs markedly.  However, experts who work with victims of domestic violence have noted that physical abuse is almost invariably preceded by psychological abuse.  Police and hospital admission records indicate that a higher percentage of females than males seek treatment and report such crimes.
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The statistics cited by Women's Aid and Ahimsa are that violence by women against men is a tiny proportion of all domestic violence is rejected by advocates for male victims of domestic violence. They claim that this finding is based in the situation that many studies report only male-on-female violence because that is all they ask about, those studies that do examine prevalence in both directions overwhelmingly find little difference by gender.  
  
Unless or until more men identify themselves and go on record as having been abused by female partners, and in a manner whereby the nature and extent of their injuries can be clinically assessed, men will continue to be identified as the most frequent perpetrators of physical and emotional violence.
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[[Martin S. Fiebert]] of the Department of Psychology at [[California State University, Long Beach]], provides an analysis of 195 scholarly investigations: 152 empirical studies and 43 analyses, which he believes demonstrate women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men.  The aggregate sample size exceeds 175,700.<ref>[http://www.menweb.org/battered/fiebertdate.htm Dating Violence] MenWeb. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref>
  
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Both men and women have been arrested and convicted of assaulting their partners in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. The bulk of these arrests have been men being arrested for assaulting women, but that has been shifting somewhat over time. Actual studies of behaviour show that whilst half of male/female intimate violence is best described as mutual brawling, a quarter is the male attacking the female and the remaining quarter being females attacking their male partner. Determining how many instances of domestic violence actually involve male victims is difficult. Male domestic violence victims may be reluctant to get help for a number of reasons.<ref>[http://www.batteredmen.com/bathelpwhymen.htm Why Men Don't Do Anything About It] MenWeb. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref> A man who calls for help may even risk being arrested as the "perpetrator" even though he was the victim.
  
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The US National Family Violence Survey has consistently indicated, in repeated surveys over more than 30 years, that women are more than twice as likely as men to initiate domestic assault, and more than twice as likely to use weapons. Other studies have demonstrated a high degree of acceptance by women of aggression against men.<ref>[http://newsvote.bbc.co.uk/mpapps/pagetools/print/news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/glasgow_and_west/5092100.stm Survey finds male abuse approval] BBC. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref>
  
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Some researchers have found a relationship between the availability of domestic violence services, improved laws and enforcement regarding domestic violence and increased access to divorce, and higher earnings for women with declines in intimate partner homicide.<ref>Laura Dugan, Daniel S. Nagin, and Richard Rosenfeld. Explaining the Decline in Intimate Partner Homicide: The Effects of Changing Domesticity, Women's Status, and Domestic Violence Resources in Homicide Studies, Vol. 3, No. 3, 187-214, 1999</ref>
  
 
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[[Gender roles]] and expectations can and do play a role in abusive situations, and exploring these roles and expectations can be helpful in addressing abusive situations, as do factors like race, class, religion, sexuality and philosophy. None of these factors cause one to abuse or another to be abused.
==Gender differences==
 
 
 
The discussion of domestic violence needs to include a discussion of the role of gender. 
 
 
 
[[Erin Pizzey]], the founder of an early women's shelter in [[Chiswick]], London, has expressed her dismay at how she believes the issue has become a gender-[[political football]], and expressed an unpopular view in her book [http://www.bennett.com/ptv/ ''Prone to Violence''] that some women in the refuge system had a predisposition to seek abusive relationships. She also expressed the view that domestic violence can occur against any vulnerable intimates, regardless of their sex. In the same book, Erin Pizzey stated that, of the first 100 women to enter the refuge, 62 were as violent, or more violent, than the men they were, allegedly, running away from.
 
 
 
There are women and men who seek to put forward the idea that abusive men are sexy. This can be shown in the media with the genre of bad boy [[romance novels]]. This promotes a culture of supporting abusive men, and of even seeing non abusive men as somehow missing something for not being abusive. {{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
 
See also the subsection "Sex and gender" in the "Causes" section of this article, and some of the statistics in the "US" subsection of the "Statistics" section.
 
  
 
===Violence against men===
 
===Violence against men===
 
 
Violence against men is the term know for violence that is committed against men by the man's intimate partner.
 
Violence against men is the term know for violence that is committed against men by the man's intimate partner.
  
Very little is known about the actual number of men who are in a domestic relationship in which they are abused or treated violently by their male or female partners. Few incidents are reported to police, and data is limited. <ref name="ipvfs">"[http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/factsheets/ipvfacts.htm Intimate Partner Violence: Fact Sheet]," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved 22 September, 2006.</ref> Dr. Richard J. Gelles contends that while "men's rights groups and some scholars" believe that "battered men are indeed a social problem worthy of attention" and that "there are as many male victims of violence as female," he states that such beliefs are "a significant distortion of well-grounded research data." <ref>http://thesafetyzone.org/everyone/gelles.html</ref> In addition, researchers Tjaden and Thoennes found that "men living with male intimate partners experience more intimate partner violence than do men who live with female intimate partners. Approximately 23 percent of the men who had lived with a man as a couple reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked by a male cohabitant, while 7.4 percent of the men who had married or lived with a woman as a couple reported such violence by a wife or female cohabitant." <ref>http://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles1/nij/181867.txt</ref>
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Very little is known about the actual number of men who are in a domestic relationship in which they are abused or treated violently by their male or female partners. Few incidents are reported to police, and data is limited.<ref name="ipvfs">"[http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/factsheets/ipvfacts.htm Intimate Partner Violence: Fact Sheet]," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved 22 September, 2006.</ref> Dr. Richard J. Gelles contends that while "men's rights groups and some scholars" believe that "battered men are indeed a social problem worthy of attention" and that "there are as many male victims of violence as female," he states that such beliefs are "a significant distortion of well-grounded research data." <ref>http://thesafetyzone.org/everyone/gelles.html</ref> In addition, researchers Tjaden and Thoennes found that "men living with male intimate partners experience more intimate partner violence than do men who live with female intimate partners. Approximately 23 percent of the men who had lived with a man as a couple reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked by a male cohabitant, while 7.4 percent of the men who had married or lived with a woman as a couple reported such violence by a wife or female cohabitant." <ref>http://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles1/nij/181867.txt</ref>
  
 
The available data indicate that:  
 
The available data indicate that:  
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There are many reasons why there isn't more information about domestic abuse and violence against men.  A major reason is the reluctance of men to report incidents to the police, unless there are substantial injuries.  Data indicate that although mutual violent behavior is quite common in intimate relationships, men are rarely seriously harmed.<p>
 
There are many reasons why there isn't more information about domestic abuse and violence against men.  A major reason is the reluctance of men to report incidents to the police, unless there are substantial injuries.  Data indicate that although mutual violent behavior is quite common in intimate relationships, men are rarely seriously harmed.<p>
 
===Men or women as violent===
 
There continues to be discussion about whether men are more abusive than women, whether men's abuse of women is worse than women's abuse of men, and whether abused men should be provided the same resources and shelters years of advocacy, money-rasing, and funding has gained for women victims.
 
 
Some psychologists claim males tend to prefer physical aggression while women tend to prefer psychological aggression.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
 
The statistics cited by Women's Aid and Ahimsa are that violence by women against men is a tiny proportion of all domestic violence is rejected by advocates for male victims of domestic violence. They claim that this finding is based in the situation that many studies report only male-on-female violence because that is all they ask about, those studies that do examine prevalence in both directions overwhelmingly find little difference by gender. This is particularly true when questions are specific: for example, men typically do not report being slapped if they are simply asked about "violence"; women do{{Fact|date=February 2007}}.
 
 
[[Martin S. Fiebert]] of the Department of Psychology at [[California State University, Long Beach]], provides an analysis of 195 scholarly investigations: 152 empirical studies and 43 analyses, which he believes demonstrate women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men.  The aggregate sample size exceeds 175,700..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
 
Studies.{{Fact|date=March 2007}} have been carried out to explore these issues, and results have seemed somewhat contradictory. A problem in conducting such studies is the amount of silence, fear and shame that results from abuse within families and relationships. Another is that abusive patterns can tend to seem normal to those who have lived in them for a length of time. Similarly, subtle forms of abuse can be quite transparent even as they set the stage for further abuse seeming normal. Finally, inconsistent definition of what domestic violence is makes definite conclusions difficult to reach when compiling the available studies.
 
 
Both men and women have been arrested and convicted of assaulting their partners in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. The bulk of these arrests have been men being arrested for assaulting women, but that has been shifting somewhat over time. Actual studies of behaviour show that whilst half of male/female intimate violence is best described as mutual brawling, a quarter is the male attacking the female and the remaining quarter being females attacking their male partner. Determining how many instances of domestic violence actually involve male victims is difficult. Male domestic violence victims may be reluctant to get help for a number of reasons (see [http://www.batteredmen.com/bathelpwhymen.htm this article]) (Article checked January 28, 2007.) A man who calls for help may even risk being arrested as the "perpetrator" even though he was the victim.
 
 
The general consensus seems to be that male on female domestic violence is more likely to result in serious injury or death, whereas female on male (which, under the definition used by the UK Government if no others, includes preventing the father seeing the children), is more likely to result in male [[suicide]].{{Fact|date=March 2007}}. Men on average have more upper body strength and socialization that predisposes them to resort to violence more than women do{{Fact|date=February 2007}}, and that can give them a higher average lethality than women. However, women can and do use weapons to equalize whatever deficit in physical power which may be present, and can also use social constraints against men hitting women even in self-defence, to provide them with sufficient lethality to be dangerous in conflict situations. The US National Family Violence Survey has consistently indicated, in repeated surveys over more than 30 years, that women are more than twice as likely as men to initiate domestic assault, and more than twice as likely to use weapons. Other [http://newsvote.bbc.co.uk/mpapps/pagetools/print/news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/glasgow_and_west/5092100.stm studies have demonstrated] a high degree of acceptance by women of aggression against men. The oft-repeated claim that all violence by women is self-defence{{Fact|date=February 2007}} has similarly been proven to be based on [[Begging the question|circular reasoning]]{{Fact|date=February 2007}}. Women also are at least as well equipped to use psychological violence that forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour (to use the Women's Aid definition given above). Women are also equally capable of using a [[Proxy representative|proxy]], which would further skew the results (since a [[proxy murder]] is not recorded as a case of domestic violence.)
 
 
In the United States, the bulk of the decrease in rates of intimate partner homicides is accounted for the dramatic decrease in women's murders of their male intimate partners.{{Fact|date=March 2007}}. Murders of female intimate partners by men have dropped, but not nearly as dramatically. (See, for example, the report Violence by Intimates from the US Bureau of Justice Statistics.) Men kill their female intimate partners at about four times the rate that women kill their male intimate partners. Research by Jacquelyn Campbell, PhD RN FAAN has found that at least two thirds of women killed by their intimate partners were battered by those men prior to the murder. She also found that when males are killed by female intimates, the women in those relationships had been abused by their male partner about 75% of the time (see [[battered person syndrome]] and [[battered woman defence]])..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
 
Some researchers.{{Fact|date=March 2007}} have found a relationship between the availability of domestic violence services, improved laws and enforcement regarding domestic violence and increased access to divorce, and higher earnings for women with declines in intimate partner homicide. (Laura Dugan, Daniel S. Nagin, and Richard Rosenfeld. Explaining the Decline in Intimate Partner Homicide: The Effects of Changing Domesticity, Women's Status, and Domestic Violence Resources in Homicide Studies, Vol. 3, No. 3, 187-214, 1999)
 
 
[[Gender roles]] and expectations can and do play a role in abusive situations, and exploring these roles and expectations can be helpful in addressing abusive situations, as do factors like race, class, religion, sexuality and philosophy. None of these factors cause one to abuse or another to be abused.
 
  
 
===Domestic violence in same-sex relationships===
 
===Domestic violence in same-sex relationships===
Domestic violence occurs in 18% of lesbian couples in the US so it appears to be gender independent.{{Fact|date=March 2007}}. In an effort to be more inclusive, many organizations have made an effort to use gender-neutral terms when referring to perpetratorship and victimhood.
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In an effort to be more inclusive, many organizations have made an effort to use gender-neutral terms when referring to perpetratorship and victimhood.
  
 
Historically domestic violence has been seen as a family issue and little interest has been directed at violence in same-sex relationships. It has not been until recently, as the [[gay rights movement]] has brought the issues of [[gay]] and [[lesbian]] people into public attention, when research has been started to conduct on same-sex relationships. Several studies have indicated that partner abuse among same-sex couples (both female and male) is relatively similar in both prevalence and dynamics to that among opposite-sex couples <ref>[http://www.purpleslurple.net/ps.php?theurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20040724085247/http://www.vaw.umn.edu/documents/glbtdv/glbtdv.html#purp557 Prevalence of DV in Same-Sex Couples comparable to Heterosexual Couples] (circa 1998)</ref> . Gays and lesbians, however, face special obstacles in dealing with the issues that some researchers have labelled "the double closet": not only do gay and lesbian people often feel that they are discriminated against and dismissed by police and social services, they are also often met with lack of support from their peers who would rather keep quiet about the problem in order not to attract negative attention toward the [[gay community]]. Also, the supportive services are mostly designed for the needs of heterosexual women and do not always meet the needs of other groups.
 
Historically domestic violence has been seen as a family issue and little interest has been directed at violence in same-sex relationships. It has not been until recently, as the [[gay rights movement]] has brought the issues of [[gay]] and [[lesbian]] people into public attention, when research has been started to conduct on same-sex relationships. Several studies have indicated that partner abuse among same-sex couples (both female and male) is relatively similar in both prevalence and dynamics to that among opposite-sex couples <ref>[http://www.purpleslurple.net/ps.php?theurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20040724085247/http://www.vaw.umn.edu/documents/glbtdv/glbtdv.html#purp557 Prevalence of DV in Same-Sex Couples comparable to Heterosexual Couples] (circa 1998)</ref> . Gays and lesbians, however, face special obstacles in dealing with the issues that some researchers have labelled "the double closet": not only do gay and lesbian people often feel that they are discriminated against and dismissed by police and social services, they are also often met with lack of support from their peers who would rather keep quiet about the problem in order not to attract negative attention toward the [[gay community]]. Also, the supportive services are mostly designed for the needs of heterosexual women and do not always meet the needs of other groups.
  
 
==Violence against children==
 
==Violence against children==
{{main|Child Abuse}}
 
{{Main|Child Welfare}}
 
 
When it comes to domestic violence towards children involving physical abuse, research in the UK by the [[NSPCC]] indicated that "most violence occurred at home (78 per cent) 40- 60% of men and women who abuse other men or women also abuse their children.[(American Psychology Association.  Violence and the Family: Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family. 1996)]. Girls whose father/mother batter their mothers/fathers are 6.5 times more likely to be sexually abused by their fathers/mothers than are girls from non-violent homes.<ref>Bowker, L.H., Arbitell, M.,& Mcferron, J.R., “On the Relationship Between Wife Beating and Child Abuse.” In K. Yllo & M. Bograd, Feminist Perspectives on Wife Abuse, Sage, 1988</ref>
 
When it comes to domestic violence towards children involving physical abuse, research in the UK by the [[NSPCC]] indicated that "most violence occurred at home (78 per cent) 40- 60% of men and women who abuse other men or women also abuse their children.[(American Psychology Association.  Violence and the Family: Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family. 1996)]. Girls whose father/mother batter their mothers/fathers are 6.5 times more likely to be sexually abused by their fathers/mothers than are girls from non-violent homes.<ref>Bowker, L.H., Arbitell, M.,& Mcferron, J.R., “On the Relationship Between Wife Beating and Child Abuse.” In K. Yllo & M. Bograd, Feminist Perspectives on Wife Abuse, Sage, 1988</ref>
  
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Activism, initiated by victim advocacy groups and feminist groups, has led to a better understanding of the scope and effect of domestic violence on victims and families, and has brought about changes in the criminal justice system's response.
 
Activism, initiated by victim advocacy groups and feminist groups, has led to a better understanding of the scope and effect of domestic violence on victims and families, and has brought about changes in the criminal justice system's response.
 
Trainer and municipal court judge Richard Russell quoted in New Jersey Law Journal. April 24, 1995: "when you say to me, am I doing something wrong telling these judges they have to ignore the constitutional protections most people have, I don't think so. The Legislature described the problem and how to address it, [and] I am doing my job properly by teaching other judges to follow the legislative mandate.....Your job is not to become concerned about all the constitutional rights of the man that you're violating as you grant a restraining order. Throw him out on the street, give him the clothes on his back and tell him, 'See ya' around.' " Moreover, Russell says there is nothing wrong with the teaching approach. Abuse victims, he says, may apply and relinquish TROs repeatedly before they finally do something about breaking away. Once they do so, he says, the Legislature's prevention goal has been met. [http://www.ancpr.org/amazing_nj_legal_journal_article.htm New Jersey Law Journal April 24, 1995]
 
 
Several projects have aided in filling the voids in the justice system as it pertains to the protection of victims.  One such initiative, The Hope Card Project, makes an attempt to remedy several problems through the issuance of an ID card to victims of abuse.  The card is used to identify both parties in a domestic violence protection order and provides additional resources to the victim through a voucher program for services. "There is no photograph on a protection order, so a photograph is a bonus, not a necessity.  There are several methods used to obtain the photograph.  Some jurisdictions have a photograph taken of the offender during the first hearing while both parties are present. Another method is for officers to take a photograph in the field or retrieve a booking photograph from their local jail.  In a lot of cases the victim brings a photograph and it is scanned.  Lastly, the new online site has some state motor vehicle department photograph databases connected for that purpose.  This is the ideal method." [http://www.hopecardproject.com/f_a_q.htm#who The Hope Card Project]
 
 
 
  
 
===Treatment and support===
 
===Treatment and support===
Publicly available resources for dealing with domestic violence have tended to be almost exclusively geared towards supporting women and children who are in relationships with or who are leaving violent men, rather than for survivors of domestic violence ''per se''. This has been due to the purported numeric preponderance of female victims and the perception that domestic violence only affected women. Resources to help men who have been using violence take responsibility for and stop their use of violence, such as Men's Behaviour Change Programs or [[anger management]] training, are available, though attendees are ordered to pay for their own course in order that they should remain accountable for their actions.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
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Publicly available resources for dealing with domestic violence have tended to be almost exclusively geared towards supporting women and children who are in relationships with or who are leaving violent men, rather than for survivors of domestic violence ''per se''. This has been due to the purported numeric preponderance of female victims and the perception that domestic violence only affected women. Resources to help men who have been using violence take responsibility for and stop their use of violence, such as Men's Behaviour Change Programs or [[anger management]] training, are available, though attendees are ordered to pay for their own course in order that they should remain accountable for their actions.
 
 
Men's organisations, such as ManKind in the UK, often see this approach as one-sided; as Report 191 by the British Home Office shows that men and women are equally culpable, they believe that there should be anger management courses for women also. They accuse organisations such as Women's Aid of bias in this respect saying that they spend millions of pounds on helping female victims of domestic violence and yet nothing on female perpetrators. These same men's organisations claim that before such help is given to female perpetrators, Women's Aid would have to admit that women are violent in the home. This they seem reluctant to do.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
  
One of the challenges for lay observers, victims, perpetrators and treatment providers is demonstrated by the tendency to describe perpetrator treatment as men's "anger management" groups.  
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Men's organisations, such as ManKind in the UK, often see this approach as one-sided; as Report 191 by the British Home Office shows that men and women are equally culpable, they believe that there should be anger management courses for women also. They accuse organisations such as Women's Aid of bias in this respect saying that they spend millions of pounds on helping female victims of domestic violence and yet nothing on female perpetrators. These same men's organisations claim that before such help is given to female perpetrators, Women's Aid would have to admit that women are violent in the home.
  
Comprehensive and accountable behaviour change programs are seen as far more appropriate and effective interventions in male violence in the home than anger management groups.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
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Inherent in anger management only approaches is the assumption that the violence is a result of a loss of control over one's anger. While there is little doubt that some domestic violence ''is'' about the loss of control, the choice of the target of that violence may be of greater significance. Anger management might be appropriate for the individual who lashes out indiscriminately when angry towards co-workers, supervisors or family. In most cases, however, the domestic violence perpetrator lashes out ''only'' at their intimate partner or relatively defenseless child, which suggests an element of choice or selection that, in turn, suggests a different or additional motivation beyond simple anger.  
  
Inherent in anger management only approaches is the assumption that the violence is a result of a loss of control over one's anger. While there is little doubt that some domestic violence ''is'' about the loss of control, the choice of the target of that violence may be of greater significance. Anger management might be appropriate for the individual who lashes out indiscriminately when angry towards co-workers, supervisors or family. In most cases, however, the domestic violence perpetrator lashes out ''only'' at their intimate partner or relatively defenseless child, which suggests an element of choice or selection that, in turn, suggests a different or additional motivation beyond simple anger. Most experienced treatment providers have probably observed that for various reasons, many of which may be cultural, the perpetrator has a sense of entitlement, sometimes conscious, sometimes not, that leads directly to their choice of target.{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
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Men's behaviour change programs, although differing throughout the world, tend to focus on the prevention of further violence within the family and the safety of women and children. Often they abide by various standards of practise that includes 'partner contact' where the participants female partner is contacted by the program and informed about the course, checked about her level of safety and support and offered support services for herself if she requires them.
 
 
Men's behaviour change programs, although differing throughout the world, tend to focus on the prevention of further violence within the family and the safety of women and children. Often they abide by various standards of practise that includes 'partner contact' where the participants female partner is contacted by the program and informed about the course, checked about her level of safety and support and offered support services for herself if she requires them. Many of these programs have both a male and female facilitator and follow a program designed to highlight the impact of his behaviour, examine the attitudes, values and behaviours that lead to his choice to use violence and aim to support and challenge the man to take responsibility for his use of violence.{{Fact|date=February 2007}}
 
  
 
===Police===
 
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Domestic violence is a significant problem. Measures of the incidence of violence in intimate relationships can differ markedly in their findings depending on the measures used. [[Statistical survey|Survey]] approaches tend to show parity in the use of violence by both men and women against partners than do approaches using data from reports of domestic violence that tends to show women experiencing violence from male partners as the majority of cases (over 80%). Further discussion of this occurs in the next section on [[#Gender differences|gender differences]].  
 
Domestic violence is a significant problem. Measures of the incidence of violence in intimate relationships can differ markedly in their findings depending on the measures used. [[Statistical survey|Survey]] approaches tend to show parity in the use of violence by both men and women against partners than do approaches using data from reports of domestic violence that tends to show women experiencing violence from male partners as the majority of cases (over 80%). Further discussion of this occurs in the next section on [[#Gender differences|gender differences]].  
  
Research based on the [[statistical survey|survey]]-based [[Conflict Tactics Scale]], a measure of intrafamily conflict and violence focusing on the adults in the family developed by Murray Straus (1979) has included national [[U.S.]] surveys on the prevalence of family violence in the and other countries. These include the two U.S. National Family Violence Surveys (Straus & Gelles, 1990), the National Violence Against Women Survey (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000), this research has tended to show men and women equally violent.
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Research based on reported domestic violence or on police records show men to be responsible for the majority of domestic violence and the high frequency of women as victims. The problem of under-reporting is believed to be substantial.
 
 
Research based on reported domestic violence or on police records show men to be responsible for the majority of domestic violence and the high frequency of women as victims.  
 
 
 
The problem of under-reporting is believed to be substantial..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
  
 
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===United Kingdom===
 
The British Crime Survey for the year 2001-2 reported, "There were an estimated 12.9 million incidents of domestic violence acts (nonsexual threats or force) against women [84%] and 2.5 million against men [16%] in England and Wales in the year prior to interview." The same report states, "Four per cent of women and two per cent of men were subject to domestic violence (non-sexual domestic threats or force) during the last year."  
 
The British Crime Survey for the year 2001-2 reported, "There were an estimated 12.9 million incidents of domestic violence acts (nonsexual threats or force) against women [84%] and 2.5 million against men [16%] in England and Wales in the year prior to interview." The same report states, "Four per cent of women and two per cent of men were subject to domestic violence (non-sexual domestic threats or force) during the last year."  
 
In the [[United Kingdom]], the [[police]] estimate that around 35% of domestic violence against women is actually reported and a 2002 [[Women's Aid]] study found that 74% of separated women suffered from post-separation violence. .{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
  
 
===United States===
 
===United States===
It is estimated that every year in the [[United States]], approximately 3 million women are assaulted by their partner. One in four women in the U.S. will be assaulted by their partner over their lifetimes..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
 
In 1998 in the U.S.,of the approximately 1.5 million violent crimes committed between intimate partners, over 874,000 of the victims were women, and over 832,000 were men.{{Fact|date=March 2007}}. Of the approximately 1,830 murders committed against intimate partners in 1998, 3 out of 4 of the victims were women. In 2001 according to the [[United States Census Bureau]] there were 691,710 non-fatal domestic violence acts committed and 1,247 fatal incidents. In homes where domestic violence occurs, children in the home are at a 300% greater risk of being abused..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
 
* 6-12% of women are abused in a given year
 
* 20-30% of women receiving welfare are current victims of Domestic Violence
 
* 30-65% of all homicides of women are related to Domestic Violence by their male partners
 
 
 
According to [http://www.mediaradar.org/media_fact_sheet.php Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting (RADAR) report]:
 
According to [http://www.mediaradar.org/media_fact_sheet.php Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting (RADAR) report]:
 
 
* Women are just as likely as men to engage in partner aggression [http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf  (Kelly 2003)]
 
* Women are just as likely as men to engage in partner aggression [http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf  (Kelly 2003)]
 
* Men experience over one-third of DV-related injuries (Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, pages 651-680)
 
* Men experience over one-third of DV-related injuries (Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, pages 651-680)
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According to Southern Connecticut State University: "In 95% of family violence cases the victims are women beaten by male partners. In 1% of the cases the reverse is true. There are an estimated 28 million battered women in the U.S., more than half of all married women in the country. In the U.S., one woman is beaten by her husband or partner every 9 seconds.  
 
According to Southern Connecticut State University: "In 95% of family violence cases the victims are women beaten by male partners. In 1% of the cases the reverse is true. There are an estimated 28 million battered women in the U.S., more than half of all married women in the country. In the U.S., one woman is beaten by her husband or partner every 9 seconds.  
Battering is the single major cause of injury to women between the ages of 15 and 44 in the U.S.; more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. 70% of the assault victims seen in the emergency room of Boston City Hospital are women who have been attacked in their own homes. 3 out of 5 women in the U.S. will be battered in their lifetime." [http://www.southernct.edu/departments/womenscenter/safe/domvio.htm Domestic Violence Facts]
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Battering is the single major cause of injury to women between the ages of 15 and 44 in the U.S.; more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. 70% of the assault victims seen in the emergency room of Boston City Hospital are women who have been attacked in their own homes. 3 out of 5 women in the U.S. will be battered in their lifetime."<ref>[http://www.southernct.edu/departments/womenscenter/safe/domvio.htm Domestic Violence Facts] Southern Connecticut University. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref>
  
Eight-five percent of these orders are issued against men [http://www.iwf.org/specialreports/specrpt_detail.asp?ArticleID=815 (Young, Independent Women’s Forum, 2005)]. Family judges often issue orders of protection or restraining orders in the absence of any direct threat of harm [http://pegasus.rutgers.edu/~review/ (Heleniak, Rutgers Law Review, Spring 2005)]. Often these orders are used as "part of the gamesmanship of divorce." ([http://www.isba.org/IBJ/home.asp Kasper, Illinois Bar Journal, June 2005] and [http://www.law.com/jsp/nj/index.jsp Kiernan, New Jersey Law Journal, April 1988])
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Eight-five percent of these orders are issued against men <ref>[http://www.iwf.org/specialreports/specrpt_detail.asp?ArticleID=815 Domestic Violence: An In-Depth Analysis] Independent Women’s Forum. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref> 
  
New research published in the [http://www.apa.org/journals/fam/description.html Journal of Family Psychology] says that contrary to media and public opinion women commit more acts of violence than men in eleven categories: throw something, push, grab, shove, slap, kick, bite, hit or threaten a partner with a knife or gun. The study, which is based on interviews with 1,615 married or cohabiting couples and extrapolated nationally using census data, found that 21 percent of couples reported domestic violence. [http://www.washingtontimes.com/culture/20060511-112526-4029r.htm The Washington Times confirms study.]
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New research published in the [http://www.apa.org/journals/fam/description.html Journal of Family Psychology] says that contrary to media and public opinion women commit more acts of violence than men in eleven categories: throw something, push, grab, shove, slap, kick, bite, hit or threaten a partner with a knife or gun. The study, which is based on interviews with 1,615 married or cohabiting couples and extrapolated nationally using census data, found that 21 percent of couples reported domestic violence.<ref>[http://www.washingtontimes.com/culture/20060511-112526-4029r.htm Family violence soars.] The Washington Times. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref>
 
 
Dr. Gerald P. Koocher, American Psychology Association President, [http://www.apa.org/monitor/oct06/pc.html stated October 2006] that "psychological science is not politically correct." He adds, "Several studies of domestic violence have suggested that males and females in relationships have an equal likelihood of acting out physical aggression, although differing in tactics and potential for causing injury (e.g., women assailants will more likely throw something, slap, kick, bite, or punch their partner, or hit them with an object, while males will more likely beat up their partners, and choke or strangle them)."
 
  
 
===Australia===
 
===Australia===
Recent findings - 2006 - from the * [http://www.abs.gov.au/AUSSTATS/abs@.nsf/DetailsPage/4906.02005?OpenDocument Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey]show that overall, more males than females are victims of physical assault (10.8% vs 5.8%). However, women are most at risk of assault in the home and from men they know, while men are most at risk of assault in public spaces and from men they don’t know. Among the large numbers of men physically assaulted each year, close to 70 per cent were assaulted by strangers. Less than five per cent were assaulted by a female partner or ex-partner. In contrast, among the female victims of physical assault, 31 per cent were assaulted by a male partner or ex-partner (Table 16, p. 30). Thirty per cent of people who had experienced violence by a current partner since the age of 15 were male, while seventy per cent were female (Table 2, p.16).
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Recent findings - 2006 - from the Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey show that overall, more males than females are victims of physical assault (10.8% vs 5.8%).<ref>[http://www.abs.gov.au/AUSSTATS/abs@.nsf/DetailsPage/4906.02005?OpenDocument Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey] Australian Bureau of Statistics. Retrieved March 30, 2007.</ref> However, women are most at risk of assault in the home and from men they know, while men are most at risk of assault in public spaces and from men they don’t know. Among the large numbers of men physically assaulted each year, close to 70 per cent were assaulted by strangers. Less than five per cent were assaulted by a female partner or ex-partner. In contrast, among the female victims of physical assault, 31 per cent were assaulted by a male partner or ex-partner (Table 16, p. 30). Thirty per cent of people who had experienced violence by a current partner since the age of 15 were male, while seventy per cent were female (Table 2, p.16).
  
 
[[Men's rights]] activists and others supporting male victims argue that there is a range of socialization related factors that would lead to very high levels of under-reporting by male victims. They also argue that until recently, very few studies asked about female-on-male (or female-on-female) domestic violence; so while these figures are appallingly high, the prevalence of violence against men is typically not included in the figures.
 
[[Men's rights]] activists and others supporting male victims argue that there is a range of socialization related factors that would lead to very high levels of under-reporting by male victims. They also argue that until recently, very few studies asked about female-on-male (or female-on-female) domestic violence; so while these figures are appallingly high, the prevalence of violence against men is typically not included in the figures.
 
===Cost===
 
In the U.S., between 3 and 5 billion dollars are spent annually on medical expenses related to domestic violence. Also, approximately 100 million dollars is lost by businesses annually though lost productivity, sick leave and absenteeism due to domestic violence..{{Fact|date=March 2007}}
 
  
 
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Domestic violence (also domestic abuse) is physical, sexual, economic, or psychological abuse directed towards one’s spouse, partner, or other family member within the household. There are a number of dimensions:

  • mode - physical, psychological, sexual and/or social
  • frequency - on/off, occasional, chronic
  • severity – in terms of both psychological or physical harm and the need for treatment – transitory or permanent injury – mild, moderate, severe up to homicide

Domestic violence occurs in all cultures; people of all races, ethnicities, religions, and classes can be perpetrators of domestic violence. Domestic violence is perpetrated by, and on, both men and women, and occurs in same-sex and opposite-sex relationships.

Types

M.P. Johnson (1995, 2006b) argues for three major types of intimate partner violence. The typology is confirmed in research by Johnson and his colleagues as well as independent researchers.[1] The first is intimate terrorism (or "patriarchal terrorism") where one partner uses violence along with emotional and psychological abuse to maintain control over the other. In heterosexual relationships, the perpetrator is most often the male partner. It is more likely than other types to be frequent and to escalate in seriousness. Intimate terrorism is much less common than situational couple violence, but probably dominates samples collected from agencies (police, courts, hospitals).

The second type is violent resistance is violence used in resistance to an intimate terrorist. Sometimes it is self-defensive, sometimes more like payback, sometimes the act of an entrapped victim who sees no other way to escape a violently abusive relationship.

The third type is situational couple violence arises out of conflicts that escalate to arguments and then to violence. It is not connected to a general pattern of control. Although on average it occurs less frequently in the relationship and is less serious than intimaet terrroirsm, in some cases it can be frequent and/or quite serious, even life-threatening. This is probably the most common type of intimate partner violence and dominates general surveys, student samples, and even marriage counseling samples.

The fourth type identified by Johnson is infrequent and some scholars question its existence:

Physical violence

Physical violence is the intentional use of physical force with the potential for causing injury, harm, disability, or death, for example, hitting, shoving, biting, restraint, kicking, or use of a weapon.

Sexual violence and incest

Sexual violence and incest are divided into three categories:

  1. use of physical force to compel a person to engage in a sexual act against their will, whether or not the act is completed;
  2. attempted or completed sex act involving a person who is unable to understand the nature or condition of the act, unable to decline participation, or unable to communicate unwillingness to engage in the sexual act, e.g., because of illness, disability, or the influence of alcohol or other drugs, or because of intimidation or pressure; and
  3. abusive sexual contact.

Psychological violence

Threats of physical, psychological or sexual, or social violence that use words, gestures, or weapons to communicate the intent to cause death, disability, injury, physical, or psychological harm.

Psychological/emotional violence involves violence to the victim caused by acts, threats of acts, or coercive tactics. Psychological/emotional abuse can include, but is not limited to, humiliating the victim, controlling what the victim can and cannot do, withholding information from the victim, deliberately doing something to make the victim feel diminished or embarrassed, isolating the victim from friends and family, and denying the victim access to money or other basic resources. It is considered psychological/emotional violence when there has been prior physical or sexual violence or prior threat of physical or sexual violence. Perpetrators of this form of domestic aggression can be both users and abuser, both female and male. "The abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the media, teachers in short, third parties to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target." [2]

Relational aggression is a form of psychological/social aggression that uses various forms of falsehood, secrecy and gossip to commit covert violence. It is often a spectacularly successful tactic because so few people know how to detect it. It is often used because it is covert, leaves no visible scars and can be done with a smile. It destroys or damages the target's reputation and ruins the target's relationships. "It is the outcome of fear. Fear of violence, fear of the unknown, fear of the unpredictable, the capricious, and the arbitrary. It is perpetrated by dropping subtle hints, by disorienting, by constant and unnecessary lying, by persistent doubting and demeaning, and by inspiring an air of unmitigated gloom and doom."[3]

Parental alienation is another form of covert violence where children are used as a weapon of war by one parent to alienate the other parent. This covert form of domestic violence is used in high-conflict marriages. It is often devastating to the alienated spouse/parent and to the alienating/alienated children caught in the middle. Misdiagnoses of Parental Alienation can also be devastating — this time to the parent accurately describing abuse and to the child that is placed with the abusive parent. In effect, it uses innocent, unwitting children to commit relational aggression by one parent against the other. "The abuser often recruits his children to do his bidding. He uses them to tempt, convince, communicate, threaten, and otherwise manipulate his target, the children's other parent or a devoted relative (e.g., grandparents). He controls his - often gullible and unsuspecting - offspring exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done - which causes tremendous (and, typically, irreversible) emotional hurt."[4]

Economic abuse

Economic abuse is when the abuser has complete control over the victim's money and other economic resources. Usually, this involves putting the victim on a strict 'allowance', withholding money at will and forcing the victim to beg for the money until the abuser gives them some money. It is common for the victim to receive less money as the abuse continues.

This also includes (but is not limited to) preventing the victim from finishing education or obtaining employment.

Stalking

In addition, stalking is often included among the types of Intimate Partner Violence. Stalking generally refers to repeated behaviour that causes victims to feel a high level of fear.[5] However, psychiatrist William Glasser states that fear and all other emotions are self-caused as evidenced by the wide range of emotions two different subjects might have in response to the same incident.

Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse includes using the spouse’s or intimate partner’s religious or spiritual beliefs to manipulate them, preventing the partner from practicing their religious or spiritual beliefs, or ridiculing the other person’s religious or spiritual beliefs.

Causes

There are many different theories as to the causes of domestic violence. As with many phenomena regarding human experience, no single approach appears to cover all cases.

Classism

Many experts, including Lundy Bancroft and Dr. Susan Weitzman, contend that abuse in poor families is more likely to be reported to ER staff, police and social services by victims and bystanders. Also, low-income perpetrators are more likely to be arrested and serve time in jail than are their wealthier counterparts, who have the social and financial wherewithal to evade public exposure.[6]

The degree to which abuse correlates with poverty and the extent to which poverty causes abuse or abuse causes poverty are ambiguous. To date, more data on abuse has been collected from low-income than middle and upper income families. This does not necessarily confirm that domestic violence is more prevalent among poor families than wealthier ones, only that the population most readily available for study is predominantly low-income.

Power and control

A causalist view of domestic violence is that it is a strategy to gain or maintain power and control over the victim. This view is in alignment with Bancroft's "cost-benefit" theory that abuse rewards the perpetrator in ways other than, or in addition to, simply exercising power over his or her target(s). He cites evidence in support of his argument that, in most cases, abusers are quite capable of exercising control over themselves, but choose not to do so for various reasons.[7]

An alternative view is that abuse arises from powerlessness and externalizing/projecting this and attempting to exercise control of the victim. It is an attempt to 'gain or maintain power and control over the victim' but even in achieving this it cannot resolve the powerlessness driving it. Such behaviours have addictive aspects leading to a cycle of abuse or violence. Mutual cycles develop when each party attempts to resolve their own powerlessness in attempting to assert control.

Sex and gender

Modes of abuse are thought by some to be gendered, females tending to use more psychological and men more physical forms. The visibility of these differs markedly. However, experts who work with victims of domestic violence have noted that physical abuse is almost invariably preceded by psychological abuse. Police and hospital admission records indicate that a higher percentage of females than males seek treatment and report such crimes.

Unless or until more men identify themselves and go on record as having been abused by female partners, and in a manner whereby the nature and extent of their injuries can be clinically assessed, men will continue to be identified as the most frequent perpetrators of physical and emotional violence.

Gender differences

As mentioned above, there are differences in the way domestic violence is committed by and against men and women.

Erin Pizzey, the founder of an early women's shelter in Chiswick, London, has expressed her dismay at how she believes the issue has become a gender-political football, and expressed an unpopular view in her book Prone to Violence that some women in the refuge system had a predisposition to seek abusive relationships. She also expressed the view that domestic violence can occur against any vulnerable intimates, regardless of their sex. In the same book, Erin Pizzey stated that, of the first 100 women to enter the refuge, 62 were as violent, or more violent, than the men they were, allegedly, running away from.

There are women and men who seek to put forward the idea that abusive men are sexy. This can be shown in the media with the genre of bad boy romance novels. This promotes a culture of supporting abusive men, and of even seeing non abusive men as somehow missing something for not being abusive.

Men or women as violent

There continues to be discussion about whether men are more abusive than women, whether men's abuse of women is worse than women's abuse of men, and whether abused men should be provided the same resources and shelters years of advocacy, money-rasing, and funding has gained for women victims.

The statistics cited by Women's Aid and Ahimsa are that violence by women against men is a tiny proportion of all domestic violence is rejected by advocates for male victims of domestic violence. They claim that this finding is based in the situation that many studies report only male-on-female violence because that is all they ask about, those studies that do examine prevalence in both directions overwhelmingly find little difference by gender.

Martin S. Fiebert of the Department of Psychology at California State University, Long Beach, provides an analysis of 195 scholarly investigations: 152 empirical studies and 43 analyses, which he believes demonstrate women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men. The aggregate sample size exceeds 175,700.[8]

Both men and women have been arrested and convicted of assaulting their partners in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. The bulk of these arrests have been men being arrested for assaulting women, but that has been shifting somewhat over time. Actual studies of behaviour show that whilst half of male/female intimate violence is best described as mutual brawling, a quarter is the male attacking the female and the remaining quarter being females attacking their male partner. Determining how many instances of domestic violence actually involve male victims is difficult. Male domestic violence victims may be reluctant to get help for a number of reasons.[9] A man who calls for help may even risk being arrested as the "perpetrator" even though he was the victim.

The US National Family Violence Survey has consistently indicated, in repeated surveys over more than 30 years, that women are more than twice as likely as men to initiate domestic assault, and more than twice as likely to use weapons. Other studies have demonstrated a high degree of acceptance by women of aggression against men.[10]

Some researchers have found a relationship between the availability of domestic violence services, improved laws and enforcement regarding domestic violence and increased access to divorce, and higher earnings for women with declines in intimate partner homicide.[11]

Gender roles and expectations can and do play a role in abusive situations, and exploring these roles and expectations can be helpful in addressing abusive situations, as do factors like race, class, religion, sexuality and philosophy. None of these factors cause one to abuse or another to be abused.

Violence against men

Violence against men is the term know for violence that is committed against men by the man's intimate partner.

Very little is known about the actual number of men who are in a domestic relationship in which they are abused or treated violently by their male or female partners. Few incidents are reported to police, and data is limited.[12] Dr. Richard J. Gelles contends that while "men's rights groups and some scholars" believe that "battered men are indeed a social problem worthy of attention" and that "there are as many male victims of violence as female," he states that such beliefs are "a significant distortion of well-grounded research data." [13] In addition, researchers Tjaden and Thoennes found that "men living with male intimate partners experience more intimate partner violence than do men who live with female intimate partners. Approximately 23 percent of the men who had lived with a man as a couple reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked by a male cohabitant, while 7.4 percent of the men who had married or lived with a woman as a couple reported such violence by a wife or female cohabitant." [14]

The available data indicate that:

  • 3.2 million men experience "minor" abuse (such as "pushing, grabbing, shoving, slapping, and hitting") per year.[12]
  • In the United States, approximately 800,000 men per year (3.2%) are raped or physically assaulted by their partner.[12]
  • At least 371,000 men are stalked annually.[12]
  • 3% of nonfatal violence against men stems from domestic violence.[12]
  • In 2002, men comprised 24% of domestic violence homicide victims.[12]
  • Over 20 years, the instances of homicide from domestic violence against men decreased by approximately 67%.[12]
  • Approximately 22% of men have experienced physical, sexual, or psychological intimate partner violence during their life.[12]

There are many reasons why there isn't more information about domestic abuse and violence against men. A major reason is the reluctance of men to report incidents to the police, unless there are substantial injuries. Data indicate that although mutual violent behavior is quite common in intimate relationships, men are rarely seriously harmed.

Domestic violence in same-sex relationships

In an effort to be more inclusive, many organizations have made an effort to use gender-neutral terms when referring to perpetratorship and victimhood.

Historically domestic violence has been seen as a family issue and little interest has been directed at violence in same-sex relationships. It has not been until recently, as the gay rights movement has brought the issues of gay and lesbian people into public attention, when research has been started to conduct on same-sex relationships. Several studies have indicated that partner abuse among same-sex couples (both female and male) is relatively similar in both prevalence and dynamics to that among opposite-sex couples [15] . Gays and lesbians, however, face special obstacles in dealing with the issues that some researchers have labelled "the double closet": not only do gay and lesbian people often feel that they are discriminated against and dismissed by police and social services, they are also often met with lack of support from their peers who would rather keep quiet about the problem in order not to attract negative attention toward the gay community. Also, the supportive services are mostly designed for the needs of heterosexual women and do not always meet the needs of other groups.

Violence against children

When it comes to domestic violence towards children involving physical abuse, research in the UK by the NSPCC indicated that "most violence occurred at home (78 per cent) 40- 60% of men and women who abuse other men or women also abuse their children.[(American Psychology Association. Violence and the Family: Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family. 1996)]. Girls whose father/mother batter their mothers/fathers are 6.5 times more likely to be sexually abused by their fathers/mothers than are girls from non-violent homes.[16]

Response to domestic violence

The response to domestic violence is typically a combined effort between law enforcement agencies, the courts, social service agencies and corrections/probation agencies. The role of each has evolved as domestic violence has been brought more into public view. Historically, law enforcement agencies, the courts and corrections agencies treated domestic violence as a personal matter. For example, police officers were often reluctant to intervene by making an arrest, and often chose instead to simply counsel the couple and/or ask one of the parties to leave the residence for a period of time. The courts were reluctant to impose any significant sanctions on those convicted of domestic violence, largely because it was viewed as a misdemeanour offense. This mindset of treating family violence as a personal problem of minor consequence permeated the system's response, and potentially allowed the perpetrator to continue acting violently. Another response, while infrequent and ill regarded, is the homicide of the abuser by the abused, where the abused is usually a woman. The mindset of treating domestic violence as a family issue is brought into this aspect of domestic violence as well, ensuring that the women who kill their husbands/boyfriends/abusers are marginalized in society and usually thrown in prison for homicide or manslaughter.

Activism, initiated by victim advocacy groups and feminist groups, has led to a better understanding of the scope and effect of domestic violence on victims and families, and has brought about changes in the criminal justice system's response.

Treatment and support

Publicly available resources for dealing with domestic violence have tended to be almost exclusively geared towards supporting women and children who are in relationships with or who are leaving violent men, rather than for survivors of domestic violence per se. This has been due to the purported numeric preponderance of female victims and the perception that domestic violence only affected women. Resources to help men who have been using violence take responsibility for and stop their use of violence, such as Men's Behaviour Change Programs or anger management training, are available, though attendees are ordered to pay for their own course in order that they should remain accountable for their actions.

Men's organisations, such as ManKind in the UK, often see this approach as one-sided; as Report 191 by the British Home Office shows that men and women are equally culpable, they believe that there should be anger management courses for women also. They accuse organisations such as Women's Aid of bias in this respect saying that they spend millions of pounds on helping female victims of domestic violence and yet nothing on female perpetrators. These same men's organisations claim that before such help is given to female perpetrators, Women's Aid would have to admit that women are violent in the home.

Inherent in anger management only approaches is the assumption that the violence is a result of a loss of control over one's anger. While there is little doubt that some domestic violence is about the loss of control, the choice of the target of that violence may be of greater significance. Anger management might be appropriate for the individual who lashes out indiscriminately when angry towards co-workers, supervisors or family. In most cases, however, the domestic violence perpetrator lashes out only at their intimate partner or relatively defenseless child, which suggests an element of choice or selection that, in turn, suggests a different or additional motivation beyond simple anger.

Men's behaviour change programs, although differing throughout the world, tend to focus on the prevention of further violence within the family and the safety of women and children. Often they abide by various standards of practise that includes 'partner contact' where the participants female partner is contacted by the program and informed about the course, checked about her level of safety and support and offered support services for herself if she requires them.

Police

From the perspective of the police, who are often the first to investigate domestic violence incidents, one of the problems is that the definitions of domestic violence include acts that are not themselves crimes. The London Metropolitan Police has nevertheless compiled a list of the crimes [1] which typically can occur when domestic violence occurs. They are:

  • Murder/attempted murder/murder in English law
  • Manslaughter/manslaughter in English law
  • Rape
  • Indecent assault
  • Grievous bodily harm/wounding
  • Actual bodily harm
  • Common assault
  • Threats to kill
  • Affray
  • Threatening behaviour
  • Harassment
  • Blackmail
  • False imprisonment
  • Kidnapping
  • Criminal damage
  • Malicious communications
  • Witness intimidation
  • Obstruction of justice
  • Conspiracy to pervert the course of justice

The UK Crown Prosecution Service publishes guidance for prosecution in cases of alleged domestic violence. [2]

Statistics

Domestic violence is a significant problem. Measures of the incidence of violence in intimate relationships can differ markedly in their findings depending on the measures used. Survey approaches tend to show parity in the use of violence by both men and women against partners than do approaches using data from reports of domestic violence that tends to show women experiencing violence from male partners as the majority of cases (over 80%). Further discussion of this occurs in the next section on gender differences.

Research based on reported domestic violence or on police records show men to be responsible for the majority of domestic violence and the high frequency of women as victims. The problem of under-reporting is believed to be substantial.

Europe

A Council of Europe study (1992) found that 1 in 4 women experience domestic violence over their lifetimes and between 6-10% of women suffer domestic violence in a given year.

United Kingdom

The British Crime Survey for the year 2001-2 reported, "There were an estimated 12.9 million incidents of domestic violence acts (nonsexual threats or force) against women [84%] and 2.5 million against men [16%] in England and Wales in the year prior to interview." The same report states, "Four per cent of women and two per cent of men were subject to domestic violence (non-sexual domestic threats or force) during the last year."

United States

According to Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting (RADAR) report:

  • Women are just as likely as men to engage in partner aggression (Kelly 2003)
  • Men experience over one-third of DV-related injuries (Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, pages 651-680)
  • Men are far less likely to report DV incidents than women (Stets and Straus 1990)
  • The myths about domestic violence are numerous (Gelles 1995)
  • Many of these myths are based on DV studies that use biased survey methods (Arriaga and Oskamp 1999)

According to Southern Connecticut State University: "In 95% of family violence cases the victims are women beaten by male partners. In 1% of the cases the reverse is true. There are an estimated 28 million battered women in the U.S., more than half of all married women in the country. In the U.S., one woman is beaten by her husband or partner every 9 seconds. Battering is the single major cause of injury to women between the ages of 15 and 44 in the U.S.; more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. 70% of the assault victims seen in the emergency room of Boston City Hospital are women who have been attacked in their own homes. 3 out of 5 women in the U.S. will be battered in their lifetime."[17]

Eight-five percent of these orders are issued against men [18]

New research published in the Journal of Family Psychology says that contrary to media and public opinion women commit more acts of violence than men in eleven categories: throw something, push, grab, shove, slap, kick, bite, hit or threaten a partner with a knife or gun. The study, which is based on interviews with 1,615 married or cohabiting couples and extrapolated nationally using census data, found that 21 percent of couples reported domestic violence.[19]

Australia

Recent findings - 2006 - from the Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey show that overall, more males than females are victims of physical assault (10.8% vs 5.8%).[20] However, women are most at risk of assault in the home and from men they know, while men are most at risk of assault in public spaces and from men they don’t know. Among the large numbers of men physically assaulted each year, close to 70 per cent were assaulted by strangers. Less than five per cent were assaulted by a female partner or ex-partner. In contrast, among the female victims of physical assault, 31 per cent were assaulted by a male partner or ex-partner (Table 16, p. 30). Thirty per cent of people who had experienced violence by a current partner since the age of 15 were male, while seventy per cent were female (Table 2, p.16).

Men's rights activists and others supporting male victims argue that there is a range of socialization related factors that would lead to very high levels of under-reporting by male victims. They also argue that until recently, very few studies asked about female-on-male (or female-on-female) domestic violence; so while these figures are appallingly high, the prevalence of violence against men is typically not included in the figures.

Footnotes

  1. (Johnson, 2006a; Leone et al. 2003, 2004; Graham-Kevan & Archer, 2003a, 2003b; Rosen et al. 2005
  2. Abuse By Proxy
  3. Ambient Abuse
  4. Leveraging the Children
  5. Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000
  6. Weitzman, Susan. "Not to People Like Us: Hidden Abuse in Upscale Marriages," Basic Books (2000). ISBN 0465090737
  7. Bancroft, Lundy, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, Putnam, 2002. ISBN 0425191656
  8. Dating Violence MenWeb. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  9. Why Men Don't Do Anything About It MenWeb. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  10. Survey finds male abuse approval BBC. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  11. Laura Dugan, Daniel S. Nagin, and Richard Rosenfeld. Explaining the Decline in Intimate Partner Homicide: The Effects of Changing Domesticity, Women's Status, and Domestic Violence Resources in Homicide Studies, Vol. 3, No. 3, 187-214, 1999
  12. 12.0 12.1 12.2 12.3 12.4 12.5 12.6 12.7 "Intimate Partner Violence: Fact Sheet," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved 22 September, 2006.
  13. http://thesafetyzone.org/everyone/gelles.html
  14. http://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles1/nij/181867.txt
  15. Prevalence of DV in Same-Sex Couples comparable to Heterosexual Couples (circa 1998)
  16. Bowker, L.H., Arbitell, M.,& Mcferron, J.R., “On the Relationship Between Wife Beating and Child Abuse.” In K. Yllo & M. Bograd, Feminist Perspectives on Wife Abuse, Sage, 1988
  17. Domestic Violence Facts Southern Connecticut University. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  18. Domestic Violence: An In-Depth Analysis Independent Women’s Forum. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  19. Family violence soars. The Washington Times. Retrieved March 30, 2007.
  20. Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey Australian Bureau of Statistics. Retrieved March 30, 2007.

References and further reading

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  • Most cruel and unusual, Amba Salelkar writes in Indlaw, 2006.
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  • Dutton, Donald, The Batterer: A Psychological Profile, Basic Books, 1997.
  • DVstats.com — Search engine of academic research on domestic violence against males
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  • Violence by Intimates report US Bureau of Justice Statistics
  • Schafly, P. (2006). Laughing at Restraining Orders
  • Singer, Songwriter, Actor Paul Williams has set up a page with information and links for those who are in abusive relationships or know of someone who may be.
  • Young, C. (2005) Domestic Violence: An In-Depth Analysis. Independent Women’s Forum

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